Too NICE? Someone PLEASE shoot me.

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  • Manda86
    Manda86 Posts: 1,859 Member
    Dear Manda and Sarge,

    My MFP freinds I wish I could fix it for you guys but I don't have the answers.

    Manda I will be praying for you that God helps you through this and that he sends that
    right guy your way. I will also pray that he heals you with the infertlity. You have touched
    my heart when you said infertility it consumed my life for 13 years and I don't want anyone
    else to go through it. A big Bear hug your way.

    Sarge, I will also be praying for you that God heals the wounds from your divorce and sends the women you need to you. A big plutonic Bear hug. Were butch right.

    yeah, infertility has been one of the most painful things I have ever gone through. I didn't know I wanted children until I found out I can't have them on my own... I guess God just has a different plan for us, but I would sure like to know what it is! It makes you feel like an incomplete person, I know I shouldn't, but I feel guilty that I may not be able to provide my future husband (whoever that may be) with children of his own- thanks for the hug! I need all of them I can get lately

    *PANDA BEAR HUG*
  • TamTastic
    TamTastic Posts: 19,224 Member
    Awww my MFP friends!! Manda and Sarge.....prayers headed your way to get you both past the difficult times and to feel hope for the future.

    Big hug!
    Tam
  • Manda86
    Manda86 Posts: 1,859 Member
    Awww my MFP friends!! Manda and Sarge.....prayers headed your way to get you both past the difficult times and to feel hope for the future.

    Big hug!
    Tam

    thanks, Tam... *sniff sniff*
  • lilmandy89
    lilmandy89 Posts: 323 Member
    thank you, I'm trying...

    I made that mistake, too, btw- I'm kicking myself for it now, it wasn't worth throwing away a year and a half of my life for

    Instead of kicking yourself for it take it as a life experience, you walked away with more knowledge, you now know what to stay away from in guys. He should be the one kicking himself
  • LokiFae
    LokiFae Posts: 774 Member

    yeah, infertility has been one of the most painful things I have ever gone through. I didn't know I wanted children until I found out I can't have them on my own... I guess God just has a different plan for us, but I would sure like to know what it is! It makes you feel like an incomplete person, I know I shouldn't, but I feel guilty that I may not be able to provide my future husband (whoever that may be) with children of his own- thanks for the hug! I need all of them I can get lately

    *PANDA BEAR HUG*

    I really feel for you that you're going through that. This is how I've always felt about children, infertility, etc.

    The kids we have, whether we give birth to them or not, have picked us out before they were born. And people that can't have kids of their own were already picked out by the perfect child. God has a plan for everyone, and maybe he just has the perfect little kid for you to adopt or step-parent, or anything like that. Giving birth doesn't make a mother. It's the raising of the child, and if you love and cherish and nurture a child, that makes that child yours. I think there's kids out there in the future for you, and there's definitely the right man. And he is NOT the guy that made you sleep on the couch.

    :heart: :heart: :heart:
  • sgtinvincible
    sgtinvincible Posts: 2,559
    You guys rock. :cry:
  • fatsis
    fatsis Posts: 1,117 Member
    You guys rock. :cry:

    So do u brother.:happy:
  • Manda86
    Manda86 Posts: 1,859 Member
    You guys rock. :cry:

    I agree- MFPers, I shall never leave you..

    (even if you ask politely)
  • kaiyacali
    kaiyacali Posts: 175
    You slept on the couch! WTF! His butt should be freezing on the couch, not yours! His stupid jerkness was the one cheatin'.
  • Manda86
    Manda86 Posts: 1,859 Member
    You slept on the couch! WTF! His butt should be freezing on the couch, not yours! His stupid jerkness was the one cheatin'.

    I'm kind of a pushover- I don't care where I sleep as long as it's not next to him
  • spaul82478
    spaul82478 Posts: 709 Member
    Glad your stickin up for your self... hope tonight goes well :smile:
  • GTOgirl1969
    GTOgirl1969 Posts: 2,527 Member
    My foot and his *kitten* should meet sometime!

    Believe me honey, he didn't cheat for "better", he cheated for "different". It's amazing, people will go out for a hamburger, when they have filet mignon at home!
  • sgtinvincible
    sgtinvincible Posts: 2,559
    My foot and his *kitten* should meet sometime!

    Believe me honey, he didn't cheat for "better", he cheated for "different". It's amazing, people will go out for a hamburger, when they have filet mignon at home!


    Wow. That's actually pretty poignant there, wise GTO. Exactly.
  • fatsis
    fatsis Posts: 1,117 Member
    My foot and his *kitten* should meet sometime!

