sad observation...

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  • kimmerroze
    kimmerroze Posts: 1,330 Member
    Its sad, but when you post a picture of you in a bra making a kissy face, all provactive and what not what do you expect... you block your profile so noone even has the chance to add you for any other reason than the fact that you are pretty.

    Its not their fault that you are only giving them your looks to judge you on. and people might be adding you (granted this may be a bit naive) because they see that you appear to be inshape. they may want to know what you are doing to get those results.

    I think it is silly that you are so upset by this. Not to be rude, but you shouldn't be so easily offended.
  • jldaley09
    jldaley09 Posts: 219 Member
    I see this sort of thing all the time. I tend to add people that have similar goals as me, or at one point was like I am now. The really beautiful ones, or good looking ;) tend to intimidate me. No disrespect, just low self esteem maybe.. and Im here working on that :)
  • thecanface
    thecanface Posts: 1,180 Member
    damn, ya'll act like i am naked! so my shoulder is showing...geeez louis i may as well be in playboy LOL
  • anubis609
    anubis609 Posts: 3,966 Member
    What if I feel bad that people are requesting me because of the content of my character? You think I'd get more if I made my butt do a duckface?
  • thecanface
    thecanface Posts: 1,180 Member
    Its sad, but when you post a picture of you in a bra making a kissy face, all provactive and what not what do you expect... you block your profile so noone even has the chance to add you for any other reason than the fact that you are pretty.

    Its not their fault that you are only giving them your looks to judge you on. and people might be adding you (granted this may be a bit naive) because they see that you appear to be inshape. they may want to know what you are doing to get those results.

    I think it is silly that you are so upset by this. Not to be rude, but you shouldn't be so easily offended.


    wow... not offended. was making an observation. but thanks anyway love!
  • SiltyPigeon
    SiltyPigeon Posts: 920 Member
    Perhaps when some people look at your pic they see that you are more fit than they are and want to know what your secrets are. So they friend you hoping that you can help them to look more like you?
    Isn't there that saying.... don't ever trust a thin cook? I'm sure that works the other way around. Would you trust the girl in your new picture for fitness advise and motivation?
  • margie_77
    margie_77 Posts: 693 Member
    If you were over weight, you'd have realised this a long time ago. Its just the way this country is.
  • mamijujuphat
    mamijujuphat Posts: 407 Member
    Blah...double post...haha
  • mamijujuphat
    mamijujuphat Posts: 407 Member
    I also like to add that I have "friended " some people simply because of their sense of humor ...that's alway something that I like about someone
  • TAWoody
    TAWoody Posts: 261 Member
    Kinda sad, but kinda expected. You're a pretty girl, and guys are gonna add you on that alone! By pretty, I meant hotness monster. I personally love being your friend on here because your posts crack me up all day :drinker:

    Friend request sent. :wink:

    Hmmm, would you have added her without my advertisement of her awesomeness?

    No that was a friend request for you silly. It was just a joke going with the thread though. :-)
  • BigBeaver
    BigBeaver Posts: 858 Member
    I would have requested again, and even though I sent you a message you said no, why ask again to get rejected??
  • thecanface
    thecanface Posts: 1,180 Member
    If you were over weight, you'd have realised this a long time ago. Its just the way this country is.

    i was over weight. that's why i am here. and that is also why i had that picture of my shoulder... to show my progress.. i am guessing the people up there who said i was being provacative will understand when they reach their goal, beause they seem sort of bitter at the fact that i had a photo of my arm. it's okay, when they get there they will understand. and i hope someone who is jealous of them too will tell the they shouldnt be so "provacative" when all they are doing is showing off their success. :)
  • thecanface
    thecanface Posts: 1,180 Member
    Perhaps when some people look at your pic they see that you are more fit than they are and want to know what your secrets are. So they friend you hoping that you can help them to look more like you?
    Isn't there that saying.... don't ever trust a thin cook? I'm sure that works the other way around. Would you trust the girl in your new picture for fitness advise and motivation?

    yep that could be a reason! and i request people i aspire to look like as well, but i at least let them know..
  • Karleyyy
    Karleyyy Posts: 857
    **** 'em. Who cares.
  • margie_77
    margie_77 Posts: 693 Member
    I didn't mean that you had done anything wrong, I was just saying that its all about looks. The better you look the more friend requests you'll get.
    Congrads on reaching your goal by the way. :) I've noticed that my shoulders look very different now as well... I even have collar bones!! Who knew! hahahhaa
  • mishelnkiki
    mishelnkiki Posts: 775 Member
    i dont personally think it was provactive so to speak. if i lost that much weight and looked like u... i can promise u i would have been a heck of a lot more provactive thats for dang sure! lol.
  • thecanface
    thecanface Posts: 1,180 Member
    I notice the same thing about mine. I like the attention though.

    YOU MAN SLUT! HOW DARE YOU SHOW OFF YOUR AWESOME PROGRESS! ITS LIKE YOU WANT SOMEONE TO BE PROUD OF YOU!??!?! YOU ARE REALLY ASKING FOR IT!!
  • Karleyyy
    Karleyyy Posts: 857
    What if I feel bad that people are requesting me because of the content of my character? You think I'd get more if I made my butt do a duckface?

