Oh no he didn't just say that!
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better yet, wear some sexy lingerie and shut him down
*rubs hands together*
^this^, too.0 -
I just went and bought 2 bikinis's from Venus Swimwear online. He paid for them. He does not know it yet, but he paid for them. :devil:0
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Wow Really? He must've missed that class in intergender diplomacy 101. Chill him for a while.0
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:laugh:I just went and bought 2 bikinis's from Venus Swimwear online. He paid for them. He does not know it yet, but he paid for them. :devil:
he'll learn0 -
Before this turns into one big MAN-BASHING FEST...OH WAIT, TOO LATE...this isn't just a man thing!! Men don't own the entire market on saying stupid ****. I wish I had a dollar for every time my wife said something like that to me....in just the last year! And I've lost 67lbs during that time!
It says so much less about the gender than it does about the individual person!
Last I checked, I'm still a man and I would *NEVER* say that. *EVER* :grumble:
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Before this turns into one big MAN-BASHING FEST...OH WAIT, TOO LATE...this isn't just a man thing!! Men don't own the entire market on saying stupid ****. I wish I had a dollar for every time my wife said something like that to me....in just the last year! And I've lost 67lbs during that time!
It says so much less about the gender than it does about the individual person!
Last I checked, I'm still a man and I would *NEVER* say that. *EVER* :grumble:
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Ok ok - we should be fair to the guys - not ALL of them are like this. And - I'm sorry your wife has said hurtful things as well.
It all hurts!! No matter who says it!0 -
Ok ok - we should be fair to the guys - not ALL of them are like this. And - I'm sorry your wife has said hurtful things as well.
It all hurts!! No matter who says it!
Thank you!
:flowerforyou: 0 -
Ouch, Sos! I'm so sorry that happened ... I know you are doing this for YOU and maybe that's the issue. I hope that he realizes how hurtful that was to you (and all of us vicariously) and does some maaaaaaaajor crow eating to make up for it. You are beautiful. You know that. You require no other work to be beautiful. Any extra work you put in is gravy and for YOU to feel healthy & fit - you've already got gorgeous in the bag.0
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Ouch, Sos! I'm so sorry that happened ... I know you are doing this for YOU and maybe that's the issue. I hope that he realizes how hurtful that was to you (and all of us vicariously) and does some maaaaaaaajor crow eating to make up for it. You are beautiful. You know that. You require no other work to be beautiful. Any extra work you put in is gravy and for YOU to feel healthy & fit - you've already got gorgeous in the bag.
Awww, thanks! That was really nice! :flowerforyou:0 -
***goes and sits on the "bad step" for all man kind***0
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***goes and sits on the "bad step" for all man kind***
lol adorable0 -
better yet, wear some sexy lingerie and shut him down
*rubs hands together*
GOOD ONE!0 -
***goes and sits on the "bad step" for all man kind***
lol adorable
***will someone come and get me when I can come back.................please0 -
"ONLY been working out for about 6 weeks. I have lost 16.5 pounds"
honey that is freaking GREAT progress! screw him!!! my bf was always in better shape than me, and he NEVER EVER let me feel anything less than perfect.0 -
***goes and sits on the "bad step" for all man kind***
lol adorable
***will someone come and get me when I can come back.................please
LMAO!!!0 -
:laugh:I just went and bought 2 bikinis's from Venus Swimwear online. He paid for them. He does not know it yet, but he paid for them. :devil:
he'll learn
LOVE IT!0 -
Men say stuff without thinking through the end result! So you have to figure he probably didn't mean to hurt you, but at the same time, he might have been trying to be supportive. When he does finally notice your progress, it will be a "Duh" moment for him and you can feel good about that!0
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***goes and sits on the "bad step" for all man kind***
lol adorable
***will someone come and get me when I can come back.................please
You are not a bad boy Lee, you can come off that step. :laugh:0 -
***goes and sits on the "bad step" for all man kind***
lol adorable
***will someone come and get me when I can come back.................please
its not your fault, u can come back 0 -
***goes and sits on the "bad step" for all man kind***
lol adorable
***will someone come and get me when I can come back.................please
its not your fault, u can come back
phew..............my bum was getting cold0 -
FIRED! He is fired! Or at the very least on probation.
Ugh. Listen to me when I say this:
YOU ARE FABULOUS. YOU BUY 20 DAMN BIKINI'S and ROCK THE HELL OUT OF THEM. Grrrrr!!!0 -
men are dumb - he was trying to be constructive & helpful and .... FAIL!!!
just chalk it up to a Y chromosome issue and move on.
Not fair and untrue!
You mean he was trying to hurt her? I am thinking he needs to think before he speaks or shut the heck up!!! My husband would never say anything like that --- but my ex would have --- which is why he is my ex! Ignorance is no excuse for saying hurtful things ---0 -
Before this turns into one big MAN-BASHING FEST...OH WAIT, TOO LATE...this isn't just a man thing!! Men don't own the entire market on saying stupid ****. I wish I had a dollar for every time my wife said something like that to me....in just the last year! And I've lost 67lbs during that time!
It says so much less about the gender than it does about the individual person!
Last I checked, I'm still a man and I would *NEVER* say that. *EVER* :grumble:
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Applauding you **********:flowerforyou: *********true that it isn't gender specific0 -
Its not you, its him. People don't know they are negative. And they excuse it by saying its constructive criticism. Dont listen to it and dont think about it. It will only bring you down. Keep up the awesome work.
BTW... years ago when i lost weight and i was looking really hot, my husband told me he was really jealous because I was doing something for myself and he wasn't. It was nice he told me, because I couldn't understand why he would have comments that I felt were unkind.0 -
I just went and bought 2 bikinis's from Venus Swimwear online. He paid for them. He does not know it yet, but he paid for them. :devil:
purrr ....ect0 -
I just went and bought 2 bikinis's from Venus Swimwear online. He paid for them. He does not know it yet, but he paid for them. :devil:
purrr ....ect
correct my own spelling purrr...fect. Best soution yet.0 -
Before this turns into one big MAN-BASHING FEST...OH WAIT, TOO LATE...this isn't just a man thing!! Men don't own the entire market on saying stupid ****. I wish I had a dollar for every time my wife said something like that to me....in just the last year! And I've lost 67lbs during that time!
It says so much less about the gender than it does about the individual person!
Last I checked, I'm still a man and I would *NEVER* say that. *EVER* :grumble:
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Applauding you **********:flowerforyou: *********true that it isn't gender specific
U R a Good Man!0 -
***goes and sits on the "bad step" for all man kind***
lol adorable
***will someone come and get me when I can come back.................please
its not your fault, u can come back
phew..............my bum was getting cold
sorry to hear that. sounds like u may need someone to keep u warm 0 -
The bikinis were a good start. Now go buy some shoes as well.0
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Maybe he was trying to say the right thing and it came out the wrong way........NUH UH!!! I know hubbies/wives can try to be supportive in their own little sick @ssed way, but people STILL know when they are saying something hurtful....the fact is, you are ALREADY HOT and he feels SOOOOO SCARED that maybe he is trying to sabotage you into quitting and regressing.....don't do it! 16 lbs in that amount of time is WAY COOL and hubby is just a TAD jealous?????.....hmmmmmmm..........:smokin:0
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