Crying
NatalieBrooke88
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So, this guy I have been semi dating (or something like that) just called me. He screams my name and then I hear in the background his roommate scream "Hey, is that the fat girl you're talking to". It really tore me apart. Yeah, I was fat, and yes I have more weight to lose, but the comment cut me to the core. Perhaps, I am too sensitive, words can hurt so bad.
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*hugs* I'm sorry you had to hear that...Guys can be jerks (not all but alot)0
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What an *kitten*. He was probably messing with the guy anyway. Please don't take it too personal. It was meant as a joke to demean your bf. To bring him down. You understand?0
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HI Natalie,
what a jerk?!
You're so pretty! and so not fat.
Focus on your good points so the bad ones don't bring you down and away from you goals.0 -
Wow, what a jerk. I'm sorry that happened to you.
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So, this guy I have been semi dating (or something like that) just called me. He screams my name and then I hear in the background his roommate scream "Hey, is that the fat girl you're talking to". It really tore me apart. Yeah, I was fat, and yes I have more weight to lose, but the comment cut me to the core. Perhaps, I am too sensitive, words can hurt so bad.
What a jerk ... your picture is absolutely beautiful.
I would bet you are beautiful on the inside too ... HUGS... people suck sometimes!0 -
Umm, your drop dead gorgeous!!! his room mate WISHES he could get someone like you!!!!0
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I just looked at your photos and you are SO not fat!! You're gorgeous!! I agree that the guy in the background was just messing with the guy you're dating. He probably doesn't even know what you look like and was just playing around. That being said, if the guy you're dating didn't stick up for you, forget him!0
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Aww hun, from the looks of your pics you are GORGEOUS and not fat in the least bit!! How did the guy ur dating react when his roommate said that? Guys are stupid sometimes. I'd tell them both to kick rocks and go find yourself someone that can see how much you rock!!!0
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That guy most likely has issues that have nothing to do with you.
I'm sorry though.0 -
Don't be sad and hurt!!!! Get mad!!!! Take it out on your tredmill, eliptical, or weights... and in a couple of months when you 'accidentialy' run into him you can cherrish that look on his face when he sees how hot you look!!!!0
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What an *kitten*. He was probably messing with the guy anyway. Please don't take it too personal. It was meant as a joke to demean your bf. To bring him down. You understand?
This is the first thing I thought...This was meant as a jerk messing with a jerk. He was trying to not only demean your boyfriend but also make your boyfriend look like an *kitten*. Which he succeeded. However, the guy you are dating should not be hanging around with creeps like that. You are GORGEOUS! That whole phrase "sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me?" Bologna. But don't give the jerk any power. Its not true so don't focus on it. You are beautiful and that moron obviously should feel lucky he's dating you. :flowerforyou:0 -
YES you are being to sensitive!!! By looking at your profile pics, you are FAR from being fat, in fact you are BEAUTIFUL!! The jerk will one day have a fat wife and make him eat his own words!!!:laugh: Chin up and remind yourself how far you have come in your young life!!! I have two sons who are in their mid and later twenties who I know would say you are HOT!!! Smile and be nice to yourself!!!0
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You're not fat you look pretty awesome in your pictures! Don't worry about what some loser said.0
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You are all very kind. but his roommate used to date my old roommate a couple of years ago. At that time I was 35 pounds heavier and fat. He never liked me and has always been rude to me. I know hes just another jerk, but it still is so incredibly painful. Oh, and after he said it his current girlfriend laughed.
I pledge never to use my words as a sword. I NEVER want to make others feel the same way this guy (and many others) have made me felt.
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You are a beautiful girl and do not let that jerk get to you......You are absolutely beautiful, his friend only wishes he could date someone as pretty as you:) Hang in there!!:)0
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What an jerk! This roommate likely does NOT have a girl of his own.......wonder why?!!!:laugh:0
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GIRL, YOU ARE TEENY TINY!! So I'm thinking this guy doesn't even know what you look like! So don't even think about what you heard some dumbass say. He probably just has a small penis and feels bad about it so he tries to bring down ANYONE that he can :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
But seriously, you are so gorgeous and slim! And you really shouldn't even need anyone else to tell you that
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You are definitely not "too sensitive". That was mean and VERY immature. And not true! To echo the shared sentiment, you are gorgeous! It's hard to not let comments like that bother you though. hang in there!0
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Natalie,
You are a very pretty young lady. The guy that you're semi-dating is a jerk for not setting his friend straight. I'd tell him to go kick rocks! You're much to pretty to have some silly guy bringing you down. I'm sure there's someone out there that will love you just the way you are and then some! Cheer up girl!0 -
you are absolutely beautiful. and words can hurt, worse than the sticks and stones. dont let that jerk have that much power over you. i agree, take that frustration out on the treadmill, and i hope at least the guy stuck up for you. definitely get rid of him if he didn't. i hope you feel better and again, you are beautiful:flowerforyou:0
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That he would allow his friend/room mate to speak about you that way while he knows you are listening....right there he deserves the boot.
