On open letter to my MFP stalker troll.....

Wendi_S

Dear Stalker-

You claim I am stupid and my husband should leave me. You claim that I am crazy and need medication. You claim that I am weak because I suffer with an ED. You claim that I will never amount to anything or ever fit it. These are very strong words coming from someone who hides behind a little blue silhouette and empty profile. Your comment about my blog being about wanting attention couldn't be further from the truth. I am open and honest about my struggles. I post them with the hopes that even if just one girl/woman who is feeling the same way reads it, she will know that she is not alone. Your comments about my children are uncalled for and by now you probably know I've reported you to MFP and blocked you from sending me PM's. I will continue to report you each and every time you comment on one of my blog posts. So please, in true troll fashion, please crawl back under the rock you came out of. Thank You!

** For the past few days I've been getting nasty immature PM's and comments left on my blog from this particular MFP troll. I've tried ignoring it to my best ability. But she crossed a line when she left a comment about my children. It was an immature uneducated comment but it was about my kids- not cool! As you read above I've blocked her and reported her- so please don't suggest that.**

navvs15

Man, what a creep! They must be pretty pathetic sending you nasty messages like that. :explode:
Of course, none of its true!

sweetheart03622

OMG. I'm so sorry you had to deal with that. This is about supporting people. Screw her.

twooliver

Good for you for reporting!!! Don't need that kind of energy on MFP!

Randee75

Delete and ignore are great too bad we didn't have that option available to us at will lol. Don't let it get to you....because you are a better person who has the balls to lay it all out on the table, to inspire all that might be in the same situation as you.

kdao

So sorry you are having to deal with this =( Some people are just miserable and you know what they say about misery. I would be fuming if someone made comments about my children. Hopefully the stage 5 stalker leaves you alone!

Kirstie_C26

WELL SAID!!! we dont need the 'haters' in our lives hon

kudos to u

best wishes
Kirstie x

crazymama2two

wow, this makes me so sad. ive yet to encounter hostility here. i havent read your blogs only because im so busy in my world, but im positive that the words you type are words of inspiration, words of honesty, etc. the fact that someone takes time out of their day to try and hurt another just screams to me of total hatred of themselves and their life that they have created for themselves.

i must friend you now if that's okay

Kityngirl

Cheers for standing up for yourself. Some people have nothing else to do but make others feel bad about themselves. :flowerforyou:

pkd1

Dear Stalker-

You claim I am stupid and my husband should leave me. You claim that I am crazy and need medication. You claim that I am weak because I suffer with an ED. You claim that I will never amount to anything or ever fit it. These are very strong words coming from someone who hides behind a little blue silhouette and empty profile. Your comment about my blog being about wanting attention couldn't be further from the truth. I am open and honest about my struggles. I post them with the hopes that even if just one girl/woman who is feeling the same way reads it, she will know that she is not alone. Your comments about my children are uncalled for and by now you probably know I've reported you to MFP and blocked you from sending me PM's. I will continue to report you each and every time you comment on one of my blog posts. So please, in true troll fashion, please crawl back under the rock you came out of. Thank You!

** For the past few days I've been getting nasty immature PM's and comments left on my blog from this particular MFP troll. I've tried ignoring it to my best ability. But she crossed a line when she left a comment about my children. It was an immature uneducated comment but it was about my kids- not cool! As you read above I've blocked her and reported her- so please don't suggest that.**

Question how do you report someone to MFP? i have a PM Perv and i know how to block but want to take it a step further

Tofuheart

That is very childish and also hurtful. I sure hope you contacted admin and have them banned and removed. I hope that they do not return or find more reason now to stalk you. Losing weight and being healthy is hard enough on it's own sometimes, you don't need this.


Take care. :flowerforyou:

bbb84

Umm.... wow! Petty people need not be here. This isn't Facebook! This is supposed to be a safe place for people who are focusing on their health and happiness, while meeting friends for support and the have a little fun along the way. If you're not here for those reasons you need.to shove off, stop trying to then something positive into a negative.

tracylynne29

I am sorry that someone has given you a hard time. She cant be any better than any of us or she would not need to use this site. That is wrong for someone to harass you like that I hope MFP does something about it. They should remove her because if she is doing that to you she might do it to someone else here.

bigskinner

Dear Stalker-

You claim I am stupid and my husband should leave me. You claim that I am crazy and need medication. You claim that I am weak because I suffer with an ED. You claim that I will never amount to anything or ever fit it. These are very strong words coming from someone who hides behind a little blue silhouette and empty profile. Your comment about my blog being about wanting attention couldn't be further from the truth. I am open and honest about my struggles. I post them with the hopes that even if just one girl/woman who is feeling the same way reads it, she will know that she is not alone. Your comments about my children are uncalled for and by now you probably know I've reported you to MFP and blocked you from sending me PM's. I will continue to report you each and every time you comment on one of my blog posts. So please, in true troll fashion, please crawl back under the rock you came out of. Thank You!

