My 14yo daughter

nicsflyingcircus

Is 5'9 and 1/2" tall and weighs roughly 120lbs. She is still growing and hasn't started her menses yet. She has made a conscious decision to not eat meat, but did not eliminate fish, dairy or eggs from her diet. For general health and growth, I believe she is getting sufficient protein, though obviously I am not tracking her macros.

However, she made the JV volleyball team and part of her physical training is weight based, under the supervision of two certified trainers. I guess all that prelude leads up to my question: Is there any reason she couldn't use a protein powder to increase her general intake? Obviously she is not looking to bulk, but she does want to build strength and can get frustrated with what she perceives as her general lack thereof.

Thanks

British56

This needs monitoring as this is exactly how eating disorders begin and having worked in that field for over 12 years have witnessed it far too often. She is already a low weight for her height.

annette_15

Certainly no reason not to

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ironanimal

Building some muscle certainly won't hurt at that weight, and she'll gain a bit of fat along with it, and yeah a shake or two a day is fine if she's eating a varied diet otherwise.

Please do not use the word BULK in any conversation with her, ever, btw.

nicsflyingcircus

This needs monitoring as this is exactly how eating disorders begin and having worked in that field for over 12 years have witnessed it far too often. She is already a low weight for her height.

Who the heck are you to say she is getting started on an eating disorder? She eats a wide variety of foods and has grown rapidly. BMI is calculate somewhat differently for children than for adults and her BMI is 17.7 which puts her in the 26th percentile for her height and weight. I did not say she wanted to lose weight, in fact, I said the exact opposite, in that she wants to gain muscle.

What is wrong with you?

nicsflyingcircus

Building some muscle certainly won't hurt at that weight, and she'll gain a bit of fat along with it, and yeah a shake or two a day is fine if she's eating a varied diet otherwise.

Please do not use the word BULK in any conversation with her, ever, btw.

I have my own weight problems, obviously, but I have been very careful not to project that onto my children, lol. They are fit, active little buggers. But thanks for your input.

nicsflyingcircus

have you asked her why she chose to not eat meat? If it is for ethical reasons I would support her choice and love of animals.

Research healthy ways for her to przctice being plant based, alternate sources of proteins, and talk to her pediatrician.

She sounds slender. I would not worry to much about that yet, the onset of puberty and menstration may give her the weight she needs soon enough.

In the mean time keep peanuts and greek yogurt, nut milks enriched with proteins and calciums available to her.

If she is passionate about not eating meat for ethical reasons support her because having a passion at any age is so important.

Yes, we have discussed her reasons for not eating meat, and part of the decision making process involved research about how to eat balanced (protein mostly), while giving up mammalian meat. I am not worried about her weight, that was not the point of this post at all, lol

Itskaleena

Protein poeder won't hurt. If she is still eating dairy and fish along with the protein powder she should be getting enough protein.
Just make sure she is eating enough to support her activity. Do not have her track calories though that could start eating issues( I know from experience ).

_Zardoz_

This needs monitoring as this is exactly how eating disorders begin and having worked in that field for over 12 years have witnessed it far too often. She is already a low weight for her height.

So becoming a Vegetarian is how Eds start. Now that's a bit silly and just nonsense.

There is absolutely no reason that she wont get plenty of protein from her general diet. It is infact very difficult not to get enough protein. I was a Vegetarian from the age of 14 for 15 years and then I have been Vegan since I have never had any issues. There is huge amounts of protein scaremongering around. if you have any real worries speak to a Doctor or Dietitian.

Good natural sources of Vegetarian Protein

http://www.nomeatathlete.com/vegetarian-protein/

scode83

In my non-expert opinion that all sounds fine, nothing wrong at all with not wanting to eat meat - especially if she's eating a good amount of other sources. I can't see anything there that suggests the beginning of an eating disorder as that other poster strangely put it, just someone who's decided something isn't for them. As the previous poster said, just don't put it over as 'bulking' - call it 'strengthening'.

TavistockToad

Is 5'9 and 1/2" tall and weighs roughly 120lbs. She is still growing and hasn't started her menses yet. She has made a conscious decision to not eat meat, but did not eliminate fish, dairy or eggs from her diet. For general health and growth, I believe she is getting sufficient protein, though obviously I am not tracking her macros.

