What is your "silly" motivation?

debbyrae3
debbyrae3 Posts: 200 Member
edited September 2024 in Motivation and Support
What are your motivations that others might view as "silly" (which, in all reality, no motivations are "silly", because whatever works for you, go with it!)?

One of mine is getting new clothes to go with my new body!
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  • reesepieces
    reesepieces Posts: 253 Member
    Wearing a cute sexy dress with heels when I go out!
  • superwmn
    superwmn Posts: 936 Member
    Rocking a swimsuit on my future, fantasy beach vacation.

    Charmagne
  • CherokeeBabe
    CherokeeBabe Posts: 1,704 Member
    I want my waist to tuck in just PERFECTLY right and swoop up my torso at a certain angle, that "hourglass shape" in my mind....it's kinda silly, because some peoples bodies will never do it, even at an ideal weight, some people are more blessed than others and I may never reach that silly little ideal "look".
  • debbyrae3
    debbyrae3 Posts: 200 Member
    Wearing a cute sexy dress with heels when I go out!
    Definitely great motivation! Because most dresses worn while out are fitted :)
  • wills2be
    wills2be Posts: 26 Member
    Getting married in 2 months and looking great in my wedding dress!!
  • debbyrae3
    debbyrae3 Posts: 200 Member
    Rocking a swimsuit on my future, fantasy beach vacation.

    Charmagne
    *pictures herself sitting on the beach in a bikini with a kick-@$$ body* I think it's great motivation :)
  • SMJ64
    SMJ64 Posts: 66 Member
    tall black leather boots. :)
  • debbyrae3
    debbyrae3 Posts: 200 Member
    I want my waist to tuck in just PERFECTLY right and swoop up my torso at a certain angle, that "hourglass shape" in my mind....it's kinda silly, because some peoples bodies will never do it, even at an ideal weight, some people are more blessed than others and I may never reach that silly little ideal "look".
    It might not get exactly what you want, but you can always (safely) try for it :)
  • debbyrae3
    debbyrae3 Posts: 200 Member
    Getting married in 2 months and looking great in my wedding dress!!
    Definitely great! No matter what I believe you would be a beautiful bride :)
  • debbyrae3
    debbyrae3 Posts: 200 Member
    tall black leather boots. :)
    That's great. I already have one pair, but they're tight on my calves (I've always had big/muscular calves, even when I weighed 120-130 pounds)
  • Aimee_PD
    Aimee_PD Posts: 177 Member
    a new wardrobe!! for sure! im so tired of dreading "having" to buy new clothes and now i will do it just for the fun of it, not the necessity....well it will necessary if all my clothes are too big!! :-D definitely feeling good in a clothing store again and liking what I see in that dressing room mirror is my huge motivator...
  • emmerrs
    emmerrs Posts: 158 Member
    Oh its all about the clothes for me! In my mind I'll be able to wear nice sleeveless tops without feeling self-conscious (much), buy clingy fabrics without worrying i look pregnant, ALLL that good stuff.
  • NeciaC
    NeciaC Posts: 4 Member
    Your weight lost is amazing! how did you do it?
  • debbyrae3
    debbyrae3 Posts: 200 Member
    a new wardrobe!! for sure! im so tired of dreading "having" to buy new clothes and now i will do it just for the fun of it, not the necessity....well it will necessary if all my clothes are too big!! :-D definitely feeling good in a clothing store again and liking what I see in that dressing room mirror is my huge motivator...
    Oh, I can imagine. I know I'm not "fat" by any means, but I had a belly (it's gone down some since I quit drinking soda and started exercising and watching what I eat) and every time I tried on a shirt (especially sweaters) they all hugged that spot in a bad way...
  • DeborahR
    DeborahR Posts: 33 Member
    I want to look better than my DH;s ex-wife
  • debbyrae3
    debbyrae3 Posts: 200 Member
    Oh its all about the clothes for me! In my mind I'll be able to wear nice sleeveless tops without feeling self-conscious (much), buy clingy fabrics without worrying i look pregnant, ALLL that good stuff.
    Definitely sounds like a great motivator to me! :) I don't worry much about the sleeveless tops, but the clingy fabrics, definitely.
  • debbyrae3
    debbyrae3 Posts: 200 Member
    I want to look better than my DH;s ex-wife
    I was waiting for a "jealousy-type"/"look-better-than-SO's-ex/new" motivator (not saying your jealous because obviously you have your DH)
  • ElizabethMcCathern
    ElizabethMcCathern Posts: 114 Member
    Pffft those aren't silly!

    I fantasize one day of landing a role on True Blood and making out with Alexander Skarsgard on tv. :bigsmile:
  • fuhrmeister
    fuhrmeister Posts: 1,796 Member
    I want to look pregnant when I finally get pregnant...not just fatter!

    tank tops

    no longer envying my best freind and the weight she has lost.
  • HeatherShrinking
    HeatherShrinking Posts: 776 Member
    Being able to paint my toes easiy, without holding my breath
  • fuhrmeister
    fuhrmeister Posts: 1,796 Member
    I want to look better than my DH;s ex-wife

    I totally agree!!!!!!
  • fuhrmeister
    fuhrmeister Posts: 1,796 Member
    Being able to paint my toes easiy, without holding my breath

    Too funny! But I feel the same way abou t buckling my shoes too.
  • just4peachy
    just4peachy Posts: 594 Member
    I want to look better than my DH;s ex-wife
    My ex-husbands new wife (a 22 year old gymnast). And my boyfriends ex-gf that he's still friends with.
  • MzBug
    MzBug Posts: 2,173 Member
    Pffft those aren't silly!

    I fantasize one day of landing a role on True Blood and making out with Alexander Skarsgard on tv. :bigsmile:


    He can bite me anytime!
  • ElizabethMcCathern
    ElizabethMcCathern Posts: 114 Member
    Pffft those aren't silly!

    I fantasize one day of landing a role on True Blood and making out with Alexander Skarsgard on tv. :bigsmile:


    He can bite me anytime!

    FACT!
  • harls
    harls Posts: 88 Member
    I'm a bit of a comic book geek, and Batman is my favorite universe/genre. So... I really, really want to be fit enough to wear my favorite character's skin tight costume! (Her name is Harley Quinn -- the Joker's girlfriend -- , and she's my ticker picture as well as my avatar)

    There's a convention coming up in March that I would love to attend in-costume, so it's a huge motivator :)
  • maureensm
    maureensm Posts: 183 Member
    I want to look pregnant when I finally get pregnant...not just fatter!

    Me too! I want to be at my goal weight before I get pregnant again!

    I also do it for the fashion ;)
  • Cristy_AZ
    Cristy_AZ Posts: 986 Member
    I want to be able to wear my husband's old holey jeans on the weekends like I did when we were first married... Silly? maybe, but I always thought there was something sexy about that... that's about 10 inches off my waist, so I may not ever get there, so I guess that makes it kinda silly.
  • debbyrae3
    debbyrae3 Posts: 200 Member
    I want to be able to wear my husband's old holey jeans on the weekends like I did when we were first married... Silly? maybe, but I always thought there was something sexy about that... that's about 10 inches off my waist, so I may not ever get there, so I guess that makes it kinda silly.
    I think you could get there. It will take work and determination, but I believe you can do it :)
  • emmyvera
    emmyvera Posts: 599 Member
    my "silly" one is looking as great as i can for our last vacation as a newly married couple. if we start a family next year, then it probably won't be the same for awhile :happy:
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