Singles thread top 10

SoldierDad
SoldierDad Posts: 1,602
edited September 24 in Chit-Chat
Ok, the kids are asleep, the house is clean and I am bored. So I thought I would make a thread for us singles (especialy us single parents). Lol is my list crazy? This is what i am looking for in a woman. What does everyone elses list look like?



1. Must love God.

2. Must love kids.

3. Must be kind, funny and faithful.

4. Must like country music or at least tolerate it.

5. Your perfect evening should be spending time playing with the kids (I have 2) and then cuddle time when they go to bed.

6. You shouldn't cheat at candyland.

7. You should not hate the Yankees. Loving the Yankees is preferable.

8. If you should choose to cheat at candyland be willing to accept that you will be tackled and tickled by the kids.

9. Must be willing to catch a waffle if i through it at you. Or in other words you must be ready for anything.

10. Must absolutely adore and love kids.

There is my silly little list. :flowerforyou: :heart:

Love,
Ed
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  • JoyousRen
    JoyousRen Posts: 3,823 Member
    You are a cutie, Ed, and I am a complete fail at your list. :smooched:
  • hahaha yup...i ABHOR the yankees hahaha...(so much worse than hate!)
  • SoldierDad
    SoldierDad Posts: 1,602
    You are a cutie, Ed, and I am a complete fail at your list. :smooched:

    Lol thanks for the cutie comment. Lol I doubt you failed my whole list. Though i do think you cheat at candyland!
  • SoldierDad
    SoldierDad Posts: 1,602
    hahaha yup...i ABHOR the yankees hahaha...(so much worse than hate!)

    GOOOOOOOOOOOO YANKEEEEEEEES!
  • JoyousRen
    JoyousRen Posts: 3,823 Member
    You are a cutie, Ed, and I am a complete fail at your list. :smooched:

    Lol thanks for the cutie comment. Lol I doubt you failed my whole list. Though i do think you cheat at candyland!
    I totally would but it's the "Love God" thing. plus, I need a bit more than cuddling at night. :tongue:
  • ChristieDF
    ChristieDF Posts: 178 Member
    Great list and number one is just AWESOME!!
  • SoldierDad
    SoldierDad Posts: 1,602
    You are a cutie, Ed, and I am a complete fail at your list. :smooched:

    Lol thanks for the cutie comment. Lol I doubt you failed my whole list. Though i do think you cheat at candyland!
    I totally would but it's the "Love God" thing. plus, I need a bit more than cuddling at night. :tongue:

    Lol, well it all starts with cuddling crazy girl. :wink:
  • hahaha yup...i ABHOR the yankees hahaha...(so much worse than hate!)

    GOOOOOOOOOOOO YANKEEEEEEEES!

    yup...i can feel the hate growing stronger every minute haha lol
  • FitJoani
    FitJoani Posts: 2,173 Member
    10. Must not cheat
    9. Must maintain a healthy lifestyle
    8. Must not cheat
    7. Must have a driver's license(pittsburgh is not metropolitan enough to get away with this)
    6. Must not have any addictions to drugs, alcohol, or tobacco
    5. Must have a job
    4. Must be intelligent
    3. Must not lie
    2. Must be willing to truly commit to ONE person
    1. MUST NOT CHEAT!!!!!!
    I repeated the cheating thing a few times but for once I wanna meet a man who doesnt feel the need to have some other girl(s) on the side...I have never NOT been cheated on and it makes me lose hope
  • JoyousRen
    JoyousRen Posts: 3,823 Member
    Lol, well it all starts with cuddling crazy girl. :wink:
    As long as it doesn't end there. :bigsmile:
  • JoyousRen
    JoyousRen Posts: 3,823 Member
    10. Must not cheat
    9. Must maintain a healthy lifestyle
    8. Must not cheat
    7. Must have a driver's license(pittsburgh is not metropolitan enough to get away with this)
    6. Must not have any addictions to drugs, alcohol, or tobacco
    5. Must have a job
    4. Must be intelligent
    3. Must not lie
    2. Must be willing to truly commit to ONE person
    1. MUST NOT CHEAT!!!!!!
    I repeated the cheating thing a few times but for once I wanna meet a man who doesnt feel the need to have some other girl(s) on the side...I have never NOT been cheated on and it makes me lose hope

    :flowerforyou: I promise they exist.
  • kmeekhof
    kmeekhof Posts: 456 Member
    Good list.
    Here is my list...

