Ladies that have lost weight...(men, if you enter please be

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  • lina1131
    lina1131 Posts: 2,246 Member
    Thanks for the advice. We have a two year old daughter so I wouldn't be able to just walk around the house like that. We got married, I got pregnant one month later, 9 months of leave me alone because i'm pregnant, then c-section and a couple more months of we can't do anything until I heal, then the new parents syndrome where we are pissy at each other over things like whether the banana is ripe or not. We are just NOW getting to the point where our sex life is booming and I love it and I don't want it to be boring for him so I want to make him happy and do these things for him but then I struggle with myself. I should just STFU and do it and see how I feel without assuming I will feel bad, right?
  • GoGetterMom
    GoGetterMom Posts: 852 Member
    Longer looking legs? Who cares - they're fun! :wink:
  • jamerz3294
    jamerz3294 Posts: 1,824 Member
    Just remember ladies, us Y chromosome carriers are hardwired into the visual aspect of things. :glasses: I can pretty well guarantee that your DH will be so in awe of you, and it *WILL* be a complete turn on! And yes, doing the slow, seductive strip tease will also be a complete turn on for him. :blushing: You've already been doing a lot of work on yourself, so yes, go ahead and do the sexy mamma thing! Believe me, you will not only be doing it for him, but also for yourself, and for the two of you! Hugz for being a brave and beautiful woman! :flowerforyou:
  • GoGetterMom
    GoGetterMom Posts: 852 Member
    Thanks for the advice. We have a two year old daughter so I wouldn't be able to just walk around the house like that. We got married, I got pregnant one month later, 9 months of leave me alone because i'm pregnant, then c-section and a couple more months of we can't do anything until I heal, then the new parents syndrome where we are pissy at each other over things like whether the banana is ripe or not. We are just NOW getting to the point where our sex life is booming and I love it and I don't want it to be boring for him so I want to make him happy and do these things for him but then I struggle with myself. I should just STFU and do it and see how I feel without assuming I will feel bad, right?
    Have fun with it! :drinker:
  • lina1131
    lina1131 Posts: 2,246 Member
    I sound like an idiot, I know. I'm sorry. But I really don't have anyone else to talk to about this stuff. My husband was my first and my very first time was our wedding night so I don't have that much experience and basically don't know what the hell to do and what not to do - aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah! :blushing:
  • GoGetterMom
    GoGetterMom Posts: 852 Member
    I sound like an idiot, I know. I'm sorry. But I really don't have anyone else to talk to about this stuff. My husband was my first and my very first time was our wedding night so I don't have that much experience and basically don't know what the hell to do and what not to do - aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah! :blushing:
    He's just going to love what you are wearing - because YOU are wearing it! Walking is fine. When you get comfortable with you wearing new things, then add in a cute little walk. No big deal.
  • Ezzie
    Ezzie Posts: 665 Member
    You're taking the first step!!! Now, go grab some $$$ head for your local K/Wal Mart and try some stuff on! I'm suggesting a less 'spensive store because:

    1. the goodies NEVER stay on long
    2. if he rips em off with his teeth it won't matter
    3. won't break the bank
    4. they actually have a decent selection most of the time....
    5. you could just go for something sexy UNDER your usual clothes....give him a peek/flash....nothing like anticipation!
    6. no one will suspect that you're not there buying red flannels:yawn: for winter.
    Ezzie
  • FitJoani
    FitJoani Posts: 2,173 Member
    they always say a man loves your naked body no matter what or barely clothed for that matter. I still; have my hangups, just because I have SOOOOOOOOO many horror stories and cases where guys have outright told me I am big(either left me for a prettier skinnier girl or told me I was too big) so I still get scared and nervous. So I stick in pretty much full clothing. I have to get over it....
  • lina1131
    lina1131 Posts: 2,246 Member
    You're taking the first step!!! Now, go grab some $$$ head for your local K/Wal Mart and try some stuff on! I'm suggesting a less 'spensive store because:

    1. the goodies NEVER stay on long
    2. if he rips em off with his teeth it won't matter
    3. won't break the bank
    4. they actually have a decent selection most of the time....
    5. you could just go for something sexy UNDER your usual clothes....give him a peek/flash....nothing like anticipation!
    6. no one will suspect that you're not there buying red flannels:yawn: for winter.
    Ezzie

    Good points! :laugh:
  • mjfer123
    mjfer123 Posts: 1,234 Member
    I entered anyway, didnt read all the posts though ladies, so dont be embarassed!
    My gf goes to fredericks and Victorias.
    Just be spontaneous and remember to just have fun.
    Im sure your husband will be like "DOUBLE SCORE"
  • pecksun8
    pecksun8 Posts: 570
    See that's another thing, how the hell do I even do it? I have never been the kind to just wear something skimpy for him (even though I do think I have an inner hooker lurking in there :laugh:). Will he be like WTF? Or LGF? :noway: :laugh:

    Trust me. He will not have either reaction. A well known comedian said it best. Men only want TWO things: a cold beer and to see a woman naked.

    I say go for it! His reaction will give you the confidence you need.:flowerforyou:

    LOL:laugh:

    Save up a few calories and have a glass of wine, keep the light low and just enjoy yourself and have a good time...the slinky stuff won't stay on for long. And if it helps, make him wear some silky boxers or something.
  • BEFORE
    BEFORE Posts: 1,291 Member
    I always like the bath robe and then it falls to the floor and there you are in all your glory. Heck with the Victoria Secret stuff.

