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beautifulbay

Cuddle afterwards? Yes or No??? :smokin:

Not only yes, but HECK YES.

that's the best part. :bigsmile:

LIAR!

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UM...WHAT DO YOU ACTUALLY do WHEN YOU HAVE SEX? :laugh:

I know you guys are thinking I am completely lying out my muscular manly buttocks, but I promise this is the truth.

I absolutely hate the phrase 'having sex'. I despise it. To me that's far too clinical and impersonal. I know it's argueing semantics, but to me...it's not.

Yes, I do enjoy cuddling. Sexual relations is so much more for me than a simple race to an orgasm. It's the experience, its the sharing of one's soul, it's looking someone in the eye as you have them in a completely vulnerable state, and knowing that you are sharing a part of yourself.

No. I'm not lying. Yes, I do feel like this. And yes, this really *is* how I love and want to be loved.

That's just how it is.

-J

well said J! My husband and I feel the same way....even when it's rough and tumbly and we're really having SEX ---well, afterwards he always tells me "I'm still making LOVE to you because I love you." He never lets that go and I think that's awesome.
It makes me happy and makes fun sex feel less icky?? to be said that way?? maybe you knwo what I mean....so saying it as having sex doesn't bother me like that, because I know how much I'm loved by my husband and it never has to seem or feel "clinical" ....so I do agree with you on what you said, but am comfortable calling it having sex when that's what we're doing ....vs when we are really being romantic .... either way, for us, its never a raxce either, and that is how it should be....it also comes down to your relationship with one another.

kimber607

Hi

I like a tall (at least 5 '10 min) and brains
I always go after the smart geeky guy
Before I became a SAHM I was a recruiter...I traveled to different colleges trying to recruit actuaries
Let me tell you if you don't know what an actuary is..they are some of the smartest people I've ever met...that was sexy!!

Cuddling..what's that??
LOL...

After being married for 7+yrs does anyone really cuddle anymore ;(

Sarge....you get a A+ in my book....stay true to who you are...and it will all work out....you sound like a great guy and gal would be very lucky to have

Kim

sgtinvincible

Cuddle afterwards? Yes or No??? :smokin:

Not only yes, but HECK YES.

that's the best part. :bigsmile:

LIAR!

---

UM...WHAT DO YOU ACTUALLY do WHEN YOU HAVE SEX? :laugh:

I know you guys are thinking I am completely lying out my muscular manly buttocks, but I promise this is the truth.

I absolutely hate the phrase 'having sex'. I despise it. To me that's far too clinical and impersonal. I know it's argueing semantics, but to me...it's not.

Yes, I do enjoy cuddling. Sexual relations is so much more for me than a simple race to an orgasm. It's the experience, its the sharing of one's soul, it's looking someone in the eye as you have them in a completely vulnerable state, and knowing that you are sharing a part of yourself.

No. I'm not lying. Yes, I do feel like this. And yes, this really *is* how I love and want to be loved.

That's just how it is.

-J

well said J! My husband and I feel the same way....even when it's rough and tumbly and we're really having SEX ---well, afterwards he always tells me "I'm still making LOVE to you because I love you." He never lets that go and I think that's awesome.
It makes me happy and makes fun sex feel less icky?? to be said that way?? maybe you knwo what I mean....so saying it as having sex doesn't bother me like that, because I know how much I'm loved by my husband and it never has to seem or feel "clinical" ....so I do agree with you on what you said, but am comfortable calling it having sex when that's what we're doing ....vs when we are really being romantic .... either way, for us, its never a raxce either, and that is how it should be....it also comes down to your relationship with one another.

Exactly. :happy:

GravyGurl

ALL HAIL THE GOLDEN RETRIEVER!!!

A Cat for me thank you :laugh:

spaul82478

I am a little late on this one.. but I ve come to realize that YES I LOVE his lips and eyes.. but now its so much more.. HE'S honest, fun, entertaining, handy, muscular, gives awsome points of views and he's truly the best guy i have ever met..... :bigsmile:

spaul82478

I am a little late on this one.. but I ve come to realize that YES I LOVE his lips and eyes.. but now its so much more.. HE'S honest, fun, entertaining, handy, muscular, gives awsome points of views and he's truly the best guy i have ever met..... :bigsmile:

AJCM

Is Sarge for real??? How many of us LOVE him??? What a genuine and sweet guy, and I don't just mean from thist post - I've been a big fan for a while, but this takes the cake! You are AWESOME!!
:flowerforyou: :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:

sgtinvincible

Is Sarge for real??? How many of us LOVE him??? What a genuine and sweet guy, and I don't just mean from thist post - I've been a big fan for a while, but this takes the cake! You are AWESOME!!
:flowerforyou: :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:

Thanks guys, I love ya'll too.



