Oh no he didn't just say that!

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  • thecanface
    thecanface Posts: 1,180 Member
    i would disown him as a "husband" you should take all of his favorite clothes to the cleaners and have them taken in so they are all suuuuper tight... then you can be like... uh dude.. whatever the hell YOU'RE doing... AIN'T workin...
  • loriefolk
    loriefolk Posts: 352
    Fail.
  • 17 pounds in 6 weeks.....DAMN im jealous.
  • RoadDog
    RoadDog Posts: 2,946 Member
    You should talk to him about it. Let him know how that made you feel. I have offended many people in my life without knowing it.
  • emrogers
    emrogers Posts: 328 Member
    that's whey you have that out of body experience and you see yourself going for his neck like a lion in the wild!!
  • shannieboo
    shannieboo Posts: 144 Member
    OH! he needs to me smacked up side the head! KARMA!!!!!

    You are on the right track! you are doing this for yourself! I would NOT let him know I was still working out or even trying to lose weight. I would not even speak of it. And girlie when you go on vacation this summer you get the most revieling suit you can get, something even too hot for beyonce' and when he notices heads are turning just wait for him to say, WOW all these men are looking at you, that when you speak up and say "OH i thought you could not notice? well, I guess they do!"
  • nikkinikki113
    nikkinikki113 Posts: 279 Member
    Bad bad hubby!!!

    Mine said to me last night when he grazed my bum as I was making dinner - "Damn, you're getting a little jiggly". I turned around, spatula in hand, ready to strike and said "WHAT did you just say??!?" He said (fear in his eyes) "That's a good thing!" I proceeded to ask him, still armed with my spatula, "In what world is "jiggly" a good word used to describe your wife's *kitten* when she's been busting it to lose weight!?" He explained to me that what he meant was, I had lost some weight in that area and it seemed to move differently when being touched.

    Although his words were incredibly mean, you also have to remember that husbands, well, men of any sort, are completely dumb when it comes to expressing themselves. I hope for his sake that what yours meant at that time was "You look great, keep up the good work".
  • Yeah he definately did not think before he spoke about it. Oooppppsss u are doing amazing and sometimes we say the wrong things, we are men after all. No but in all seriousness, I think you are doing amazing and ur hard work you are seeing it who cares what he thinks, you are indeed doing it for you congrats so far and keep up the great work mmkay.
  • 123456654321
    123456654321 Posts: 1,311 Member
    That's just rude.
  • upnorthtim
    upnorthtim Posts: 376 Member
    OMG....I can be pretty cluless at times but that? Never!
  • abyt42
    abyt42 Posts: 1,358 Member
    Wow.
    And I thought, "It looks like you're losing some of that gut," was overly harsh..... Also, in reply to the dangerous 'do I look fat in x' question: "not any fatter than you look in the rest of your clothes."

    Tact of a thrown brick.
  • AHA! I don't mean to laugh, but my boyfriend did something stupid like that as well. He is THIN as a stick and can eat practically anything. I was complaining about being on this diet and how it's so hard to eat a certain amount of calories. I was done my calories for the day, but I was still SOOOOO hungry. And then he went and ate chocolate and ice cream proceeding to say "Haha, you're not me, YOU can't have any." I get that he was teasing but really? Men, correction, BOYS are idiots. -.-
  • murf19
    murf19 Posts: 453 Member
    Introduce him to the couch.
  • rileamoyer
    rileamoyer Posts: 2,412 Member
    bump
  • manymuses
    manymuses Posts: 162 Member
    Long distance slap upside the head.

    Don't let him discourage you. Keep up your awesome work!
  • Mrs_McFadden
    Mrs_McFadden Posts: 1,139
    OMFG...I would slap my husbands face if he said that.
  • LOVEthighSELF
    LOVEthighSELF Posts: 104 Member
    I am sorry but your husband sounds like an *kitten*!!!!!!!! How's his body BTW!?!?! jerk. My hubby would NEVER say that to me~ rude and inconsiderate. Comments like that are what cause married woman to look for positive attention from men other than their husbands!!! Someone said no sex for a wekk pshhh-- more like a friggin month!!! That would make me feel SO insecure. You look great congrats on the loss and keep up the good work.
  • Prove him wrong. I would shove it in his face once you succeed. But don't let it get to ya. Men will be men. Sometimes they speak before they think. In all honesty, he probably didn't mean to say it like it came out.

    Isn't that more of a reward???
  • UGH, my boyfriend says the same kind of things. Usually I'll be real excited about dropping a few pounds and he'll say he can't see a change at all >_<

    Just go blow off some steam at the gym and ignore it. :P He probably doesn't mean it the way it sounded.
  • Vicky14174
    Vicky14174 Posts: 715 Member
    CAN'T LIVE WITH THEM, CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT THEM (OR SO THEY THINK) AND YOU CAN'T JUST SHOOT THEM. DAMN THE LUCK!!!!!
  • darkrider42
    darkrider42 Posts: 5,422 Member
    MEN!!!! Typical.....foot in mouth disease. :wink:


    Common, maybe...but NOT all guys are like that. It broke my heart to hear someone say that to another human they claim to love.

    **HUGS TO SHAN**


    .
  • bzmom
    bzmom Posts: 1,332 Member
    Know you know I carry a bat in my trunk do I need to pull it out???? ** YOU IS HOT** (SLAPS SOS IN THE BUTT)
  • bbygrl5
    bbygrl5 Posts: 964 Member
    You could always just say... oh really? that's not what the mailman thinks, lmao :devil:

    yeah, don't say that :laugh:
  • bzmom
    bzmom Posts: 1,332 Member
    Funny how the milkman has been replaced by the mailman.... :noway: :laugh:
    You could always just say... oh really? that's not what the mailman thinks, lmao :devil:

    yeah, don't say that :laugh:
  • bouldert
    bouldert Posts: 225 Member
    piss in his dinner
  • I don't want to be a man anymore..... WTH?:mad:
  • catcrazy
    catcrazy Posts: 1,740 Member

    next time you guys are having couples time just tell him "is it in yet,I really cant tell mabey you need to do something else"


    I would SOOOOOOOO do this...lol, maybe thats why i'm single!
  • kimber607
    kimber607 Posts: 7,128 Member
    dumb-*kitten*
    cut him off for a few days and see how he likes that...
    LOL...what?
    better yet, wear some sexy lingerie and shut him down
    *rubs hands together*


    For you hottie
    :flowerforyou:
  • anubis609
    anubis609 Posts: 3,966 Member
    That's a definite :angry: :explode: :grumble: :mad: moment.
  • ginnyroxx
    ginnyroxx Posts: 763
    men are dumb - he was trying to be constructive & helpful and .... FAIL!!!

    just chalk it up to a Y chromosome issue and move on.

    i will ditto this.
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