what do you first notice in the opposite sex?

Carl01

Face and shoulders. I love broad shoulders on a man.

TORNATO1

Bewbs haha

LMAO...glad you were the first. I was afraid of being accused of being piggish and superficial so...

Hooray for being piggish and superficial!

Why thankyou sir lol.

DPruneda17

I look at what they are wearing. You can tell alot about someone by what shoes they wear. And of course their face, smile, teeth, and hair... And their fingernails. If they are cut and clean! Hmmm, guess I'm kinda picky...

Kityngirl

Physical attributes are pretty much all over the chart for me (eyes, hands, shoulders, smile, the usual)....I notice more how a guy is, if that makes sense. If he's laughing, smiling, how he holds himself, things like that. Otherwise, I'm a sucker for a quick wit and random humor. Lol.

gooteek

For the personality part, How they carry themselves and act towards others around them.
For the attraction part, well, situational; I like balance of all the elements, body, smile, teeth, hair, dress and makeup use. An awesome body with bad teeth or a great smile but one that doesn't take care of themselves all tend to have me move on. Like I said each case is different. An awesome personality and nice smile can negate other problems areas sometime, but it really is a balance and case by case situation for me.

mamagooskie

Looks in general. I like to check out the eyes (color especially) lip fullness, how big of biceps, chest etc, tattoos, hair style.

I give a quick once over and unless something is completely striking and amazing or terribly discusting I don't think I have any one actual thing I notice first.

a beer gut is hard to miss though!!

Wendi_S

For me it's his eyes- they need to be bright and alive and not staring at my cleavage - second is his smile- needs to be sincere and friendly- finally it's his shoes- no duck taped cowboy boots please ;-) Oh and another big plus is if he is well groomed- clean shaven or neatly trimmed facial hair- and especially a clean and neat neck line..... nothing worst than a 'summer sweater' that includes a hood!! oh and speaking of 'summer sweaters' no one ever died from a little manscaping ;-)

kelligonzales

Swagger for sure

Stefani74

Eyes and smile!!

FAKECED

The eyes

heavenrain

Teeth first. Then eyes and smile.

appleshells

Eyes. Then his shoes, you can tell so much about a man by the kind of shoes he wears.

And I am gonna be the girl who goes there.......I notice womens butts.

binary_jester

For me it's his eyes- they need to be bright and alive and not staring at my cleavage

Ironic coming from someone with in their profile.

Wendi_S

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And I am gonna be the girl who goes there.......I notice womens butts.
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Oh on a woman I notice her boobs- always comparing the size to mine LOL Are they real or not? And if she is wearing a good support bra!! Nothing worse than a woman with her nips past her belly button.... support support support!!!!! It's all in the support!!

Wendi_S

For me it's his eyes- they need to be bright and alive and not staring at my cleavage

Ironic coming from someone with in their profile.

stealing my pics I see! It's not like I'm walking around wearing a bikini all the time..... and that pic is there to remind me what I am fighting for......

TakeOne

As far as physical stuff, I notice a nice smile :bigsmile: (teeth, mouth, the whole deal) and I am a sucker for a guy with nice arms and shoulders (nothing extreme, nothing crazy, just strong).

Personality wise, I notice somebody who is grounded, knows what they want, and is wity enough to get my attention

DPruneda17

Eyes. Then his shoes, you can tell so much about a man by the kind of shoes he wears.

And I am gonna be the girl who goes there.......I notice womens butts.

haha! Don't we all?! Us women are great at appreciating other women... attributes! :happy:

Mrs_McFadden

Everything. I just cannot point out one thing. Voice..eyes, expression, hair..walk..arms..hands? It's not a single thing. Face is obviously prominent.

binary_jester

For me it's his eyes- they need to be bright and alive and not staring at my cleavage

Ironic coming from someone with in their profile.

stealing my pics I see! It's not like I'm walking around wearing a bikini all the time..... and that pic is there to remind me what I am fighting for......

I just appreciate the irony...that's it.

...and I can certainly delete it out of my PB...I was just making a point.

TrainerRobin

Chivalry. It's a big deal for me that a man be a man (in my view) and it's a good sign of his character if he's a gentleman. It's big time points if they stand up to give an elderly person their seat, open the door for someone struggling to get through, etc.

A sincere, great smile goes a LONG way, too! The combo? Unbeatable!

I'm old fashioned that way, I guess. :smooched:

bbygrl5

personality: confidence
physical: eyes, but not so much how attractive the eyes are vs. how expressive a guy can be with them

sparklesammy

Chivalry. It's a big deal for me that a man be a man (in my view) and it's a good sign of his character if he's a gentleman. It's big time points if they stand up to give an elderly person their seat, open the door for someone struggling to get through, etc.

A sincere, great smile goes a LONG way, too! The combo? Unbeatable!

I'm old fashioned that way, I guess. :smooched:

awww....yes totally!

TORNATO1

lol

shanolap

personality: confidence
physical: eyes, but not so much how attractive the eyes are vs. how expressive a guy can be with them

Now that's what turns me on about the opposite sex!

kiannlouise

their eyes and smile
they have to have good teeth!

binary_jester

Chivalry. It's a big deal for me that a man be a man (in my view) and it's a good sign of his character if he's a gentleman. It's big time points if they stand up to give an elderly person their seat, open the door for someone struggling to get through, etc.

A sincere, great smile goes a LONG way, too! The combo? Unbeatable!

I'm old fashioned that way, I guess. :smooched:

I always open the door for a lady. I get some awful glares sometimes, like i am implying they are incapable.

jnicke

I would have to say their face, which is eyes, nose and mouth. Obviously nice teeth. After that, I think its how a man holds himself, level of confidence is big. I really do love nice shoulders and arms. Its what makes a man a man, after all....:)

vzepol

The smile

suziehomemaker

Chivalry. It's a big deal for me that a man be a man (in my view) and it's a good sign of his character if he's a gentleman. It's big time points if they stand up to give an elderly person their seat, open the door for someone struggling to get through, etc.

A sincere, great smile goes a LONG way, too! The combo? Unbeatable!

I'm old fashioned that way, I guess. :smooched:

I always open the door for a lady. I get some awful glares sometimes, like i am implying they are incapable.

love it when a man is courteous....chivalry is not dead yet......i LOVE EVERYTHING about a man....i like admiring women too....im not afraid to tell another women that she looks great:smooched:

ArchyJill

Handshake! Yes, I shake a lot of hands in my job...the handshake says it all for me.