Singles thread top 10

mommared53

Ok let's see:

1. Must be a Christian.

2. Must not drink or do drugs.

3. Must be a conservative.

4. Must accept me just as I am,

5. Must have a good sense of humor.

6. Must not be a cheater or be disrespectful.

7. Must be willing to stay in the relationship during the bad times as well as the good times.

8. Must have a car and a driver's license because I don't.

9. Must like cats because I have two.

10. Must be able to make decisions.

I can think of more but I stopped at 10. :bigsmile:

locomotion

1. Must be agnostic or an atheist (but not the obnoxious sort of atheist who's just the opposite side of the coin from being obnoxiously religious).

2. Politically, must be leftist/progressive, particularly concerning social issues such as equal marriage rights (though that's pretty much a given in a same sex relationship ), reproductive rights, feminisim, anti-racism/classism, social justice, etc.

3. Has to love animals, particularly cats, given my hoard of them. :laugh:

4. This is shallow, but has to be femme - nothing against women who aren't, I'm just not attracted to women who aren't feminine.

5. Needs to love city life and plan to stay in Toronto permanently.

6. Has to have a university degree, or be working on one.

7. Should have a sense of humour similar to mine (i.e. dry, sarcastic, kind of cynical and dark).

8. Must be intelligent in a particular way (as in, reads real literature as opposed to crap like Twilight and is well read, is knowledgable in a certain area/areas of interest and in general, has an extensive vocabulary and is well-spoken, types using proper grammar, spelling, capitalisation and punctuation aside from occasional typos or minor grammatical mistakes, can carry on an engaging conversation about politics, world issues, social matters, etc., genuinely loves learning new things, etc.

9. Is fun. Spontaneously taking a vacation, staying up all night talking just because, being comfortable with nerdy activities, that kind of thing.

10. Must be cool with waiting until our late thirties to mid-forties to have a kid, and okay with having just one.

-- Juliet

ETA: I didn't include things like not cheating, honesty, treating me with respect, etc. because those go without saying for me.

Ooh.. this is almost exactly my list! :bigsmile: except..

3. Must love animals, particularly reptiles and dogs.

4. Has to be femme if you are female, and macho if you are a male. I like both equally. :ohwell:

5. Needs to love city life.

And just like to add, has to be more logical, rational, and objective than emotional because I don't get people who are overly emotional.. they scare and confuses me.. :embarassed: