Creepy

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  • neuroticlin89
    neuroticlin89 Posts: 57 Member
    loll

    i guess it does look creepy if you have no idea who it is and they're requesting you. however, i don't feel comfortable posting my picture on a public site i guess so that might be why some people don't post a picture up.

    Haha yeah that makes sense..maybe try like a picture of idk a cute cucumber or a puppy. Somethin! :)

    i doubt a picture of a cucumber will make you look less creepy.. but you could try it.. maybe the ladies will like it, i dunno lol


    Hey now....cucumbers are down right adorable:)



    lol i don't think i'd have an opinion of someone with a pic of a cucumber. its too neutral but not creepy.
  • JEK717
    JEK717 Posts: 1,497
    loll

    i guess it does look creepy if you have no idea who it is and they're requesting you. however, i don't feel comfortable posting my picture on a public site i guess so that might be why some people don't post a picture up.

    Haha yeah that makes sense..maybe try like a picture of idk a cute cucumber or a puppy. Somethin! :)

    i doubt a picture of a cucumber will make you look less creepy.. but you could try it.. maybe the ladies will like it, i dunno lol


    Hey now....cucumbers are down right adorable:)



    lol i don't think i'd have an opinion of someone with a pic of a cucumber. its too neutral but not creepy.

    What...am i alone in my liking of cucumbers...i mean i cant be the ONLY one who thinks they are cute...well puppies ALWAYS work lol =)
  • GorillaNJ
    GorillaNJ Posts: 4,024 Member
    loll

    i guess it does look creepy if you have no idea who it is and they're requesting you. however, i don't feel comfortable posting my picture on a public site i guess so that might be why some people don't post a picture up.

    Haha yeah that makes sense..maybe try like a picture of idk a cute cucumber or a puppy. Somethin! :)

    i doubt a picture of a cucumber will make you look less creepy.. but you could try it.. maybe the ladies will like it, i dunno lol


    Hey now....cucumbers are down right adorable:)



    lol i don't think i'd have an opinion of someone with a pic of a cucumber. its too neutral but not creepy.

    What...am i alone in my liking of cucumbers...i mean i cant be the ONLY one who thinks they are cute...well puppies ALWAYS work lol =)

    I thought you said licking cucumbers... but that sort of comment could be considered creepy. LOL
  • binary_jester
    binary_jester Posts: 3,311 Member
    I get requests from guys asking if I have and sexy pics of myself. I feel like a piece of meat.


    But I send them ones anyway.
  • hannahsmommy06
    hannahsmommy06 Posts: 7
    i just erase it if i dont know them
  • JEK717
    JEK717 Posts: 1,497
    loll

    i guess it does look creepy if you have no idea who it is and they're requesting you. however, i don't feel comfortable posting my picture on a public site i guess so that might be why some people don't post a picture up.

    Haha yeah that makes sense..maybe try like a picture of idk a cute cucumber or a puppy. Somethin! :)

    i doubt a picture of a cucumber will make you look less creepy.. but you could try it.. maybe the ladies will like it, i dunno lol


    Hey now....cucumbers are down right adorable:)



    lol i don't think i'd have an opinion of someone with a pic of a cucumber. its too neutral but not creepy.

    What...am i alone in my liking of cucumbers...i mean i cant be the ONLY one who thinks they are cute...well puppies ALWAYS work lol =)

    I thought you said licking cucumbers... but that sort of comment could be considered creepy. LOL

    Haha OMG you freaked me out...i was like wait what...did i type licking or liking..haha i checked...nope..just you:tongue:
  • Mtsidad
    Mtsidad Posts: 242 Member
    Speaking from a guy's point of view -

    a) I try hard not to send requests unless I think we've interacted in the community.
    b) I am reluctant to add women because I'm married and I simply do not want to look weird. Most of my IRL friends are guys, and I don't want to have to explain to my wife why I'm spending so much time with online female friends.
    c) There is a very high female-to-male ratio, so it almost can't be helped that guys have more gal friends than gals have guy friends.
    d) I *promise* you that I'm here for *me* and my getting healthy.

    With that said, I will only send a "friend" request if it seems like there is a good fit for support and motivation. And even then I am perfectly OK with someone either not responding or even deleting me as a friend. As I've said, I have plenty of friends IRL.And I agree it can just be creepy to have the feeling that you are being stalked.

    But it is nice to find some people here who seem like they are genuine and committed to the community and to the common goals we have.

    Oh, and some of the replies on this thread are hilarious.
  • Miss_Chievous_wechange
    Miss_Chievous_wechange Posts: 1,230 Member
    Just add him... us creepy guys need love too!