    1. Must love God
    2. Must love me for me... no matter what
    3. Want to have kids
    4. Support my love of football
    5. Not bother me during a March Madness game... unless you are watching as well
    6. Enjoy just staying home every now and then, but also go out and have a good time.
    ..................... there are more, but that should do for this thread haha :smile:


    HAHA just realized it said top 10
    7. Be honest and trustworthy
    8. Maintain an active lifestyle
    9. Love the outdoors!
    10. Allow me to have a weekend away every now and then with my best friend.
  • TheMaidOfAstolat
    TheMaidOfAstolat Posts: 3,222 Member
    10. Must not cheat
    9. Must maintain a healthy lifestyle
    8. Must not cheat
    7. Must have a driver's license(pittsburgh is not metropolitan enough to get away with this)
    6. Must not have any addictions to drugs, alcohol, or tobacco
    5. Must have a job
    4. Must be intelligent
    3. Must not lie
    2. Must be willing to truly commit to ONE person
    1. MUST NOT CHEAT!!!!!!
    I repeated the cheating thing a few times but for once I wanna meet a man who doesnt feel the need to have some other girl(s) on the side...I have never NOT been cheated on and it makes me lose hope

    Ditto!!! My ex husband cheated! I refuse to have that situation happen again.
  • Karleyyy
    Karleyyy Posts: 857
    You are a cutie, Ed, and I am a complete fail at your list. :smooched:

    Lol thanks for the cutie comment. Lol I doubt you failed my whole list. Though i do think you cheat at candyland!
    I totally would but it's the "Love God" thing. plus, I need a bit more than cuddling at night. :tongue:

    Same with the god thing!
  • SoldierDad
    SoldierDad Posts: 1,602
    10. Must not cheat
    9. Must maintain a healthy lifestyle
    8. Must not cheat
    7. Must have a driver's license(pittsburgh is not metropolitan enough to get away with this)
    6. Must not have any addictions to drugs, alcohol, or tobacco
    5. Must have a job
    4. Must be intelligent
    3. Must not lie
    2. Must be willing to truly commit to ONE person
    1. MUST NOT CHEAT!!!!!!
    I repeated the cheating thing a few times but for once I wanna meet a man who doesnt feel the need to have some other girl(s) on the side...I have never NOT been cheated on and it makes me lose hope

    Ditto!!! My ex husband cheated! I refuse to have that situation happen again.

    He deserves whatever crap happens to him. Love you Sarah.
  • nurseaim
    nurseaim Posts: 146
    You are a cutie, Ed, and I am a complete fail at your list. :smooched:

    Lol thanks for the cutie comment. Lol I doubt you failed my whole list. Though i do think you cheat at candyland!
    I totally would but it's the "Love God" thing. plus, I need a bit more than cuddling at night. :tongue:

    LOL...I was thinking the same thing about "cuddling at night".
  • FitJoani
    FitJoani Posts: 2,173 Member
    10. Must not cheat
    9. Must maintain a healthy lifestyle
    8. Must not cheat
    7. Must have a driver's license(pittsburgh is not metropolitan enough to get away with this)
    6. Must not have any addictions to drugs, alcohol, or tobacco
    5. Must have a job
    4. Must be intelligent
    3. Must not lie
    2. Must be willing to truly commit to ONE person
    1. MUST NOT CHEAT!!!!!!
    I repeated the cheating thing a few times but for once I wanna meet a man who doesnt feel the need to have some other girl(s) on the side...I have never NOT been cheated on and it makes me lose hope

    Ditto!!! My ex husband cheated! I refuse to have that situation happen again.

    He deserves whatever crap happens to him. Love you Sarah.

    I hope one exists..i know nothing BUT cheating
  • pandafoo
    pandafoo Posts: 367 Member
    my list is:
    1. must be a sincere christian
    2. integrity / steadfastness
    3. from his actions/words, have me feel beautiful/cherished inside and out
    4. honesty
    5. must love pandas! :)
    6. preferably chinese
    7. curious learner
    8. patience
    9. sense of humor
    10. understanding of what grace and sacrificial commitment look like

    most of these are lessons learned after i broke up with my fiance :P

    here's to true love! :)
  • SoldierDad
    SoldierDad Posts: 1,602
    Good list.
    Here is my list...

    1. Must love God
    2. Must love me for me... no matter what
    3. Want to have kids
    4. Support my love of football
    5. Not bother me during a March Madness game... unless you are watching as well
    6. Enjoy just staying home every now and then, but also go out and have a good time.
    ..................... there are more, but that should do for this thread haha :smile:

    Thats one of the things that split me and my ex up. She wanted to focus on a career. I actually wanted more babies (we have 2). So now I have custody of both and she is out living her dream (working 80-90 hours a week and rising the corp ladder). I am blessed to be their daddy. It's hard (she hasnt even seen the kids since a little after Christmas) but they are my life.
  • Lauriek70
    Lauriek70 Posts: 2,087 Member
    Great topic and I liked your list. I meet everything but the Yankees- don't dislike them just not my favorite. What about football teams? They may not be the best but I like the Redskins.
  • SoldierDad
    SoldierDad Posts: 1,602
    Lol, you are all such pervs! Of course i meant more than cuddling but I can't put that in a thread. lmao!
  • JStarnes
    JStarnes Posts: 5,576 Member
    #6 - Is it okay to cheat if she was taught how to cheat BY the kids??
    #7 - I think loving NYY should be required, not just preferred. :wink:

    Your list is as adorable as you, Ed. :flowerforyou:
  • kmeekhof
    kmeekhof Posts: 456 Member

    Thats one of the things that split me and my ex up. She wanted to focus on a career. I actually wanted more babies (we have 2). So now I have custody of both and she is out living her dream (working 80-90 hours a week and rising the corp ladder). I am blessed to be their daddy. It's hard (she hasnt even seen the kids since a little after Christmas) but they are my life.