    Believe me honey, he didn't cheat for "better", he cheated for "different". It's amazing, people will go out for a hamburger, when they have filet mignon at home!

    Yep. And you don't even need the steak sauce because your done to perfection.
  • GTOgirl1969
    GTOgirl1969 Posts: 2,527 Member



    Wow. That's actually pretty poignant there, wise GTO. Exactly.


    I'm drawing on my experience....my soon to be ex cheated with some sleazy bar hag....I took one look at her and I just thought...."WTF"??!??!?! I'm not conceited or anything, but how could he think she was better looking or better ANYTHING than me? I mean, I'm ONLY the mother of his kids...:ohwell:
  • fatsis
    fatsis Posts: 1,117 Member



    Wow. That's actually pretty poignant there, wise GTO. Exactly.


    I'm drawing on my experience....my soon to be ex cheated with some sleazy bar hag....I took one look at her and I just thought...."WTF"??!??!?! I'm not conceited or anything, but how could he think she was better looking or better ANYTHING than me? I mean, I'm ONLY the mother of his kids...:ohwell:

    Your due Judge. Big Bear hug.
  • sgtinvincible
    sgtinvincible Posts: 2,559



    Wow. That's actually pretty poignant there, wise GTO. Exactly.


    I'm drawing on my experience....my soon to be ex cheated with some sleazy bar hag....I took one look at her and I just thought...."WTF"??!??!?! I'm not conceited or anything, but how could he think she was better looking or better ANYTHING than me? I mean, I'm ONLY the mother of his kids...:ohwell:


    Yeah, I'm not the best looking guy around, but after I saw who my ex was cheating with, I was like...'So what about the lumberjack/crackhead look do you find so alluring praytell?'

    Yeah, that stung a bit. *that sound is the sound of my dignity crashing and burning like a Mexico Air 737*

    Anyhoo, I know it wasn't him perse. Just as you said GTO, if not him it would have been someone else. (Course I have my suspicions that he got her hooked on something, but that is a conversation for another day and thread). *shrug*
  • GTOgirl1969
    GTOgirl1969 Posts: 2,527 Member
    The best revenge is to move on.

    That's what I'm going to do...let's see how much fun they can have when he is working 2 or 3 jobs to pay spousal and child support...and he doesn't have a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of.:bigsmile:
  • sgtinvincible
    sgtinvincible Posts: 2,559
    The best revenge is to move on.

    That's what I'm going to do...let's see how much fun they can have when he is working 2 or 3 jobs to pay spousal and child support...and he doesn't have a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of.:bigsmile:

    I'm pretty much banking on the old saying 'Karma's a b*tch.(and so's your ex-wife)'

    :wink:
  • ChubbyBunny
    ChubbyBunny Posts: 3,523 Member
    Dude, sgt you aren't hard on the eyes ( I wouldn't lob a rock at your head if I saw you walking down the street) so don't let that get you down. Looks are a blah reason to be with people anyway....

    One of my biggest pet peeves are people who cheat (makes me all rabid :devil: ). Can they change, sure.....but they have to REALLY want to be better and for a lot of people, that is just too much work for them.

    I think both of you are better off without those dead weights. I mean seriously, who wants to be with someone lame who has the attention span of a pea. :huh:

    I say you both go out and have an AWESOME weekend. :drinker:
  • Manda86
    Manda86 Posts: 1,859 Member
    My foot and his *kitten* should meet sometime!

    Believe me honey, he didn't cheat for "better", he cheated for "different". It's amazing, people will go out for a hamburger, when they have filet mignon at home!

    Yep. And you don't even need the steak sauce because your done to perfection.

    :heart:

    That is awesome. :)
  • fatsis
    fatsis Posts: 1,117 Member
    My foot and his *kitten* should meet sometime!

    Believe me honey, he didn't cheat for "better", he cheated for "different". It's amazing, people will go out for a hamburger, when they have filet mignon at home!

    Yep. And you don't even need the steak sauce because your done to perfection.

    :heart:

    That is awesome. :)

    :blushing: :blushing: :blushing:
  • sculley
    sculley Posts: 2,012 Member
    Update: I slept on the couch last night (we live together), because I'm not going to share a bed with him anymore- he comes out this morning and has the nerve to ask me why I didn't come to bed last night- did he completely miss the part where he cheated on me and I dumped him?

    *You have entered the twilight zone*

    I have been sleeping on the couch too.....my bed (purchased with my money after we filed) and my couch
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