    Hahaha. Bad mental image.
  • thecanface
    thecanface Posts: 1,180 Member
    i dont personally think it was provactive so to speak. if i lost that much weight and looked like u... i can promise u i would have been a heck of a lot more provactive thats for dang sure! lol.

    yeah, i really didnt think my arm was provacative... those people must be horny LOL
  • kimmerroze
    kimmerroze Posts: 1,330 Member
    If you were over weight, you'd have realised this a long time ago. Its just the way this country is.

    i was over weight. that's why i am here. and that is also why i had that picture of my shoulder... to show my progress.. i am guessing the people up there who said i was being provacative will understand when they reach their goal, beause they seem sort of bitter at the fact that i had a photo of my arm. it's okay, when they get there they will understand. and i hope someone who is jealous of them too will tell the they shouldnt be so "provacative" when all they are doing is showing off their success. :)

    noone is bitter of the fact that you have a rockin body. Because quite frankly you do,... and that picture was sexy. what people aren't understanding is the fact that you seem so shocked at the fact that you are getting more attention posing sexy than making a ridiculous and unnattractive face. its common sense.
  • anubis609
    anubis609 Posts: 3,966 Member
    What if I feel bad that people are requesting me because of the content of my character? You think I'd get more if I made my butt do a duckface?

    Hahaha. Bad mental image.

    LOL...I'll try to make it look like *kitten*-lips blowing a fart-kiss. :laugh: :laugh: :indifferent: :laugh: :laugh:
  • SunLovin1
    SunLovin1 Posts: 682 Member
    lol thats gonna happen this is still a social site. im at a point now where the only people i request are the ones that are friends with all my friends. i just havent got to you yet but we have many mutual friends. its sad that people are like that but not everyone is

    Me too. The ones I see out there being awesome to others on my friends' list (and funny) are the ones I request. Sometimes I request someone who posts well on the threads too. I can always use more knowledge. I like variety and it has more to do with knowledge, wit and empathy than looks for me.
  • JDMPWR
    JDMPWR Posts: 1,863 Member
    ^^^^ I added Karleyyy strictly on her two big luscious beautiful........children. :)
  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
    here's my sad observation...clothes shopping is so much different 80 lbs lighter. Before a clerk wouldn't even give me the time of day and now I have to beat them off with a stick just so I can look without someone in my face :)
  • SimplyFreckled
    SimplyFreckled Posts: 444 Member
    What if I feel bad that people are requesting me because of the content of my character? You think I'd get more if I made my butt do a duckface?

    Hahaha. Bad mental image.

    LOL...I'll try to make it look like *kitten*-lips blowing a fart-kiss. :laugh: :laugh: :indifferent: :laugh: :laugh:

    DAYUM You gotta teach me that trick!!! Thats just HOT!
  • thecanface
    thecanface Posts: 1,180 Member
    If you were over weight, you'd have realised this a long time ago. Its just the way this country is.

    i was over weight. that's why i am here. and that is also why i had that picture of my shoulder... to show my progress.. i am guessing the people up there who said i was being provacative will understand when they reach their goal, beause they seem sort of bitter at the fact that i had a photo of my arm. it's okay, when they get there they will understand. and i hope someone who is jealous of them too will tell the they shouldnt be so "provacative" when all they are doing is showing off their success. :)

    noone is bitter of the fact that you have a rockin body. Because quite frankly you do,... and that picture was sexy. what people aren't understanding is the fact that you seem so shocked at the fact that you are getting more attention posing sexy than making a ridiculous and unnattractive face. its common sense.

    well would you beleive i got the requests with my profile piccture??? looks like a ridiculous face to me.. and my arm... if you think that's provacative... i dont know what to tell ya hahah
  • thecanface
    thecanface Posts: 1,180 Member
    If you were over weight, you'd have realised this a long time ago. Its just the way this country is.

    i was over weight. that's why i am here. and that is also why i had that picture of my shoulder... to show my progress.. i am guessing the people up there who said i was being provacative will understand when they reach their goal, beause they seem sort of bitter at the fact that i had a photo of my arm. it's okay, when they get there they will understand. and i hope someone who is jealous of them too will tell the they shouldnt be so "provacative" when all they are doing is showing off their success. :)

    noone is bitter of the fact that you have a rockin body. Because quite frankly you do,... and that picture was sexy. what people aren't understanding is the fact that you seem so shocked at the fact that you are getting more attention posing sexy than making a ridiculous and unnattractive face. its common sense.

    well would you beleive i got the requests with my profile piccture??? looks like a ridiculous face to me.. and my arm... if you think that's provacative... i dont know what to tell ya hahah
  • MissO﹠A
    MissO﹠A Posts: 906 Member
    I also like to add that I have "friended " some people simply because of their sense of humor ...that's alway something that I like about someone

    ^^ This. If I come across active posters which bring the funny on a regular basis, it sticks out so I'll send a request. Most of my requests are to hilarious folks, gamers or those following my way-of-eating.
  • thecanface
    thecanface Posts: 1,180 Member
    here's my sad observation...clothes shopping is so much different 80 lbs lighter. Before a clerk wouldn't even give me the time of day and now I have to beat them off with a stick just so I can look without someone in my face :)


    yes!!! i hated the "what are you doing in this store/section" looks! the worst feeling ever :(
  • C_Bran
    C_Bran Posts: 254
    What's sad is
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