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I feel like stirring up some controversey

KristenAnn711
KristenAnn711 Posts: 783
edited September 2024 in Chit-Chat
First I want to say that I think this is an awful website and I am horrified that it exists.

Okay, I was reading an article in Redbook about this website called ashleymadison.com. It's a "dating" site for married people looking to have an affair!

This is unbelievable to me, how could anyone have created this website let alone JOIN! I'm pretty much outraged.
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  • shallo
    shallo Posts: 353 Member
    Almost all dating sites have married people looking to have affairs. This one just admits it.
  • ♥Faerie♥
    ♥Faerie♥ Posts: 14,053 Member
    It would be a cold day in Faerie Land if I found my love there....................just sayin........
  • DeBlue
    DeBlue Posts: 254 Member
    This was featured on television this morning also. Nice they are getting all this publicity huh?
  • heathersmilez
    heathersmilez Posts: 2,579 Member
    Yea it's a sad idea but a great money maker so way to fill a void in the dating market us normal people didn’t realize existed super entrepreneur!

    Cheating is bad, looking to cheat is super bad - not sure if words can express that enough.
  • heathersmilez
    heathersmilez Posts: 2,579 Member
    Almost all dating sites have married people looking to have affairs. This one just admits it.

    Ahhhhh that could be very true, great theory.
  • cnance
    cnance Posts: 92 Member
    Ashley Madison has been around for a while... every so often it will get a lot of publicity and then it will die off for a while...

    As a happily married man, I think its crap and very wrong. But I've known enough people that have cheated in marriages to not be surprised it exists and even thrives.
  • nikki91950
    nikki91950 Posts: 647
    It's not any worse than all those websites that support and encourage people to be anorexic/bulimic. Besides, people are going to cheat on their spouses whether there's a website to help them out or not.
  • sarahs440
    sarahs440 Posts: 405
    its been around for quite a while, disgusting.
  • heathersmilez
    heathersmilez Posts: 2,579 Member
    It's not any worse than all those websites that support and encourage people to be anorexic/bulimic. Besides, people are going to cheat on their spouses whether there's a website to help them out or not.

    Cheating on a relationship isn't really comparable to developing a psychological disease through your own thoughts and/or online forum encouragement/information that causes you to inflict injury on your body.

    Yes they both involve emotions but cheating certainly isn't a disease although sex-addiction is if that’s what you are arguing.
  • TK266
    TK266 Posts: 3,638 Member
    can single people go on and pretend they are married to get dates, you know, kind of like Match.com in reverse. :tongue:
  • DarkAngel864
    DarkAngel864 Posts: 229 Member
    If people want to go on there....let them!

    Karma is a bi*ch!
  • FearAnLoathing
    FearAnLoathing Posts: 4,852 Member
    Ive heard of the site,and its definatly a trip.But if people are going to cheat on someone they are going to do it even if the website didnt exist.
  • ♥Faerie♥
    ♥Faerie♥ Posts: 14,053 Member
    I dunno darkangel but if you keep showing me that *kitten* this is gonna become a dating site......just sayin....
  • Nemlein
    Nemlein Posts: 168 Member
    Yeah, my faith in human integrity fell a little when I read that same article. Not because the site was out there in the world, but because of how immensely popular it is.
  • LuckyLeprechaun
    LuckyLeprechaun Posts: 6,296 Member
    It's not any worse than all those websites that support and encourage people to be anorexic/bulimic. Besides, people are going to cheat on their spouses whether there's a website to help them out or not.

    Cheating on a relationship isn't really comparable to developing a psychological disease through your own thoughts and/or online forum encouragement/information that causes you to inflict injury on your body.

    Yes they both involve emotions but cheating certainly isn't a disease although sex-addiction is if that’s what you are arguing.

    I thought his point was more along these lines: there are all kinds of websites out there that promote immoral/wrong/inappropriate/(insert your favorite word) behaviors. One is no worse than the next.
  • MistyMtnMan
    MistyMtnMan Posts: 527 Member
    I heard most of it is just BS and Adult websites selling fake profiles to sucker people in.

    The idea is pretty crappy but I think it's just a big scam. I guess that's perfect then. Those people deserve to get ripped off.
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    I dunno darkangel but if you keep showing me that *kitten* this is gonna become a dating site......just sayin....

    :laugh:


    It is nice isn`t it. :drinker:
  • ahsongbird
    ahsongbird Posts: 712 Member
    I dunno darkangel but if you keep showing me that *kitten* this is gonna become a dating site......just sayin....
    LMFAOOOOOO!
  • ahsongbird
    ahsongbird Posts: 712 Member
    yea , I can only hope that some of those ppls spouses find out they are on that site. I just don't understand the need to cheat, to literally go out LOOKING for someone to cheat with, if you dont want the person you're with, DON'T be with them!
  • jkestens63
    jkestens63 Posts: 1,164 Member
    A cheater will find a way to cheat, if they want to pay someone to help them do it, they are an even bigger loser.
  • FearAnLoathing
    FearAnLoathing Posts: 4,852 Member
    I was at my husbands work once and had to use a computer so he had me use the one of the guy in the next cubical and he had that set as his homepage.it always made me feel wierd when I saw him after that.
  • neelia
    neelia Posts: 750 Member
    That is awful. 'Nuff said.
  • BillyC96
    BillyC96 Posts: 7,560 Member
    A cheater will find a way to cheat, if they want to pay someone to help them do it, they are an even bigger loser.

    Hear, hear!
  • LorinaLynn
    LorinaLynn Posts: 13,247 Member
    Cheating is wrong. Period. But at least this might keep all the sleazeballs in one place doing their sleazy things with each other. It annoyed the s**t out of me when I was single and using online dating sites and had all these married guys hit on me.

    Same goes for the kinky "adult" hookup sites. Not my bag, but I promote them on my dating site because the kinky folks should stick with messaging other kinky folks. I refuse to promote any sites catering exclusively to married people... and foreign bride sites.
  • can single people go on and pretend they are married to get dates, you know, kind of like Match.com in reverse. :tongue:


    haha!
  • Rubie81
    Rubie81 Posts: 720 Member
    Very sad. But I have to say I am not the least bit surprised.
  • nikki91950
    nikki91950 Posts: 647
    It's not any worse than all those websites that support and encourage people to be anorexic/bulimic. Besides, people are going to cheat on their spouses whether there's a website to help them out or not.

    Cheating on a relationship isn't really comparable to developing a psychological disease through your own thoughts and/or online forum encouragement/information that causes you to inflict injury on your body.

    Yes they both involve emotions but cheating certainly isn't a disease although sex-addiction is if that’s what you are arguing.

    I thought his point was more along these lines: there are all kinds of websites out there that promote immoral/wrong/inappropriate/(insert your favorite word) behaviors. One is no worse than the next.

    Thank you! That's exactly the point I was going for :) Couldn't have said it better myself!
  • DarkAngel864
    DarkAngel864 Posts: 229 Member
    I dunno darkangel but if you keep showing me that *kitten* this is gonna become a dating site......just sayin....

    Isn't it a dating site?? I mean, I know you and I have only exchanged personal, um, favors, but I was hoping we could start dating :smooched:
  • ♥Faerie♥
    ♥Faerie♥ Posts: 14,053 Member
    Really???? You want to be exclusive??? That might get dangerous....:devil:
  • mamabearr
    mamabearr Posts: 304
    I love me some girl on girl. YESSSSSSSS. :smokin:
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