    Yeah G you are a total creeper, but I love you. LOL jk
  • Miss_Chievous_wechange
    Miss_Chievous_wechange Posts: 1,230 Member
    I love all my creepy friends. LOL

    hey, uhhh... i love you too ***breathing heavily while smelling your hair***

    See what I mean... creeps can be very funny. LOL
  • Breckgirl
    Breckgirl Posts: 606 Member
    Kinda glad I have a kitty as my profile picture, the creeps usually leave me alone!

    Plus your cat pic looks like a real bad @$$. :laugh:
  • MicMar66
    MicMar66 Posts: 186 Member
    I get requests from guys asking if I have and sexy pics of myself. I feel like a piece of meat.


    But I send them ones anyway.
    :noway:
  • curvygirl512
    curvygirl512 Posts: 423 Member
    I will not accept friend requests unless they provide a reason or their profile is open and I see we have a lot in common.

    Ditto. I'd like to see that I have something other than weight loss in common.
  • Wuggums
    Wuggums Posts: 339 Member
    I get requests from guys asking if I have and sexy pics of myself. I feel like a piece of meat.


    But I send them ones anyway.

    Well that explains the bacon picture, doesn't it?
  • Jade_Butterfly
    Jade_Butterfly Posts: 2,963 Member
    I usually don't worry about it. I give people the benefit of the doubt until they prove me wrong.

    Agreed!:smile:
  • Kityngirl
    Kityngirl Posts: 14,304 Member
    Kinda glad I have a kitty as my profile picture, the creeps usually leave me alone!

    Plus your cat pic looks like a real bad @$$. :laugh:
    Kitties unite! :tongue:

    I pretty much accept all requests knowing I can delete or block 'em later if I want, but then I also have my profile locked and only put up cat pics as my AV so I don't get a ton anymore unless the person interacts with me on one of the threads. Lol.
  • kelligonzales
    kelligonzales Posts: 391
    I would add them and if they keep being a creepy, i would block them. i've done it to two others before.
  • binary_jester
    binary_jester Posts: 3,311 Member
    I would add them and if they keep being a creepy, i would block them. i've done it to two others before.
    Goes to check...nope, you're still a friend.
  • Panda_Jack
    Panda_Jack Posts: 829 Member
    Sorry, next time I'll add a message...

    creepios.jpg
  • binary_jester
    binary_jester Posts: 3,311 Member
    Sorry, next time I'll add a message...

    creepios.jpg
    Uncle Fester?
  • AngelsKisses75
    AngelsKisses75 Posts: 595 Member
    Okay, so I got a friend request today from some random guy I have never seen or heard of before. No message, just a request. His profile is private. I have to admit-I am totally creeped out! I KNOW this has happened to many of you and am really curious as to how others handle it.

    I will usually just add people and see how well we mesh. If it is not going to work one way or another there is a remove friend option, and if it gets worse there is the block option. No worries. :flowerforyou:

    You need to do what you are comfortable with though. So do what ever it is you feel is the best option. :smile:
  • roylawrence87
    roylawrence87 Posts: 970 Member
    Look Im here to get married... Don't go about calling me a creep!

    Wait, its not creepy to troll someone's profile pics it? If it is, I guess I am one...

    Lighten up and have a beer, mate! :drinker:
  • kelligonzales
    kelligonzales Posts: 391
    Sorry, next time I'll add a message...

    creepios.jpg
    Uncle Fester?

    Bwhahahaha :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • aliciadjackson
    aliciadjackson Posts: 480 Member
    I prefer to have a message, but I'll add people without one.. I figure if we don't get along or I do find something creepy about them later, I can delete.
  • AngelsKisses75
    AngelsKisses75 Posts: 595 Member
    After reading a bit more ... Flirty.gif I fear I may be a MFP creeper. SmileyShocked.gif
  • BrownEyedG1rl
    BrownEyedG1rl Posts: 625 Member
    The only creepy request I had did not have a message, but I still accepted him. But then he sent me like 2 creepy private messages so I just deleted him. He didn't seem like he was really here for weight loss anyway.
  • maletac
    maletac Posts: 767 Member
    i have now made it a point to add all you that think its creepy lol :D
  • roylawrence87
    roylawrence87 Posts: 970 Member
    i have now made it a point to add all you that think its creepy lol :D

    Im already your friend!!
  • Miss_Chievous_wechange
    Miss_Chievous_wechange Posts: 1,230 Member
    i have now made it a point to add all you that think its creepy lol :D

    Im already your friend!!

    You both are already my friends. hmmm....should I be concerned. LOL
  • boardedney
    boardedney Posts: 31 Member
    I just ignore them...lame
  • maletac
    maletac Posts: 767 Member
    i have now made it a point to add all you that think its creepy lol :D

    Im already your friend!!

    You both are already my friends. hmmm....should I be concerned. LOL

    considering how good looking you are :) yes
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