    I cannot imagine!!! I have a 3 1/2 year old nephew and I love him to death. I cant wait til I have my own children.
  • SoldierDad
    SoldierDad Posts: 1,602
    #6 - Is it okay to cheat if she was taught how to cheat BY the kids??
    #7 - I think loving NYY should be required, not just preferred. :wink:

    Your list is as adorable as you, Ed. :flowerforyou:

    Lol you always know how to make me smile! And I guess #6 could work. I would end up doing the tackling then. I would act as #7 was just prefered but as soon as I got the woman to fall for me I would make her wear Yankee gear. BWHAHAHAHHA!
  • TheMaidOfAstolat
    TheMaidOfAstolat Posts: 3,222 Member
    My personal top 10:

    1- Must be Christian (and attend reguarly)
    2- Must love kids (I have a 7 year old)
    3- Must love animals (3 dogs and I work in rescue)
    4- Good job or at least have a plan or be in school.
    5- Knows how to treat a lady right
    6- Must be okay with me being a vegetarian.
    7- Needs to do some type of charity work.
    8- Preferably have tats and piercings....it's my weakness.
    9- Be understanding of my past.
    10- Must NOT cheat!!!!
  • SoldierDad
    SoldierDad Posts: 1,602

    Thats one of the things that split me and my ex up. She wanted to focus on a career. I actually wanted more babies (we have 2). So now I have custody of both and she is out living her dream (working 80-90 hours a week and rising the corp ladder). I am blessed to be their daddy. It's hard (she hasnt even seen the kids since a little after Christmas) but they are my life.

    I cannot imagine!!! I have a 3 1/2 year old nephew and I love him to death. I cant wait til I have my own children.

    Broke her moms heart but everyone has to follow their own path.
  • SoldierDad
    SoldierDad Posts: 1,602
    My personal top 10:

    1- Must be Christian (and attend reguarly)
    2- Must love kids (I have a 7 year old)
    3- Must love animals (3 dogs and I work in rescue)
    4- Good job or at least have a plan or be in school.
    5- Knows how to treat a lady right
    6- Must be okay with me being a vegetarian.
    7- Needs to do some type of charity work.
    8- Preferably have tats and piercings....it's my weakness.
    9- Be understanding of my past.
    10- Must NOT cheat!!!!

    I only have 1 tat Sarah.
  • SoldierDad
    SoldierDad Posts: 1,602
    My personal top 10:

    1- Must be Christian (and attend reguarly)
    2- Must love kids (I have a 7 year old)
    3- Must love animals (3 dogs and I work in rescue)
    4- Good job or at least have a plan or be in school.
    5- Knows how to treat a lady right
    6- Must be okay with me being a vegetarian.
    7- Needs to do some type of charity work.
    8- Preferably have tats and piercings....it's my weakness.
    9- Be understanding of my past.
    10- Must NOT cheat!!!!

    Wait.. I eat like 20 ounces of chicken a day... Would that bug you? Don't take away me chicken!!!!!!!!
  • TheMaidOfAstolat
    TheMaidOfAstolat Posts: 3,222 Member
    My personal top 10:

    1- Must be Christian (and attend reguarly)
    2- Must love kids (I have a 7 year old)
    3- Must love animals (3 dogs and I work in rescue)
    4- Good job or at least have a plan or be in school.
    5- Knows how to treat a lady right
    6- Must be okay with me being a vegetarian.
    7- Needs to do some type of charity work.
    8- Preferably have tats and piercings....it's my weakness.
    9- Be understanding of my past.
    10- Must NOT cheat!!!!

    Wait.. I eat like 20 ounces of chicken a day... Would that bug you? Don't take away me chicken!!!!!!!!

    No problem Ed. I wouldn't take it away from you. It's a personal decision. And only one tat....you need another, lol.
  • SoldierDad
    SoldierDad Posts: 1,602
    My personal top 10:

    1- Must be Christian (and attend reguarly)
    2- Must love kids (I have a 7 year old)
    3- Must love animals (3 dogs and I work in rescue)
    4- Good job or at least have a plan or be in school.
    5- Knows how to treat a lady right
    6- Must be okay with me being a vegetarian.
    7- Needs to do some type of charity work.
    8- Preferably have tats and piercings....it's my weakness.
    9- Be understanding of my past.
    10- Must NOT cheat!!!!

    Wait.. I eat like 20 ounces of chicken a day... Would that bug you? Don't take away me chicken!!!!!!!!

    No problem Ed. I wouldn't take it away from you. It's a personal decision. And only one tat....you need another, lol.

    I was worried about the chicken thing. I think If I cut myself, chicken breast would come out. And I actually do want more tats. I want to at least get my kids names and Jesus on my upper arm. I have a huge cross there now.
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