However, she made the JV volleyball team and part of her physical training is weight based, under the supervision of two certified trainers. I guess all that prelude leads up to my question: Is there any reason she couldn't use a protein powder to increase her general intake? Obviously she is not looking to bulk, but she does want to build strength and can get frustrated with what she perceives as her general lack thereof.

Thanks

Why 'obviously' is she trying not to bulk? Adding a bit of muscle and fat would do her no harm...

nicsflyingcircus

Protein poeder won't hurt. If she is still eating dairy and fish along with the protein powder she should be getting enough protein.
Just make sure she is eating enough to support her activity. Do not have her track calories though that could start eating issues( I know from experience ).

Oh yeah, no tracking calories. As I said, I am not tracking that stuff and neither is she.

Thanks to all the posters with helpful answers vs trying to diagnose my kid with a problem she does not have over the internet.

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nicsflyingcircus

Is 5'9 and 1/2" tall and weighs roughly 120lbs. She is still growing and hasn't started her menses yet. She has made a conscious decision to not eat meat, but did not eliminate fish, dairy or eggs from her diet. For general health and growth, I believe she is getting sufficient protein, though obviously I am not tracking her macros.

However, she made the JV volleyball team and part of her physical training is weight based, under the supervision of two certified trainers. I guess all that prelude leads up to my question: Is there any reason she couldn't use a protein powder to increase her general intake? Obviously she is not looking to bulk, but she does want to build strength and can get frustrated with what she perceives as her general lack thereof.

Thanks

Why 'obviously' is she trying not to bulk? Adding a bit of muscle and fat would do her no harm...

Maybe I am using the incorrect terminology here. She wants to get stronger and add muscle, I meant bulk in the sense of bodybuilding type physique, sorry.

williams969

I don't think there's anything wrong with incorporating protein shakes or "meal replacement" drinks to help her keep up with fuel demands of a higher activity level. Of course, check with her physician and perhaps even the trainers have insight into what additional fuel needs she may need.

Tell her she's AWESOME for getting into a great sport (Some bias here-I *loved* volleyball in HS! So many good memories). It's work, she'll do great with what sounds like a great support team to help her gain strength and sportsmanship!:flowerforyou:

scode83

Protein poeder won't hurt. If she is still eating dairy and fish along with the protein powder she should be getting enough protein.
Just make sure she is eating enough to support her activity. Do not have her track calories though that could start eating issues( I know from experience ).

Oh yeah, no tracking calories. As I said, I am not tracking that stuff and neither is she.

Thanks to all the posters with helpful answers vs trying to diagnose my kid with a problem she does not have over the internet.

This is the drawback with forums - half the people on it are amateur doctors. I've been 'diagnosed' with an eating disorder so many times.

"Hi, I just want to ask if I sho"

"EATING DISORDER, GET HELP!"

Literally like that.

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DeguelloTex

Is 5'9 and 1/2" tall and weighs roughly 120lbs. She is still growing and hasn't started her menses yet. She has made a conscious decision to not eat meat, but did not eliminate fish, dairy or eggs from her diet. For general health and growth, I believe she is getting sufficient protein, though obviously I am not tracking her macros.

However, she made the JV volleyball team and part of her physical training is weight based, under the supervision of two certified trainers. I guess all that prelude leads up to my question: Is there any reason she couldn't use a protein powder to increase her general intake? Obviously she is not looking to bulk, but she does want to build strength and can get frustrated with what she perceives as her general lack thereof.

Thanks

Why 'obviously' is she trying not to bulk? Adding a bit of muscle and fat would do her no harm...

Maybe I am using the incorrect terminology here. She wants to get stronger and add muscle, I meant bulk in the sense of bodybuilding type physique, sorry.

Her getting bodybuilder physique isn't something y'all need to worry about.

nicsflyingcircus

Is 5'9 and 1/2" tall and weighs roughly 120lbs. She is still growing and hasn't started her menses yet. She has made a conscious decision to not eat meat, but did not eliminate fish, dairy or eggs from her diet. For general health and growth, I believe she is getting sufficient protein, though obviously I am not tracking her macros.

However, she made the JV volleyball team and part of her physical training is weight based, under the supervision of two certified trainers. I guess all that prelude leads up to my question: Is there any reason she couldn't use a protein powder to increase her general intake? Obviously she is not looking to bulk, but she does want to build strength and can get frustrated with what she perceives as her general lack thereof.

Thanks

Why 'obviously' is she trying not to bulk? Adding a bit of muscle and fat would do her no harm...

