Which is the worst person?

Scorpiomom222

You know, Chuck, I just have to throw this out there with all this cheating stuff. I find it not very surprising if an attractive woman cheats on her spouse or long term boyfriend. Why? Because of a common stereotype of most attractive women being catered to, and doted over and alot of them being sociopaths that don't care about other people's feelings. There, I said it. I believe in society, it's expected that an attractive woman cheat on her spouse. Why not, right? She's hot. She can have any man she wants.

Haha, that is an interesting take, one might also point out that there are many more men out there who don't value the sanctity of marriage (or a relationship) as there are women so it's much easier for a woman to find a man to be her partner in crime than vice versa... Or if you wanna break that down to it's basest element... Men tend to think with their wieners..

You're one funny guy! Cheers!

iishnova

This has become an interesting thread o.O

1. I agree, cheating is cheating and cheating is wrong in my opinion (and others, apparent in this topic). I care not the circumstances, if you willingly ...:"engage" with another person (male or female) that's the end for me. Its one thing I don't believe in second chances for.

2. Stereotypes suck. Vain women are more likely to cheat if their husband starts balding and forms a spare tire and they believe they look better than any average 29 year-old, right? Men are more likely to cheat if their wife nags constantly and has let herself go, right?

Anyway! For those who commented, yes both my ex-husband and my former best friend are out of my life. Interestingly enough I am still on good terms with his family (even when he is not). I know that all the reasons he said he wanted a divorce (i.e. I spend his money, I didn't clean, etc) he is still having problems with and I am no where in the picture. He's living paycheck to paycheck and his place (last time I saw it and according to his sister) is a sty. To me it matters not, but hey when I'm feeling down its a great way to remind myself that I am so much better than he gave me credit for and I am better than he deserves ^.~

Caperfae

Definitely 1 to all situations listed.
I have a cousin who has cheated on her boyfriends, cheated on her husband, they parted ways and now she's back to cheating on boyfriends while technically still married.
Cheating is never good.

Wiitabax

if you willingly ...:"engage" with another person (male or female) that's the end for me. Its one thing I don't believe in second chances for.

I completely agree there!!!

I've known loads of people who have given 'second chances' - male and female... considering the cheating so-and-so took the time, effort and trouble to sneak around and lie in the first place, why risk it?

If you care enough for someone - you wouldn't do it.

If things aren't working... you should be big enough to discuss it - if it ends, then okay... move on - but don't do the 'try before you by' option - and then if that doesn't make you happy... or you get bored with sneaking, then you can go back to what's familiar and comfortable.

This is a PERSON... not a pair fo shoes or a sofa!

Rant over.