And why exactly do you consider yourself fat? You look to be like a sz 2 or 4...and tall. Why let their words bother you when it's obvious that you're not fat...0 -
Chin up
, don't let anyone tear you down. You are no longer that person 0 -
The only part here I don't agree with, and this is coming from a guys point of view, is that most guys say that. I don't think he's being a creep. It's just meant to bring him down because probably his roommate has no one as hot as you or no one at all.What an *kitten*. He was probably messing with the guy anyway. Please don't take it too personal. It was meant as a joke to demean your bf. To bring him down. You understand?
This is the first thing I thought...This was meant as a jerk messing with a jerk. He was trying to not only demean your boyfriend but also make your boyfriend look like an *kitten*. Which he succeeded. However, the guy you are dating should not be hanging around with creeps like that. You are GORGEOUS! That whole phrase "sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me?" Bologna. But don't give the jerk any power. Its not true so don't focus on it. You are beautiful and that moron obviously should feel lucky he's dating you. :flowerforyou:0 -
GIRL, YOU ARE TEENY TINY!! So I'm thinking this guy doesn't even know what you look like! So don't even think about what you heard some dumbass say. He probably just has a small penis and feels bad about it so he tries to bring down ANYONE that he can :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
But seriously, you are so gorgeous and slim! And you really shouldn't even need anyone else to tell you that:flowerforyou:
Own what you've got!!
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Doesn't sound like anyone I'd want to spend time with...why waste yours with a guy like that, that's even got a roomie that talks trash about you. The bf allowed it and didn't put a stop too it, seems you deserve far more than that!!You are all very kind. but his roommate used to date my old roommate a couple of years ago. At that time I was 35 pounds heavier and fat. He never liked me and has always been rude to me. I know hes just another jerk, but it still is so incredibly painful. Oh, and after he said it his current girlfriend laughed.
I pledge never to use my words as a sword. I NEVER want to make others feel the same way this guy (and many others) have made me felt.
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A lot of good decent guys out there that don't get so caught up in looks, it's how you feel about yourself that's truly most important, not what a 'semi-dating' bf thinks or a roomie yelling in the background thinks. Life's too short to waste your time on ppl that bring you down...it really is!:flowerforyou:0 -
I hope the guy your seeing gave him a nice hard punch
Joke or not it was a huge douche thing for him to say.Some guy called me fat when I was pregnant with my first child... new pregnant and it really upset me. Why go for "fat" as a way to mess with or insult a woman? Its messed up.0 -
No, I don't agree... I think most guys THINK other guys act this way... but it's simply not true. If a guy thinks this is how all guys act then it's the company they keep that's making them think this, not a true reflection on all guys.
The only part here I don't agree with, and this is coming from a guys point of view, is that most guys say that. I don't think he's being a creep. It's just meant to bring him down because probably his roommate has no one as hot as you or no one at all.What an *kitten*. He was probably messing with the guy anyway. Please don't take it too personal. It was meant as a joke to demean your bf. To bring him down. You understand?
This is the first thing I thought...This was meant as a jerk messing with a jerk. He was trying to not only demean your boyfriend but also make your boyfriend look like an *kitten*. Which he succeeded. However, the guy you are dating should not be hanging around with creeps like that. You are GORGEOUS! That whole phrase "sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me?" Bologna. But don't give the jerk any power. Its not true so don't focus on it. You are beautiful and that moron obviously should feel lucky he's dating you. :flowerforyou:0 -
I am by no means taking up for men by no means. Lots of men throw that word around because we don't know how it hurts you. To us, being fat is just ok. To females, not ok. Worse than that. I know it sucks. We just don't know the power words have. I am truly sorry. Though you are not fat. You just so happen to be amazingly hot!0
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You must be a guy then right? You don't think like men. There is no way you can be. Men were taught that fat was ok. That being fat was ok. Women were taught otherwise.
No, I don't agree... I think most guys THINK other guys act this way... but it's simply not true. If a guy thinks this is how all guys act then it's the company they keep that's making them think this, not a true reflection on all guys.
The only part here I don't agree with, and this is coming from a guys point of view, is that most guys say that. I don't think he's being a creep. It's just meant to bring him down because probably his roommate has no one as hot as you or no one at all.What an *kitten*. He was probably messing with the guy anyway. Please don't take it too personal. It was meant as a joke to demean your bf. To bring him down. You understand?
This is the first thing I thought...This was meant as a jerk messing with a jerk. He was trying to not only demean your boyfriend but also make your boyfriend look like an *kitten*. Which he succeeded. However, the guy you are dating should not be hanging around with creeps like that. You are GORGEOUS! That whole phrase "sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me?" Bologna. But don't give the jerk any power. Its not true so don't focus on it. You are beautiful and that moron obviously should feel lucky he's dating you. :flowerforyou:0 -
You are all incredibly supportive and kind. Thank you for helping me get through this..
I think I am going to buy Nike's shirt that says "Strong is the New Beautiful' and just move on. I have experienced this more than I would like to account for, but I would like to think it makes me a little bit stronger every time.
If any of you want a super supportive MyfitnessPal friend, then feel free to add me! I would love to be there for you as well. This journey is hard, but we are all here doing it together!
"Choice, not circumstances, determines success"
"Maintain an attitude of gratitude"0
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