Maybe I am using the incorrect terminology here. She wants to get stronger and add muscle, I meant bulk in the sense of bodybuilding type physique, sorry.

Her getting bodybuilder physique isn't something y'all need to worry about.

Well, no :laugh:

pleasepleaseno

This needs monitoring as this is exactly how eating disorders begin and having worked in that field for over 12 years have witnessed it far too often. She is already a low weight for her height.

Who the heck are you to say she is getting started on an eating disorder? She eats a wide variety of foods and has grown rapidly. BMI is calculate somewhat differently for children than for adults and her BMI is 17.7 which puts her in the 26th percentile for her height and weight. I did not say she wanted to lose weight, in fact, I said the exact opposite, in that she wants to gain muscle.

What is wrong with you?

I don't think there's a need to get defensive, people are just looking out for you and what a parent might not see (being too close). When my eating disorder began, at about age 12 or 13, I chose to stop eating meat so I could get out of meals. You might wanna ask her why she's making that choice, explore it.

scode83

I was called anorexic

and made fun of for my "a cups" by a very overweight person

they're b cups actually and quite cute

Often the people making these medical judgments are the ones who are in no position to lecture. I've been told by badly over weight people that I'm too skinny. My reply is usually along the lines of if I stand next to them then between us we average out at two 'normal' sized people. I guess when someone's gut hangs out then someone who's waist stays where it's supposed to must seem skin and bones in comparison. I never like to judge others, but when they start giving out potentially damaging advice I just get infuriated.

usmcmp

Is 5'9 and 1/2" tall and weighs roughly 120lbs. She is still growing and hasn't started her menses yet. She has made a conscious decision to not eat meat, but did not eliminate fish, dairy or eggs from her diet. For general health and growth, I believe she is getting sufficient protein, though obviously I am not tracking her macros.

However, she made the JV volleyball team and part of her physical training is weight based, under the supervision of two certified trainers. I guess all that prelude leads up to my question: Is there any reason she couldn't use a protein powder to increase her general intake? Obviously she is not looking to bulk, but she does want to build strength and can get frustrated with what she perceives as her general lack thereof.

Thanks

Why 'obviously' is she trying not to bulk? Adding a bit of muscle and fat would do her no harm...

Maybe I am using the incorrect terminology here. She wants to get stronger and add muscle, I meant bulk in the sense of bodybuilding type physique, sorry.

I am a competitive natural female bodybuilder. I've been building a bodybuilder physique for two years now. I still don't look like a bodybuilder. Women just don't get big quick.

Extra protein in a shake form could help her recovery.

tmauck4472

Protein poeder won't hurt. If she is still eating dairy and fish along with the protein powder she should be getting enough protein.
Just make sure she is eating enough to support her activity. Do not have her track calories though that could start eating issues( I know from experience ).

Oh yeah, no tracking calories. As I said, I am not tracking that stuff and neither is she.

Thanks to all the posters with helpful answers vs trying to diagnose my kid with a problem she does not have over the internet.

This is the drawback with forums - half the people on it are amateur doctors. I've been 'diagnosed' with an eating disorder so many times.

"Hi, I just want to ask if I sho"

"EATING DISORDER, GET HELP!"

Literally like that.

Yeah me too, smdh. Anytime your diet is different or on the lower side people are quick to say your on the road to an eating disorder and they say I'm either going to be anorexic or I'm going to start binging. All this while not knowing anything else about me. They are doctor wanna be's and know it all's.

nicsflyingcircus

This needs monitoring as this is exactly how eating disorders begin and having worked in that field for over 12 years have witnessed it far too often. She is already a low weight for her height.

Who the heck are you to say she is getting started on an eating disorder? She eats a wide variety of foods and has grown rapidly. BMI is calculate somewhat differently for children than for adults and her BMI is 17.7 which puts her in the 26th percentile for her height and weight. I did not say she wanted to lose weight, in fact, I said the exact opposite, in that she wants to gain muscle.

What is wrong with you?

I don't think there's a need to get defensive, people are just looking out for you and what a parent might not see (being too close). When my eating disorder began, at about age 12 or 13, I chose to stop eating meat so I could get out of meals. You might wanna ask her why she's making that choice, explore it.

It's been explored. And her not eating meat has certainly not let to her not eating meals, they're just heavier on legumes. :ohwell:

salembambi

This needs monitoring as this is exactly how eating disorders begin and having worked in that field for over 12 years have witnessed it far too often. She is already a low weight for her height.

what a pile of ****

I went vegetarian around the same age as OP's daughter and it was not the cause of any eating disorder

in fact it helped my previous eating disorder

_HeartsOnFire_

This needs monitoring as this is exactly how eating disorders begin and having worked in that field for over 12 years have witnessed it far too often. She is already a low weight for her height.

Who the heck are you to say she is getting started on an eating disorder? She eats a wide variety of foods and has grown rapidly. BMI is calculate somewhat differently for children than for adults and her BMI is 17.7 which puts her in the 26th percentile for her height and weight. I did not say she wanted to lose weight, in fact, I said the exact opposite, in that she wants to gain muscle.

What is wrong with you?

I don't think there's a need to get defensive, people are just looking out for you and what a parent might not see (being too close). When my eating disorder began, at about age 12 or 13, I chose to stop eating meat so I could get out of meals. You might wanna ask her why she's making that choice, explore it.

In a post above she's already discussed that they have talked about this.

I went vegetarian at age 13. I did not have an ED.

More protein sources

http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/926789-protein-sources

scode83

Protein poeder won't hurt. If she is still eating dairy and fish along with the protein powder she should be getting enough protein.
Just make sure she is eating enough to support her activity. Do not have her track calories though that could start eating issues( I know from experience ).

Oh yeah, no tracking calories. As I said, I am not tracking that stuff and neither is she.

Thanks to all the posters with helpful answers vs trying to diagnose my kid with a problem she does not have over the internet.

This is the drawback with forums - half the people on it are amateur doctors. I've been 'diagnosed' with an eating disorder so many times.

"Hi, I just want to ask if I sho"

"EATING DISORDER, GET HELP!"

Literally like that.

Yeah me too, smdh. Anytime your diet is different or on the lower side people are quick to say your on the road to an eating disorder and they say I'm either going to be anorexic or I'm going to start binging. All this while not knowing anything else about me. They are doctor wanna be's and know it all's.

Yeah, these people seem to think one diet fits all and anything that isn't sticking to the old engraved in stone diet is wrong. That disclaimer at the bottom of threads should probably be placed somewhere more prominent just in case anyone does take this **** seriously.

baseballgirl2027

I'm a nurse, not well-versed in pediatrics, but I thought I'd throw this out there - what about a supplemental protein shake in the form of Boost or Ensure? Sure, I mostly tout the benefits of those to my geriatric patients that aren't really eating anymore or are on a soft/pureed diet and need extra protein and/or calories, but it's a good way to supplement daily intake. A lot of my patients like to blend a chocolate Ensure or Boost with peanut butter and a banana. Meal in a cup!

I personally like Syntha-6 protein powder, or for my own weight-loss goals the GNC Lean Burn (30g protein/170cals).

I agree with some of the other posters - check with her pediatrician for the best advice. And I'm not a huge meat-eater either, although growing up in the Midwest, I can't pass up a good steak! I've never even liked eggs - I've had an aversion ever since my dad jokingly told me they were baby chickens that never had a chance.

Good luck to your daughter! I tried out for VB when I was in high school, but sadly, they don't really like to pick people who are 5'0. So I got into running!!

nicsflyingcircus

I'm a nurse, not well-versed in pediatrics, but I thought I'd throw this out there - what about a supplemental protein shake in the form of Boost or Ensure? Sure, I mostly tout the benefits of those to my geriatric patients that aren't really eating anymore or are on a soft/pureed diet and need extra protein and/or calories, but it's a good way to supplement daily intake. A lot of my patients like to blend a chocolate Ensure or Boost with peanut butter and a banana. Meal in a cup!

I personally like Syntha-6 protein powder, or for my own weight-loss goals the GNC Lean Burn (30g protein/170cals).

I agree with some of the other posters - check with her pediatrician for the best advice. And I'm not a huge meat-eater either, although growing up in the Midwest, I can't pass up a good steak! I've never even liked eggs - I've had an aversion ever since my dad jokingly told me they were baby chickens that never had a chance.

Good luck to your daughter! I tried out for VB when I was in high school, but sadly, they don't really like to pick people who are 5'0. So I got into running!!

Yeah, I was thinking of adding the protein powder to her morning smoothie. She is not a breakfast person but school puts such demands on at her age that I encourage (not force, encourage) her to at least eat yogurt and fruit, etc. She really likes smoothies, so it would be easy

Thanks for the input and wish me luck, I am about to graduate LPN school.