What is sexy?

mrmarius
mrmarius Posts: 1,802 Member
edited September 23 in Chit-Chat
I see so many people on here and in everyday life saying they want to lose weight so they can be sexy. Its always funny because many of you/them are already considered by many sexy, even ifyou have a lb or two to lose, or even if you have a lot to lose. On the other hand there are many people not considered sexy that are at "perfect" weights. I suppose then that "sexy" is very subjective, i know for me its really an intangible quality, it has alot to do with attitude even more so than appearance. The way some women carry themselves, their attitudes, etc to me make them sexy. I love a woman who is confident in herself but not conceited, who has a sense of humor, and a sense of humor about herself. A big help is just being nice, there have been many times when a woman was just nice that it overrode any physical "deficiency" she may have had. on the other hand many "gorgeous" women have not been nice and it made them ugly. what do you all consider sexy
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  • TheMaidOfAstolat
    TheMaidOfAstolat Posts: 3,222 Member
    Sexy is a state of mind. I love seeing guys and gals that are comfortable with who they are. Being intelligent is increadibly sexy to me. I'd much rather go on a date with a man who is well read, articulate, and has a great personality. That's sexy!
  • KeepOnMoving
    KeepOnMoving Posts: 383 Member
    "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder." But I like to say real "beauty is skin deep." :happy:
  • believetoachieve
    believetoachieve Posts: 675 Member
    Confidence is my idea of sexy!! I know I have pretty attributes, and overall I like myself (extra squish and all!). But, I'll have even more confidence if a couple pounds come off, because I know I'll be healthier and more energetic. That being said, I'm very confident as it is, which sometimes causes issues with weight loss - since I often think "well, I'm of average attractiveness, why change?". :blushing:

    Haha, work in progress! :wink:
  • ersulas
    ersulas Posts: 28 Member
    I think if you're beautiful on the inside, you'll be beautiful outside too. And vice versa =]
  • roylawrence87
    roylawrence87 Posts: 970 Member
    I am sexy. The end.
  • maletac
    maletac Posts: 767 Member
    i post it everyday... i am really really ridiculously good looking .. i burn 10 calories in 10 min being so good looking :)
  • sarahsmom1
    sarahsmom1 Posts: 1,501 Member
    My husband could make a sound like a cricket I thought that was sexy. And that twinkle in his eye when he winked at me yep sexy
  • TaraDenise
    TaraDenise Posts: 164 Member
    I have nothing to add here.....except that I totally agree with you.
  • HealthyChanges2010
    HealthyChanges2010 Posts: 5,831 Member
    Sexy is a state of mind. I love seeing guys and gals that are comfortable with who they are. Being intelligent is increadibly sexy to me. I'd much rather go on a date with a man who is well read, articulate, and has a great personality. That's sexy!
    Absolutely!! I feel this way as well!:heart:
  • HealthyChanges2010
    HealthyChanges2010 Posts: 5,831 Member
    I am sexy. The end.
    now there's sexy and there's cocky... just sayin:laugh:

    A man with confidence over cockiness any day for this girl, it's just plain sexy!:smokin:
  • stephaniepill
    stephaniepill Posts: 19
    I agree with you 100%. Being sexy comes from the inside, it's a state of mind, an ability to believe in yourself and be yourself. When you consider that as we age, the outside beauty will fade, but if you're beautiful inside, then you'll always be sexy. Part of that inner beauty absolutely includes being intelligent, funny, confident, caring, respectful, & comfortable in your own skin - regardless of how much you weigh or what size you are. :)
  • modelk
    modelk Posts: 15
    Love the topic! What is sexy you asked? Um......ME...lol & not being conceited just confident!
  • msbanana
    msbanana Posts: 793 Member
    I am sexy. The end.

    Damn it you stole my answer.

    ME! I'm a sexxy sexxxy beast. :bigsmile:
  • Scarletblue
    Scarletblue Posts: 255
    I agree, it's confidence and kindness, It's the way one carries themself and speaks. It's also a look that somebody could give me and make me feel wanted and beautiful all because they looked at me that's mojo and it's sexy.
  • michellesisreed
    michellesisreed Posts: 24 Member
    i post it everyday... i am really really ridiculously good looking .. i burn 10 calories in 10 min being so good looking :)

    LMAO.
  • NikkisNewStart
    NikkisNewStart Posts: 1,075 Member
    Ambitious, Intelligent, Health Conscious, God Fearing, Family Oriented = Sexy
  • leanmass24
    leanmass24 Posts: 304 Member
    *in my best scottish accent* I'm rich and i'm dead sexy......lol
  • marniehodges
    marniehodges Posts: 264
    I've been married almost 24 years and still find my hubby way sexy and I'm pretty sure he feels the same way...a girl just knows, you know :blushing: . We've both had our ups and downs with weight...who doesn't 3 kids, 2 grandkids and 24 years later. Feeling sexy is not just about weight and looks, it's about feeling confident in your own skin!
  • MobiusMan
    MobiusMan Posts: 385 Member
    The last time I got together with the girls from Victoria's Secret they made it very clear to me that mustaches are what make men sexy.:flowerforyou:
  • christydufrene78
    christydufrene78 Posts: 52
    I ALWAYS ASKED MYSELF THAT QUESTION BECAUSE PEOPLE SEE IT DIFFERENT MEANINGS. HERE I AM NEED TO LOSE SOME WEIGHT, BUT I HAVE A COLLEGE DEGREE, WORK FULL TIME, ATTEND CHURCH REGULARLY, CHILD OF GOD, OWN HOUSE, OWN MY VECHILE, AND 2 BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTERS THAT ARE WELL TAKEN CARE OF. BUT YET IF I WALK IN A ROOM AND A SIZE 4 GIRL WALKS IN A ROOM WITH A GREAT BODY THAT SOME MAY CONSIDER (SEXY) REALITY IS SHE WILL GET MORE GUYS TO COME ON TO HER. AND TO ALL DUE RESPECT SOMETIMES THAT IS THE WOMAN LOOKING FOR HER NEXT CARNOTE TO BE PAID! GIVE WOMEN A CHANCE!! CHANCE!! TO SHOW THEIR BEAUTY!
  • brittlynne3579
    brittlynne3579 Posts: 217 Member
    Humrous attitude, confidence and respect is VERY sexy
  • radwan_masri
    radwan_masri Posts: 54
    Hey; you're absolutely right, being pretty or sexy is very subjective; You've said it all & I simply CAN'T add anything. Bring it on!!!
  • Katybun3
    Katybun3 Posts: 172
    i post it everyday... i am really really ridiculously good looking .. i burn 10 calories in 10 min being so good looking :)
  • karenjoy
    karenjoy Posts: 1,840 Member
    Good post, I agree with what you say about it being something intangible. My husband is not conventionally good looking, he is in fact someone who I would probably not have even given a second look in a bar (that sounds vile, but I am sure you know what I mean) But I 'met' him online, got to know his mind, his thoughts, his attitudes, his heart and soul and fell deeply and passionately in love with him before I ever met him or even saw a photograph of him. I adore him, to me he is the sexiest man on the planet, his voice melts my chocolate and he gives me a look and a smile and I am lost. I know what is in his mind, what he is thinking, I like how he thinks, how he laughs, how he smells. I know that he loves me for who I am rather then what I come wrapped in and that makes me confident and secure in his love. My sexy might be your turn off. Sexy is utterly intangible, Happy is sexy, confident is sexy, but cocky isn't, well not to me. Secure is sexy, mind IS sexy, clever and articulate is sexy, intelligence and knowledge is sexy. Well to me they are. I like men's minds, I like those who make me laugh, who make me smile.
  • mrmarius
    mrmarius Posts: 1,802 Member
    Melts your chocolate huh? Lol. New pick up line lol
  • DS13
    DS13 Posts: 136
    Big butts
  • feetypajamas
    feetypajamas Posts: 104 Member
    Sexy is a state of mind. I love seeing guys and gals that are comfortable with who they are. Being intelligent is incredibly sexy to me. I'd much rather go on a date with a man who is well read, articulate, and has a great personality. That's sexy!

    ^^This!!!

    A person who carries themselves well, is confident but not too cocky (yeah, I like some attitude... :P), I don't like someone so into themselves that they spend all the time preening and checking themsevles out. Bleh.
  • larousse_37
    larousse_37 Posts: 80
    Great post!

    I work as a bra fitter part time and get asked all the time "what do you have that is sexy?" geez Louise, I don't know! What i think is sexy is rarely liked by the customer... Most painful question ever...

    To me, if you're a bad person, I dont care how sexy you are, you're unattractive to me. Confidence is fantastic, but if you're cocky or disrespectful, huuuuge turn off. Sexy to me is having a lovely smile, a good sense of humour and a good nature. looks and body come second to that
  • nonoark
    nonoark Posts: 153 Member
    sense of humor and honesty is so sexy!!!! I am very out going and seem to attract a lot of attn from guys, but if there is no personality or they lie to me, I could care less what they look like...I don't have the time to even talk to them! I have dated guys that look like they should be on the cover of GQ ant then I have dated guys that remind you of meatballs, short/tall, harry/bald, my age/older.....it is all on the inside!~
  • BillyC96
    BillyC96 Posts: 7,560 Member
    it has alot to do with attitude even more so than appearance. The way some women carry themselves, their attitudes, etc to me make them sexy. I love a woman who is confident in herself but not conceited, who has a sense of humor, and a sense of humor about herself. A big help is just being nice, there have been many times when a woman was just nice that it overrode any physical "deficiency" she may have had. on the other hand many "gorgeous" women have not been nice and it made them ugly.

    Bingo! The combination of confidence and vulnerability, being comfortable in your own skin. The ability to not take yourself too seriously all make a person sexy and appealing.
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