boyfriend troubles....

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  • backinthenines
    backinthenines Posts: 1,083 Member
    I know he hasn't hit you yet... but it's easy to be in the wrong place at the wrong time when he lashes out. A dear friend of mine was with someone. He had never hit her directly but thrown bottles of beer in her general direction, punched holes into doors, smashes stuff up.

    One night he was drunk and threw something in her general direction, she ducked and took a step backwards...
    She was on the top of a flight of stairs she fell downwards backwards!! He never touched her (technically) but she still ended up with a broken arm and a fractured pelvis.

    I had been pleading with her for months before and she kept making excuses about him.

    Please leave.
  • emsibun
    emsibun Posts: 208
    I didn't mean to make you cry! So, so sorry.

    **hugs**

    (But seriously go get some well-deserved help).

    x
  • tinareet
    tinareet Posts: 126
    it wasn't a sad cry, it was a realisation cry LOL.

    OMG backinthenines, thats terrible, i hope she left after that, and i really dont want something like that to happen to me, and i bet he was so drunk he didnt even give a s*** about her and maybe even laughed, I can imagine it happening. things just get so out of hand so quickly. I will leave him, I'm just still trying to figure it out in my head as to when, how and what I'm going to say.

    xx
  • backinthenines
    backinthenines Posts: 1,083 Member
    My friend was a successful endurance runner until that happened. She ran a sub-3 hour marathon. She can't ever run again due to the permanent hip problems she was left with. Please don't let anyone do that to you. xxx
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