Did he think I was hitting on him??

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  • NotAResolution
    NotAResolution Posts: 58 Member
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    Some people don't know how to end conversations. I used to work with someone like this. They never saw the end of a conversation, you have to be very clear it was over for them to get the hint. So, it could be that you didn't end the conversation in such a way to signal it was over, or that he didn't figure out that it was over.
  • MagnumBurrito
    MagnumBurrito Posts: 1,070 Member
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    Yeah, probably, but who cares. If he asks you out, just say thanks, but you're married. No harm no foul.
  • WhatAnAss
    WhatAnAss Posts: 1,598 Member
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    Whoa, whoa, whoa.....What was this one in a million talk.

    "So you're saying there's a chance"
  • sunglasses_and_ocean_waves
    sunglasses_and_ocean_waves Posts: 2,757 Member
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    Whoa, whoa, whoa.....What was this one in a million talk.

    So you're saying there's a chance ....
  • sunglasses_and_ocean_waves
    sunglasses_and_ocean_waves Posts: 2,757 Member
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    Whoa, whoa, whoa.....What was this one in a million talk.

    "So you're saying there's a chance"
    dumb and dumber =)


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  • WhatAnAss
    WhatAnAss Posts: 1,598 Member
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    Whoa, whoa, whoa.....What was this one in a million talk.

    So you're saying there's a chance ....

    Great minds....and *kitten*....think alike i see :)
  • vmlabute
    vmlabute Posts: 311 Member
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    most likely yes. I have a very outgoing personality and every people I talk to they think I'm hitting on them...I just tell them, hey this is how I am with everyone, even women
  • burning2much
    burning2much Posts: 4,846 Member
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    So far I like this thread
  • 1HappyRedhead
    1HappyRedhead Posts: 413 Member
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    In for great *kitten*!!
    Oh, wait.... was that a different thread? :flowerforyou:
  • valkaree
    valkaree Posts: 519
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    Listen, I am married too! I just wanted to have a beer, jeez. Did me asking you to have a beer make you think I was hitting on you? So how serious are you on this whole marriage thing...
  • kborton1122
    kborton1122 Posts: 914 Member
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    Wear your wedding band so there's no question if you're available or not. Problem solved.
  • jwats8
    jwats8 Posts: 112
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    Jeez I hope all the guys I am friendly to don't think I'm hitting on them..... I'd be like the town slut.
  • Calliope610
    Calliope610 Posts: 3,775 Member
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    Wear your wedding band so there's no question if you're available or not. Problem solved.

    Nope, my rings get in the way when I'm lifting. (I've lost enough weight that they are loose and slip around my fingers.)

    ETA: I'm pretty sure there are some married women who openly hit on men WHILE wearing their wedding bands.
  • sijomial
    sijomial Posts: 19,811 Member
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    depends...how did you 'catch his eye'
    Winking while using the adductor machine was a step too far.....
  • 2_FitNFab
    2_FitNFab Posts: 163 Member
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    depends...how did you 'catch his eye'
    Winking while using the adductor machine was a step too far.....

    ^^^Really??....Now you tell me! I thought it was because I licked my lips :P
  • hill8570
    hill8570 Posts: 1,466 Member
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    Possibly. Or he may have just been waiting for you to end the conversation...after all, you initiated it. Had it been me you were talking to, I would've considered it rude to break off so after you started the conversation. But, then again, I have the social skills of a brick.

    Time will tell.
  • valkaree
    valkaree Posts: 519
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    depends...how did you 'catch his eye'
    Winking while using the adductor machine was a step too far.....

    ^^^Really??....Now you tell me! I thought it was because I licked my lips :P

    Yeah, that would be one of those Hollywood slow-motion shots where guys are staring and dropping the weights on themselves. I know if you were at my gym and did that there would be casualties and I would be one of them :)
  • cranshinibon
    cranshinibon Posts: 129 Member
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    he may have just found you attractive and that hello made him feel less of a creep asking you out rather than being that guy at the gym nomsayin?
  • JoRocka
    JoRocka Posts: 17,525 Member
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    Wear your wedding band so there's no question if you're available or not. Problem solved.

    not so safe actually.
  • bezerkus
    bezerkus Posts: 79 Member
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    depends...how did you 'catch his eye'
    Winking while using the adductor machine was a step too far.....

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