** For the past few days I've been getting nasty immature PM's and comments left on my blog from this particular MFP troll. I've tried ignoring it to my best ability. But she crossed a line when she left a comment about my children. It was an immature uneducated comment but it was about my kids- not cool! As you read above I've blocked her and reported her- so please don't suggest that.**

sounds like this girl is a *kitten*, good on you girl for broadcasting this. i love this site because we all support each other its unique in regards to facebook etc. its all positive here!!!

scmusicbiz

Is there a way to block the person who's harassing you? If there's not, you should report this person to MFP. Good for you for speaking up, and I wish you every success.

sars_68

You'd think people would have better ways to spend their time!!

Hope it's sorted for you now. :flowerforyou:

1FITmamaofTWINS

sounds like she is having self worth issues.. LAMEO

funnythunder

Good for you!

These forums and blogs are all about us and how we feel. We are in a situation that we are trying to get out of and are here for help and support! I find it far easier to 'talk' to people on here in the same kinds of situations than friends who are not and who don't understand!


I hope it doesn't stop you from writing your blogs xx

chelekaz

Wow, that is awful. Some people really need to worry about getting a life of their own.

And, seriously people, if you don't like someone don't show you immature and needy YOU are by harassing that person.

Shannon023

Low class when you have to involve someone's kids.

Good luck to you!

flossicle

What an *kitten* they are..i hope they're fully shamed!

madijo41

Cheers for standing up for yourself. Some people have nothing else to do but make others feel bad about themselves. :flowerforyou:

This!

rcrea

I am so sorry that you have experienced something like this. This site was meant for people to come together to encouge each other, not tear each other down. I truly hope this doesn't cause you any setbacks in your personal journey. Be well!

stroutman81

I had the same thing going on here last year. I reported it to Mike and he banned the member. I ordinarily wouldn't report stuff but some of the stuff that was being said was simply atrocious. Sorry you had to deal with the nonsense.

The veil of anonymity the web provides can bring out the bad in some folks.

katbass

Give an idiot a keyboard and some anonymity and they grow big b*lls of steel. Sorry youve had to deal with it. If it continues, you should publicly post their screen name so others are aware of the troll when we come across them

Sumo813

OMG. I'm so sorry you had to deal with that. This is about supporting people. Screw her.

Agreed.

I just dont see why people can't be an adult. They're likely doing the things they do because they have no life, or the one they have is quite screwed up (most likely due to their own doing). I'm sure they will read these comments and may even be someone I know.

But if that's the case, I have to ask "why?". People are different. You're not going to be able to please everyone or be friends with everyone, and if you have to hide behind anonymity and bash someone else, how does that actually make you feel better about yourself? I dont get it. Nor will I ever. Luckily for me, I'm a guy and have always invited those who've had problems with me to meet me in order to settle our differences. I can take an *kitten*-whoopin like a man (as long as it's a fair fight), just as well as I can give one like a man. I suppose for women it's a little different, but for lack of better terms... "MAN UP" and quite hiding.

If you dont like reading the things a person has to say... guess what... you have the ability NOT TO READ THE THINGS A PERSON SAYS. Simple as that. The fact that they take it so far as to even make comments about children in which they have no knowledge of, or dealings with shows the type of character the person has. Just remember... everyone has a friend they sometimes love, and sometimes really hate... that friends name is KARMA.

BrianJLamb

I am going to troll this post for a minute...just to lighten it....and say that I generally enjoy reading your board posts and what blog entries I've read, BUT....trolls don't live under rocks. They are generally under bridges or in caves. Just thought that I would point that out...other than that, if you would like to PM me the trolls name, I will gladly troll her back.

Tralee1111

I saw a study about this ~ bullies and trolls try to make others feel insignificant because they (the trolls and bullies) feel that way about themselves. In order for them to not feel insignificant, they take others down. Good for you for kicking this person to the curb!

Hopefully, he/she won't set her sights on someone else.

BrianJLamb

I saw a study about this ~ bullies and trolls try to make others feel insignificant because they (the trolls and bullies) feel that way about themselves. In order for them to not feel insignificant, they take others down. Good for you for kicking this person to the curb!

Hopefully, he/she won't set her sights on someone else.

That is NOT my motivation.

crystal_sapphire

that's horrifying. What is wrong with people?

Wendi_S

If you dont like reading the things a person has to say... guess what... you have the ability NOT TO READ THE THINGS A PERSON SAYS. Simple as that. The fact that they take it so far as to even make comments about children in which they have no knowledge of, or dealings with shows the type of character the person has. Just remember... everyone has a friend they sometimes love, and sometimes really hate... that friends name is KARMA.

EXACTLY.... :happy: