Feeling discouraged

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  • emngill209
    emngill209 Posts: 14 Member
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    This is ridiculous for one. If he loves you like he should then he should not talk to you that way. But I think you could use it as some serious motivation. Don't do it for him or to make him happy, do it for you, because you deserve it! Prove him wrong!
  • Vincisomethng
    Vincisomethng Posts: 149 Member
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    I really hope you find something so you and your kids that dump him. Actually, if you can, find some relatives or trusted friends and tell them about the abuse he's doing. You don't need that negativity in your life and your emotional and mental health is just as important as your physical one. And he wakes you up at 3 for groceries? He could do that himself. What is he, a child?

    You can also contact hotlines for domestic abuse. He is abusing you! He doesn't have to hit you for it to be abuse. He does NOT love you and he is NOT your friend. Friends don't make other people feel like crap and don't be with someone who uses love as an excuse or that "magic word". That guy really sickens me. He wakes you up for all the crap and your the ones making the healthy choices. Find someone who actually loves you and doesn't abuse you in any way shape or form. If one of my good friends was dating or living with someone like that guy, I would hit him (and I'm not a violent person). I just really hate that guy.

    When you can move out, DON'T listen to his excuses or his "apologies" because the cycle will just start again. He is also bad for the kids, not just you. They need to learn that people like that are not okay to be around.

    I know these are kind of sappy things, but I made these tags for people (and me) feeling down

    http://vincisomething.tumblr.com/tagged/breathe (if you need to calm down) and http://vincisomething.tumblr.com/tagged/hello-friend (if you need a pick me up). I also don't mean to boast, but I like my music taste and it's mostly calming music on my blog. Same for the music on http://davincibody.tumblr.com which has motivation, inspiration (it's my fitness blog).

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