Honest Opinions Please

SLLRunner

I just personally feel like the numbers on the scale and what I see don't quite add up??

Sounds like you're having some body image issues. That combined with your post about self-loathing yesterday is going to make me suggest that you find a support group or professional to talk to. I think you're dealing with some emotional issues about your weight and you need some help with that.

This exactly.

SLLRunner

Thank you. I did have an eating disorder in the past - I think I will look for a professional to help me on this journey.

From a girl who dealt with an eating disorder, I say, "You Go!" Get the help you need and love your body no matter what size you are. In my opinion, self love is one of the most important tools to losing weight and keeping it off.

Tbaby1514

Obese is a medical term based on BMI. If you're asking if you look big, yes you do. I'm not trying to sound like a ****, but I'm not going to write an entire essay beating around the bush.

earth_echo

comment deleted. wrong thread. my bad.

shifterbrainz

Obese is a medical term based on BMI. If you're asking if you look big, yes you do. I'm not trying to sound like a ****, but I'm not going to write an entire essay beating around the bush.

That was helpful. No need to try.

nicola8989

Thank you everyone - I think I'll take the pic down now but I'll take it all on board x

wellthenwhat

http://www.mybodygallery.com/

This is a good place to see what other people of varying heights and weights look like. Sometimes it's easier to see in other people.

newhealthykim

Any other girls or bi/gay guys really happy with the eye candy vismal put up? I'm not one to normally swoon over muscles, but dang...