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    what do you first notice in the opposite sex?

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    • Posts: 123 Member
      It depends. If I hear his voice before I see him, then the first thing I notice is his vernacular. Nothing is more unappealing than "tawkin lie dis"!

      Otherwise, it's his smile! :)
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      I have to confess that I will look at ladies profiles here as well to see if they have taken a picture of their butt. :embarassed:


      I too am a butt man.~~
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      I too am a butt man.~~

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      come on he said the first thing, you never notice anything about personality as the first thing
      for me is butt and small waist :P

      UNTRUE! I'm around hot guys all the time, it doesn't phase me... But if I notice a man being polite/kind/considerate it makes me really attracted to them even if their looks aren't a (stereotypical) 10.

      Just being honest.
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      UNTRUE! I'm around hot guys all the time, it doesn't phase me... But if I notice a man being polite/kind/considerate it makes me really attracted to them even if their looks aren't a (stereotypical) 10.

      Just being honest.

      WTG! Wish I had that mindset when I was your age too! :smile: :flowerforyou:
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      I have always maintained how you appear certainly makes an impression, but what comes out of your mouth leaves an indelible mark.
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      I have always maintained how you appear certainly makes an impression, but what comes out of your mouth leaves an indelible mark.


      I think I'm gonna cross-stich this on a pillow or something. Best quote ever!
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      I have always maintained how you appear certainly makes an impression, but what comes out of your mouth leaves an indelible mark.

      SO TRUE!!!
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      I'm a sucker for beautiful smiles. If a man smiles a lot, it shows his confidence! And confidence is attractive.
    • Posts: 3,794 Member
      Hair. If you've got nice, long hair...:love:
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      Y'all are so lucky to know exactly what you like in the opposite sex. I do like a woman with a nice smile, chest, butt, and all that good stuff; but at the end of the day, I'll shove all of that to the side and fall in love with the woman that has a good heart. A woman with all the best attributes cannot do anything for me if she holds grudges or has a bad attitude or has that jealous streak. Give me a plain Jane with a smile and a good heart, and I'll walk away the happiest man on the planet.
    • Posts: 104 Member
      DEF- smile, teeth color and shape!
    • Posts: 188 Member
      Legs.
    • Posts: 2,457 Member
      On the physical side, definitely
      1. Eyes
      2. Hands
      3. Glutes
      :wink:
    • Posts: 881 Member
      Has any other guy told the truth yet???? Face, Boobs, *kitten*.

      Some times not in that order hahahaha:laugh:
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      Mouth...not just the lips, but the teeth and the shape. Weird huh?


      same for me the mouth the teeth and the type of shoe they wear lol so i'm weird too
    • Posts: 489 Member
      eyes, face, smile...in about 3/10 of a second. then boobs, then *kitten*, then back to boobs.
    • Posts: 14,304 Member
      I have always maintained how you appear certainly makes an impression, but what comes out of your mouth leaves an indelible mark.
      Truth.
    • Posts: 699 Member
      I would say his height would catch my attention first, like them tall ;)

      That's the first thing that attracts me as well. (I'm 5'9".) Then it is the teeth and shoulders, not sure in which order! =)
    • Posts: 2,275 Member
      Smile first. And not a fake smile either. I want a big toothy grin. The teeth don't have to be straight, but they have to be white.
      In fact, people with super straight or "glowing" white teeth freak me out! LOL
      I think people with a gap in their teeth or a crooked tooth here and there are adorable.

      Also the eyes are something I look at as well. You know someone is genuinely happy when their eyes crinkle at the sides when they smile. I love that.
    • Posts: 1,802 Member
      Smile first. And not a fake smile either. I want a big toothy grin. The teeth don't have to be straight, but they have to be white.
      In fact, people with super straight or "glowing" white teeth freak me out! LOL
      I think people with a gap in their teeth or a crooked tooth here and there are adorable.

      Also the eyes are something I look at as well. You know someone is genuinely happy when their eyes crinkle at the sides when they smile. I love that.
      so you like a gap? Flashes big smile
    • Posts: 194
      arms, shoulders, *kitten*, height.......

      If there is a man with redhair, he is going to get my attention, everytime. It's a weird fetish I have ;-)
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      so you like a gap? Flashes big smile

      People with gaps in their teeth are super cute!
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      arms, shoulders, *kitten*, height.......

      If there is a man with redhair, he is going to get my attention, everytime. It's a weird fetish I have ;-)

      Thats just wrong on every level:tongue:
    • Posts: 858 Member
      its a toss up between, eyes, legs and booty, :wink:
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      I would have answered this question differently five or ten years ago but first thing I notice now is the eyes :wink:
    • Posts: 2,151 Member
      I guess it depends on what level. The first level-If I'm just walking down the street, I notice clothes first. If he's dressed like an idiot (saggy pants, stupid sideways hat, skinny jeans, etc. Basically dressed like a boy not a man) I don't pay any attention at all.

      If I'm meeting someone, I notice the smile first. Then I notice what type of sense of humor they have and how intelligent they seem..
    • Posts: 293 Member
      I notice height right away. Wouldn't date someone shorter than me.
    • Posts: 471
      Well i actually surprised myself a little bit.
      I would have thought that height would be my big factor but then i realized that looks-wise i have dated guys all over the map.

      But every single one of them had a warm smile and kind eyes. (now THATS sexy)
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      Y'all are so lucky to know exactly what you like in the opposite sex. I do like a woman with a nice smile, chest, butt, and all that good stuff; but at the end of the day, I'll shove all of that to the side and fall in love with the woman that has a good heart. A woman with all the best attributes cannot do anything for me if she holds grudges or has a bad attitude or has that jealous streak. Give me a plain Jane with a smile and a good heart, and I'll walk away the happiest man on the planet.

      and with a heart like that you're sure to find exactly what you're looking for!

      so sweet.
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