Am I allowed to be angry?

Yarnpiggie

My bf eats whatever he wants whenever!! he has never had to worry about weight loss actually when we first got together he was drinking protein shakes with every meal to gain weight....I really didnt say anything the entire time we were in the car when he was getting his nasty white castle *barf*!! but yeah he definately knows i am mad. I didnt really talk to him at all today. He left to go to work about 20 minutes ago and he left saying "you need to stop being a B**** because we didnt eat where you wanted"---i guess i just need to get over it....he will never understand what it feels like to struggle and have to give up things you enjoy!!--not to mention i gained all this weight while i was pregnant with his baby!!! I gave up my youthful in pretty good shape for fat, loose skin, and stretch marks---I love my daughter more than life itself so it was totally worth it i just wish he was more supportive!!

okay i have been reading this thread thinking, both... be mad then get over it. That parting shot, though, would make me hang on to it a LOT longer and show him what being a REAL B*** means...lol

That being said... I would make a total me day of it, or even a g/f day of it. Sushi... movies... pedis... etc. And he call call that his Daddy/Daughter time. :-)

brice02

go have sushi with someone else!!! You deserve it!

KcFitCoach

I think I would have been annoyed...but then just pick up the phone and call for sushi takeout and go pick it up. I had sushi carryout last night. I hear ya - it is one of my absolutely faves, too! Phone some in and pick it up!

lilRicki

My bf eats whatever he wants whenever!! he has never had to worry about weight loss actually when we first got together he was drinking protein shakes with every meal to gain weight....I really didnt say anything the entire time we were in the car when he was getting his nasty white castle *barf*!! but yeah he definately knows i am mad. I didnt really talk to him at all today. He left to go to work about 20 minutes ago and he left saying "you need to stop being a B**** because we didnt eat where you wanted"---i guess i just need to get over it....he will never understand what it feels like to struggle and have to give up things you enjoy!!--not to mention i gained all this weight while i was pregnant with his baby!!! I gave up my youthful in pretty good shape for fat, loose skin, and stretch marks---I love my daughter more than life itself so it was totally worth it i just wish he was more supportive!!

okay i have been reading this thread thinking, both... be mad then get over it. That parting shot, though, would make me hang on to it a LOT longer and show him what being a REAL B*** means...lol

That being said... I would make a total me day of it, or even a g/f day of it. Sushi... movies... pedis... etc. And he call call that his Daddy/Daughter time. :-)

no doubt, you want to talk to me like that, I'll make your life a living hell until you apologize...how disrespectful...not that my man isn't a douche too though, but in the end he feels like an idiot. Ask him if he forgets who you are...certainly not some sleeze he can talk to like he's paid for your services...go pick up sushi tonight for supper and let him starve!

KarenBorter

take a book and go by yourself and enjoy some me time :-)

^^ this

If he doesn't want sushi then he doesn't have to have sushi YOU want it so go get it.