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  • chrisdavey
    chrisdavey Posts: 9,834 Member
    I generally add people when I see they have given good advice in the forums. These knowledgeable and motivated people are who I want to be friends with.

    Re friend requests: I only add people with a pic and an open diary. A) don't really know why but it looks dodgy with no pic. B) How can anyone be held accountable/congratulated if their dairy isn't open to friends?
  • Glucocorticoid
    Glucocorticoid Posts: 867 Member
    Am I hot?
  • reegordon
    reegordon Posts: 97 Member
    You sound more vain than anything.


    I definetly agree! She's not the only attractive female on here and you don't see others posting topics like this. I get hit on too and, yes it can be annoying, but I take it as a compliment and I don't try to belittle people because of it.
  • reegordon
    reegordon Posts: 97 Member
    Am I hot?

    Yes you are!!! :love:
  • UpToAnyCool
    UpToAnyCool Posts: 1,673
    Am I hot?

    yes birdie - you hawt!
  • goldenbutterfly
    goldenbutterfly Posts: 64
    who is that large person you changed your picture too ???????????? if is not a modified pic of you........perhapse you should start to think about how you might have made us larger ones feel, being large doesnt make us ugly people. but obvously you think that otherwise you woulnt have used it as an example.
  • thecanface
    thecanface Posts: 1,180 Member
    Who said anything about ugly or hot?? Ever think I was overweight???? Why do you think I'm here? Why do you think I was upset about this. Idiots.
  • thecanface
    thecanface Posts: 1,180 Member
    who is that large person you changed your picture too ???????????? if is not a modified pic of you........perhapse you should start to think about how you might have made us larger ones feel, being large doesnt make us ugly people. but obvously you think that otherwise you woulnt have used it as an example.

    THAT IS ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • Jizes318
    Jizes318 Posts: 409 Member
    I noticed that too! If I had a particular photo up I would get requests and emails.. then when I changed to me and my husband I saw nothing... I was thinking to myself I am here to kick *kitten* and take names in getting healthy not pick up people or have them pick me up... But i do see people want to find someone with their same interests and goals in getting fit and healthy... I am mixed on this. I understand but clearly I am not in it for those things and people need to see you aren't either! Ha they get the point now :wink:

    Good luck to all of you! I promise I wont try to pick anyone up LOL:glasses:
  • wsheaf82
    wsheaf82 Posts: 248 Member
    I am happily married. So I am not looking for anything else but making the time at work go faster :wink: and motivation both for myself and people I meet on here to do what we have to do and get healthier and happier with ourselves. But I would not stand in the way of two people on here finding :heart: . It is so hard to meet someone worth a darn these days. If they happen to find something truly amazing here and get in shape while doing it, :drinker: Yay for them.
  • Wileyjoe
    Wileyjoe Posts: 282
    My profile pic doesn't seem to get me any friend requests??? I don't get it - is it not a good looking shake? Maybe I need to offer fries with my shake :P
  • wsheaf82
    wsheaf82 Posts: 248 Member
    My profile pic doesn't seem to get me any friend requests??? I don't get it - is it not a good looking shake? Maybe I need to offer fries with my shake :P

    I'm not going to lie. I don't really like fruit. Apples, oranges, bananas, and pineapples are ok. Everything else yuck.
  • Heather75
    Heather75 Posts: 3,386 Member
    I like fruit.
  • angryguy77
    angryguy77 Posts: 836 Member
    Men are going to look and they will always give pretty girls more attention. It's nature and we are wired to notice physical attributes more so than women. I'm sure there are many women on this site that would die for your "problem".

    What exactly do you expect to happen if you have a pic like that? You should take it as a compliment more than anything. It's not like MFP really allows someone to look into your soul and motivate them to send you a friend request.


    My last question is, where have you been? Sex sells and corporations have used women to get attention for decades now. Why would you think MFP is different? Can't fight nature.
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