Family & Friends can be cruel

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  • lupuslady
    lupuslady Posts: 99
    It seems to me , and believeme, I have a lot of experience, family is the worst at offending us. If you can just figure out why you can't stand up to them and tell them, "Yes I have gained some wt, I don't need anyone to point it out to me, thank you for your concern, but I need to take care of it my own way, thank you.."""
  • lupuslady
    lupuslady Posts: 99
    won't it be great when you are the smallest?:laugh:
  • shakemybooty
    shakemybooty Posts: 681 Member
    I'm sorry they hurt your feelings!! :flowerforyou:
  • Arketha
    Arketha Posts: 3 Member
    Thank you all so much for the support!!!! :smooched:
  • Mykidsmama
    Mykidsmama Posts: 17
    I can understand that! My family is the same way. One of them told me the other day that with all the running around I do it is amazing I am not skinny! Gee thanks! :(

    Good luck to you and I hope you find a lot of support here.
  • Dove1216
    Dove1216 Posts: 11 Member
    I agree..it has given me a start to get going..although I do understand the hurt feelings:cry:
  • Mountain_woman
    Mountain_woman Posts: 229 Member
    my mother in law always says 'you were so slim before you had the baby' ugh..that pisses me off


    Wow. And my response would be, "And you were younger then too...and not quite as rude."

    You can loose the weight, she'll always be a rude individual. Much easier to change you and enjoy the sensation of flaunting what you've worked so hard for. Forget her!
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