omg he did it again!!!!!!!!!!

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  • PrincessLaundry
    PrincessLaundry Posts: 2,758 Member
    OMG!!!!

    You need to tell him something...You can tell him I said so...

    Tell him that's sexual harassment and you don't have to take it! Seriously, it is...so say it once, and you'll more than likely never hear from that idiot again.

    You don't have to take it...
  • tashjs21
    tashjs21 Posts: 4,584 Member
    So many people here have said the things that are going through my head. So, I will keep it short and sweet...you are absoultey beautiful inside and out.
  • mrsyac2
    mrsyac2 Posts: 2,784 Member
    I hate to say it, Ali.. but I think he was trying to pay you a compliment! Men are just clueless! They don't take the time to see how it was sounding before or after he said it! Keep up the great work! We're all here for you!

    That is true instead of men talking with their mouths they talk out of their A**es- LOL.. no offense to the men on MFP unless you fall under this category
  • mechanicmom
    mechanicmom Posts: 5,700 Member
    Hey girl! Sorry about what that guy said to you. Some people can be so inconsiderate. I look at the pictures you have posted here and you are so beautiful! You look so young and energetic! I think you are gorgeous and apparently so do many many other people on here. Who cares what one person thinks? Okay, I know it would bother me just as bad (I'd probably be crying), but really, look at all these people who love you and think you are beautiful, inside and out! Love ya girl!
    Mel
  • GTOgirl1969
    GTOgirl1969 Posts: 2,527 Member
    Your foot and his *kitten* should meet sometime!

    Uggggh...what an insensitive jerk!!

    Stuff like that makes me want tofighting0085.gif
  • mrsyac2
    mrsyac2 Posts: 2,784 Member
    As far as the sexual harrassment I wouldn't go that far- If people call sexual harrassment on every little thing nobody would say anything to anyone because of fear of sexual harrassment-- Telling someone they are pretty or commenting on how pretty they were prior to children isn't sexual harrassment- Why risk someones job over that- sexual harrassment is a very serious accusation not to just be thrown around- Im sorry if I offended anyone it just bothers me when people want to jump the gun on sexual harrassment--
  • SoupNazi
    SoupNazi Posts: 4,229 Member
    Ok, Ali. My voodoo doll is almost comlete. MUHAHAHA.
    I made him anatomically correct..no kahonies or anything....:bigsmile:
  • GTOgirl1969
    GTOgirl1969 Posts: 2,527 Member
    As far as the sexual harrassment I wouldn't go that far- If people call sexual harrassment on every little thing nobody would say anything to anyone because of fear of sexual harrassment-- Telling someone they are pretty or commenting on how pretty they were prior to children isn't sexual harrassment- Why risk someones job over that- sexual harrassment is a very serious accusation not to just be thrown around- Im sorry if I offended anyone it just bothers me when people want to jump the gun on sexual harrassment--



    Tell him to stop, and make sure you tell him in front of other people so there are witnesses. Tell him that what he is saying is bothering you a lot. If he continues to make snide little remarks, THEN get him for harassment.
  • AlbertSchwartz
    AlbertSchwartz Posts: 810

    sgtinvincible Says:
    I recommend something like this for the next time....

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    ali106 Says:
    aw thanks you guys LOL....even though I have no idea what that is Jeremy I know you bro and I bet its kick *kitten* LMBO

    I bet it some guys hugging.... lmao
  • ali106
    ali106 Posts: 3,754 Member
    Ok, Ali. My voodoo doll is almost comlete. MUHAHAHA.
    I made him anatomically correct..no kahonies or anything....:bigsmile:

    aaaaahahahahahahaha!!!

    omg you guys are the bomb!!!

    thank you all sooo much!!!

    and ya, the harassment thing wouldn't work....he's hr and all...he sort of just saves those comments for me....like before that he'd comment on my hair...or cloths...and tries to be funny....I don't think he's crushin on me...but omg...I hope not....but he's very nice complementary to other women we work with...like I don't know...maybe he doesn't like me LOL....I don't know...or care really....we have a voo doo doll, a baby chicken w/ a machine gun...and a big o' posse of my bestest buddies here....I feel empowered!!!

    hugs and :heart: and THANKS AGAIN!
    Ali
  • AlbertSchwartz
    AlbertSchwartz Posts: 810
    ok, I check out Jeremy's picture as i'm a computer genius... lol

    and for everyones enjoyment here it is...

    Jeremy Says:

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  • mrsyac2
    mrsyac2 Posts: 2,784 Member
    I would just bust his ego in front of another co-worker- Say a snide comment to him in front of the presence of another co-worker- Make him feel small- I am great for that- does he have all his hair? cause if not you could make a comment about how handsome he probably was when he had a full head of hair- something like that or on that line--
  • AlbertSchwartz
    AlbertSchwartz Posts: 810
    Don't worry Ali, Bond will come to your rescue :wink:
  • jbuehrer
    jbuehrer Posts: 285
    You are so so so pretty!
  • runawaybride
    runawaybride Posts: 400 Member
    I swear some men either have no clue when they talk or are just plain jerks.

    Reminds me of the other day when I have my post pregnancy pic hanging with my before pregnancy pic and my husband says "WOW that doesn't even look like the same person" WTF?????????:explode:

    Too bad we don't have a dog cause he would have been alot warmer sleeping outside with it then just in the box alone!!!
  • insearchofskinny
    insearchofskinny Posts: 80
    You're not sallow... that man in your office is shallow! :mad:

    thin - fat, tall - short, rich - poor, it's all relative, my friend.. I'm 60.... where did those years go? and I had my day... now I'm content to be the best 60 I can be.

    His turn will come! :tongue:

    ... I'm still waitin on rich :ohwell:
  • samaniegord
    samaniegord Posts: 35
    Ali I dont know you but I have seen your profile and think you are absolutely gorgeous. I hope to look as good as you soon. Keep up the great work and as for the *kitten***** at work...he sure does notice you and pay alot of attention to what you look like....I wonder why?
  • peej76
    peej76 Posts: 1,250 Member
    Ali, do not let him bring you down, he's obviously one of these, don't have switch from brain to mouth guys!! You are beautiful, your spirit is beautiful and the jerk sounds like he's happy trying to make people miserable. In the words of my 6 yr old "What a pooface".:flowerforyou:
  • natalie424
    natalie424 Posts: 320
    Ali... the guy is a massive jerk!

    He is probably incredibly insecure and is intimidated by you in some way, therefore, he feels he needs to make rude, inappropriate comments to prop himself up.

    He's a loser, and he knows he's a loser, so he's trying to make himself feel better by making snide remarks toward you.

    Don't let him get you down... you ROCK!
  • mommared53
    mommared53 Posts: 9,543 Member
    Ali, do not let him bring you down, he's obviously one of these, don't have switch from brain to mouth guys!! You are beautiful, your spirit is beautiful and the jerk sounds like he's happy trying to make people miserable. In the words of my 6 yr old "What a pooface".:flowerforyou:

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: That should be your new nickname for him Ali. Pooface. :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • jojo52610
    jojo52610 Posts: 692 Member
    wow what an Asshat!


    Next time he asks you do you remember back in the day say yes I remember - and I have changed since I got married and had kids, but you really haven't your still asshat :happy: .
  • sunlvr
    sunlvr Posts: 5 Member
    i have been struggling with weight all my life,and i know its hard not to let insensitive peoples comments get you down.you just have to beleive in yourself and know you are beautiful no matter what you weigh.you need to love yourself .
  • ali106
    ali106 Posts: 3,754 Member
    :heart: wow!!! every time I come here to check I get overwhelmed!!! in a wonderful way!:heart:

    thank you guys and I can't say it enough....now when I see him tomorrow at work...I'll be snickering to myself....thinking of you all having my back and what not LMBO....love it....love you guys!!!

    thanks for bringing me out of "that place" (insecurity/self consciousness/bad body image)....sigh...I hate that place!!!:grumble:
    hugs and :heart:
    Ali
  • sydenham24
    sydenham24 Posts: 33
    he is a loser.

    I agree with comment above - just ask well, what's your excuse? (work-friendly version)

    I also like the Kathy Griffin inspired "suck it" for what one would really like to say.


    I can give ya the spelling on Verklempt as a former NY stater. That is the best word!
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