please do not tell me to be patient!!

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Tomorrow marks my 3 week mark of eating better, and exercising. Everyone is telling me to be patient. I have lost NO weight! ( please ignore the "lost one pound" on my ticker. )

I log and weigh ALL my food. Over the weekend I did not use MFP as my app was messing up so I logged in fitbit. Calories were in line and consistant.

I do drink 3 - 4 liters of water a day.

I recently upped my calories from 1200 to see if that does something. I think I did that on Friday.

I just need somethign to happen I am getting discouraged, and I know its easy to say to be patient, I just need something to kick start even a pound to make me feel like my hard work is paying off.

I do PT 2 days a week, my rest day is Wednesday and I do cardio the other 4 days.

I am 204 (highest ever even when pregnant), 5'10, 36 years old. I would be happy to be at 170, this was my weight after baby #1 and I was happy with that.
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  • Need2Exerc1se
    Need2Exerc1se Posts: 13,575 Member
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    At your height you should be losing on 1200 calories per day. Have you seen a doctor to check for disorders that affect weight loss?
  • CanadianMag
    CanadianMag Posts: 53 Member
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    I have not seen a doctor. Would I see a general Dr, or some sort of specialist?
  • Lizzy622
    Lizzy622 Posts: 3,705 Member
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    You just increased your calories so you may have to wait a week or two to see if that worked. I tried may different macros and exercise amounts before I found what worked for me. Try giving each change about two weeks before giving up on it. I found that by increasing protein and fat and lowering carbs just a bit from the MFP preset, my weight started coming off a bit more consistently.
  • sassyjae21
    sassyjae21 Posts: 1,217 Member
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    If you're absolutely sure you're food diary is accurate and you haven't lost anything at all, you need to see a doctor.

    Also make sure you're taking measurements. You could be losing inches. Scale doesn't tell the whole story. You could be retaining water for whatever reason. There are a lot of different reasons why the scale isn't moving. Doesn't mean you're not losing fat. The scale is just not reflecting that yet. But it will.

    Again, there is no reason why you should be losing on 1200 calories, which is pretty low for a tall girl like you. If you really suspect something else is going on, you should see a professional.
  • ew_david
    ew_david Posts: 3,473 Member
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    It took me 18 months to lose 29 pounds.

    You need to be patient.
  • StaciMarie1974
    StaciMarie1974 Posts: 4,138 Member
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    Do you use a food scale? If you do use a food scale, do you use it for everything, including slices of bread, meat, fruits, etc. Log every thing, every day? Do you use generic/homemade entries that you find in the MFP database from other users? Are you careful to use cooked weight for cooked meat or raw weight for raw meat entries in the database?

    Just trying to highlight some of the possible ways one's food log could be off.
  • I feel exactly the same as you today..... im on week 3 and dont seem to have made any progress. It isnt going to beat me though, im just going to stick at it. In the past I have given in far to easily so this time I am determined. All I can say is stick to it like me and hopefully we will start seeing results soon :flowerforyou:
  • itsbasschick
    itsbasschick Posts: 1,584 Member
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    if you're not losing weight at your height and 1200 calories, either you are eating more than you think (and this is likely) or you have a medical condition like hypothyroidism and should consult a doctor. most of the people here who don't lose are overestimating their calories - an accurate food scale is your friend, but so is making sure that not only is the weight of foods accurate, but that the source you use for their calories is accurate. one woman on MFP wasn't losing because she randomly chose several calorie listings in the database that were way under, including cole slaw that was listed at a quarter of its actual calories.

    btw, i'm 5' 3.5" and lose a pound a week eating 1200 calories per day - more if i have several intense workouts.
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
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    How are you estimating your calorie burns?
  • _sirenofthesea_
    _sirenofthesea_ Posts: 117 Member
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    I have said those same things over and over -

    This time around - I'm stlcking with strength training (A lot of body weight exercises), and hardly any cardio.
    It's working for me - I lost 9.4 pounds my first month - just a suggestion - I haven't ever had the success I'm having right now - I'm eating perfect, which helps, but I really attribute it to the change in how I'm working out.

    Also - what prior poster said - make sure no medical issues -

    and - be patient - Believe me, I know it sucks a**

    Nic
  • RaspberryKeytoneBoondoggle
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    Why are you so impatient? Did you gain the weight in three weeks?
  • corgarian
    corgarian Posts: 366 Member
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    I didnt lose any weight till about 2 months in, then it started falling off. You didnt get heavy over night, it wont just fall off either.

    That being said, you are on a way lower calorie limit then I was (just saying I started about 15 pounds less than you and I've been losing on 1600 calories a day), either you arent measuring properly, or like others have said this could be medical, or like me, it could just take a few months to get going!
  • NessaReh85
    NessaReh85 Posts: 140 Member
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    You can see a General Dr. Have him look to see if you might have a thyroid problem. If so, that could be the reason. No matter the exercise or healthy eating, a thyroid problem can cause none of that to work very well.

    I can see how someone saying be patient after all you do can be a little nerve wracking. Honestly I do not work as hard as you, I do two 30-day challenges a night and have lost 3 lbs in two weeks. I am by no means bragging so please dont take it that way, I am just making a point that if you are working harder you should have at least saw some results even if small. I honestly would have your Dr. look into seeing if you have a thyroid problem.
  • VeryKatie
    VeryKatie Posts: 5,952 Member
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    Maybe you're eating back too many exercise calories.
  • SamZ10
    SamZ10 Posts: 49 Member
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    I am in the same boat and I wanted to share with you what I have found. I lost 25 pounds last year and gained back almost all of it. Since May I have done cardio at least 2 times a week and weights 2 times a week. I follow my eating program the best that I can, meaning 90% of the time in the last 4 months, I do great. I weighed 189 in may and weigh 185 now.
    I DO however feel like I am so much more toned. I do wear my clothes more comfortably. I have lost inches. I don't get out of breath so quickly. My skin is so much clearer and I sleep so much better.
    I feel that in time the scale will catch up to how I feel.
    Do yourself a favor and take some measurements. STAY OFF THE SCALE for a while. I had to actually get rid of my scale and only weigh once every couple of weeks because I was driving myself so crazy.
    Are you planning on going right back to your old lifestyle choices as soon as you lose weight? I know this is a new lifestyle for me and it doesn't matter wtf the scale says.
    Focus on how you feel!
  • StaciMarie1974
    StaciMarie1974 Posts: 4,138 Member
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    In the past week you have 2 days where you didn't log anything, and another where you only logged a partial day. I didn't go back thru the entire 3 weeks.
  • Need2Exerc1se
    Need2Exerc1se Posts: 13,575 Member
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    I have not seen a doctor. Would I see a general Dr, or some sort of specialist?

    Start with your GP. Blood work is usually the first step.
  • Need2Exerc1se
    Need2Exerc1se Posts: 13,575 Member
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    In the past week you have 2 days where you didn't log anything, and another where you only logged a partial day. I didn't go back thru the entire 3 weeks.

    In the OP she explained that MFP was not working but she still logged elsewhere.
  • wibutterflymagic
    wibutterflymagic Posts: 788 Member
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    The only a few reasons not to be losing weight. You are eating more than you think(not weighing and measuring accurately) eating way too much sodium and you are bloated or you aren't exercising as much as you think. It's usually a combination of it all. Glad to hear you upped your calories.....1200 is way to low for someone your size. If you really want to see where you should be go to: http://scoobysworkshop.com/calorie-calculator/ and calculate your BMR and TDEE.
  • Cayderine
    Cayderine Posts: 9 Member
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    I am just starting my fourth week, and only now am I starting to go down before I was going UP! I was livid, this is hard enough without the uncertainty and slight panic of not seeing the results you feel you deserve. week number four lost a few pounds and ive never been so glad I stuck with it and kept putting in the hard work, just trying to have blind faith it would pay off. If I didn't where would I be, back to square one and have to start it all from scratch again, probably worse cause I would have nommed my feelings. Don't let it slip, have blind faith, what you are doing will work for you.