-J

AJCM

Is Sarge for real??? How many of us LOVE him??? What a genuine and sweet guy, and I don't just mean from thist post - I've been a big fan for a while, but this takes the cake! You are AWESOME!!
:flowerforyou: :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:

Thanks guys, I love ya'll too.



-J

laureneva

i can't believe i didnt see this thread before

I know you guys are thinking I am completely lying out my muscular manly buttocks, but I promise this is the truth.

I absolutely hate the phrase 'having sex'. I despise it. To me that's far too clinical and impersonal. I know it's argueing semantics, but to me...it's not.

Yes, I do enjoy cuddling. Sexual relations is so much more for me than a simple race to an orgasm. It's the experience, its the sharing of one's soul, it's looking someone in the eye as you have them in a completely vulnerable state, and knowing that you are sharing a part of yourself.

No. I'm not lying. Yes, I do feel like this. And yes, this really *is* how I love and want to be loved.

That's just how it is.

-J

:sad:
what i want in a guy is listed above... now to only find him :sad:

sculley

Sarge!!!!

I think a few (well maybe just me) want to know why you don't have a girl friend yet??? And in a few years since you won't date me... hehehe maybe you could find me a man (you have good friends right lol)

ali106

:drinker: here's to you J boy!!! I love a man who was raised right!:flowerforyou:

as for little o' Ali:blushing: ....um I like to laugh....yes believe it or not...I do...you'd never know huh...LOL....so sense of humor is way up there!

oh and a sexy voice, accents are a plus!!! not always foreign just different than I'm used too.... strong body, not skinny...NOT SKINNY!

sexy eyes that tell what he's not saying...:smooched: , good teeth and a sexy smile...that will totally get me! oh and tall!!! lol I love tall even though I"m only 5'2"...lol

As for cuddles...well if all is good in love land...its all part of the package!!!

hugs!
Ali

maverickyanda

upper abs/chest/shoulders





Not hulk hogan-y but the kind where you go OH arrgh mm I'd like to be under you.

//end gutter.

maverickyanda

oh - and a five o clock shadow.

Amanda4825

mmm lips and hands:happy:

sgtinvincible

Sarge!!!!

I think a few (well maybe just me) want to know why you don't have a girl friend yet??? And in a few years since you won't date me... hehehe maybe you could find me a man (you have good friends right lol)

Well, to be honest it due to an over developed sense of loyalty.

You see, I just recently was officially divorced (NC requires a one year seperation before you can be legally divorced aka the longest year of my life). Up until that point, I felt I was still married, despite the fact that my ex had moved in with the guy I had caught her cheating with.

You see, I took my vows very seriously, and I just couldn't allow myself to justify breaking those because she did. I wasn't about to lower myself to her standards. I just couldn't do it. I wouldn't *let* myself do it.

So there you go...that's why I don't have a girlfriend, though I am finally at the point where I feel I am free to do that again. Up until recently I hadn't met anyone that I felt warranted pursuing a relationship with. Things may be looking up in that department though. I'll keep you updated.

(And yeah, I might know a few guys for a cute girl like yourself to hook up with...who knows? :laugh: )

Hugs,

-J

iluvsparkles

Up until that point, I felt I was still married, despite the fact that my ex had moved in with the guy I had caught her cheating with.

You see, I took my vows very seriously, and I just couldn't allow myself to justify breaking those because she did. I wasn't about to lower myself to her standards. I just couldn't do it. I wouldn't *let* myself do it.

this, my handsome friend, is the exact reason why you are going to make some girl very happy.

I have to admit.. that one of the biggest reasons i love my hubby is because when we were in college, we met and hit it off right away. He was fresh out of a relationship and put off getting serious with me until he could fully and truly get over her and give me his full attention. I RESPECT that so much...and now hes the man im going to marry! Glad i was patient, because it really showed the type of dedicated man that he is.

And sgt..you really are going to sweep a lady off of her feet. Please please be picky!! we want you to get the catch of the year this time!

Manda86

Up until that point, I felt I was still married, despite the fact that my ex had moved in with the guy I had caught her cheating with.

You see, I took my vows very seriously, and I just couldn't allow myself to justify breaking those because she did. I wasn't about to lower myself to her standards. I just couldn't do it. I wouldn't *let* myself do it.

this, my handsome friend, is the exact reason why you are going to make some girl very happy.

I have to admit.. that one of the biggest reasons i love my hubby is because when we were in college, we met and hit it off right away. He was fresh out of a relationship and put off getting serious with me until he could fully and truly get over her and give me his full attention. I RESPECT that so much...and now hes the man im going to marry! Glad i was patient, because it really showed the type of dedicated man that he is.

And sgt..you really are going to sweep a lady off of her feet. Please please be picky!! we want you to get the catch of the year this time!

I agree- you're going to make someone very, very happy.