    My husband would love this if I wore heels with the robe. What the fluck is it with heels and men? :laugh: :laugh:
    We were out shopping and I was looking at a trench coat...and my hubby immediately wiggled his eyebrows and said "Gonna go naked underneath???"

    I mean.........sheesh!!! Forget about the expensive stuff. Wear a coat or bathrobe or better yet.........a football jersey or mans button up shirt........with nothing else.........and that is ALL you need!! :wink: :laugh:
    Ohhh Tami good call. Love the football jersey or a mans button up shirt. :love: :love:
  • lina1131
    lina1131 Posts: 2,246 Member
    They Jersey is a problem. I'm a Cowboy's fan and he's a Giant's fan. We'll end up kicking each others *kitten* instead of sex. :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • Skittles6617
    Skittles6617 Posts: 247 Member
    My hubby wants me to dress more sexy too. :embarassed:

    I feel self conscious dressing that way and therefore don't. :bigsmile:

    Poor hubby. th_smalldancingman.gif
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    a little tequila will fix that for you....trust me....:blushing: ]
  • BEFORE
    BEFORE Posts: 1,291 Member
    Lina,

    Sounds to me you have lost the weight but not the self image and therefore I highly recommend you find something sexy and wear it tonight and that self image will be gone in the morning. Thanks for trusting us and know we would not miss lead you not even Max.
  • Skittles6617
    Skittles6617 Posts: 247 Member
    how the heck do I manage to do that???
  • Skittles6617
    Skittles6617 Posts: 247 Member
    how the heck do I manage to do that???
  • BEFORE
    BEFORE Posts: 1,291 Member
    They Jersey is a problem. I'm a Cowboy's fan and he's a Giant's fan. We'll end up kicking each others *kitten* instead of sex. :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
    now he'll have 2 reasons to rip that jersey off.
  • Shannon023
    Shannon023 Posts: 14,529 Member
    My hubby wants me to dress more sexy too. :embarassed:

    I feel self conscious dressing that way and therefore don't. :bigsmile:

    Poor hubby. th_smalldancingman.gif




    a little tequila will fix that for you....trust me....:blushing: ]

    I like the way you think! :bigsmile: :love:
  • lina1131
    lina1131 Posts: 2,246 Member
    Thanks for all the help and advice. I'm leaving to go home now. :bigsmile:
  • TamTastic
    TamTastic Posts: 19,224 Member
    They Jersey is a problem. I'm a Cowboy's fan and he's a Giant's fan. We'll end up kicking each others *kitten* instead of sex. :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
    now he'll have 2 reasons to rip that jersey off.
    My hubby just bought ME my very own Redskins jersey. It's for HIM really!! :wink: :laugh:
  • Skittles6617
    Skittles6617 Posts: 247 Member
    I think I really do need tequila now.....:sad: Everything I have worked on for the past 10 hours at work has just crashed, and we lost it ALL :sad: :sad: :sad:
  • BEFORE
    BEFORE Posts: 1,291 Member
    My hubby wants me to dress more sexy too. :embarassed:

    I feel self conscious dressing that way and therefore don't. :bigsmile:

    Poor hubby. th_smalldancingman.gif




    a little tequila will fix that for you....trust me....:blushing: ]

    I like the way you think! :bigsmile: :love:
    We like the way you drink.
  • BEFORE
    BEFORE Posts: 1,291 Member
    They Jersey is a problem. I'm a Cowboy's fan and he's a Giant's fan. We'll end up kicking each others *kitten* instead of sex. :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
    now he'll have 2 reasons to rip that jersey off.
    My hubby just bought ME my very own Redskins jersey. It's for HIM really!! :wink: :laugh:
    Do you play touch or tackle football? :bigsmile:
  • Skittles6617
    Skittles6617 Posts: 247 Member
    My hubby wants me to dress more sexy too. :embarassed:

    I feel self conscious dressing that way and therefore don't. :bigsmile:

    Poor hubby. th_smalldancingman.gif




    a little tequila will fix that for you....trust me....:blushing: ]

    I like the way you think! :bigsmile: :love:
    We like the way you drink.




    I will never tell......
  • TamTastic
    TamTastic Posts: 19,224 Member
    They Jersey is a problem. I'm a Cowboy's fan and he's a Giant's fan. We'll end up kicking each others *kitten* instead of sex. :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
    now he'll have 2 reasons to rip that jersey off.
    My hubby just bought ME my very own Redskins jersey. It's for HIM really!! :wink: :laugh:
    Do you play touch or tackle football? :bigsmile:
    What do YOU think??? :laugh:
  • GoGetterMom
    GoGetterMom Posts: 852 Member
    They Jersey is a problem. I'm a Cowboy's fan and he's a Giant's fan. We'll end up kicking each others *kitten* instead of sex. :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
    now he'll have 2 reasons to rip that jersey off.
    My hubby just bought ME my very own Redskins jersey. It's for HIM really!! :wink: :laugh:
    Smart man!!!! :wink:
  • BEFORE
    BEFORE Posts: 1,291 Member
    They Jersey is a problem. I'm a Cowboy's fan and he's a Giant's fan. We'll end up kicking each others *kitten* instead of sex. :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
    now he'll have 2 reasons to rip that jersey off.
    My hubby just bought ME my very own Redskins jersey. It's for HIM really!! :wink: :laugh:
    Do you play touch or tackle football? :bigsmile:
    What do YOU think??? :laugh:
    Both
  • TamTastic
    TamTastic Posts: 19,224 Member
    They Jersey is a problem. I'm a Cowboy's fan and he's a Giant's fan. We'll end up kicking each others *kitten* instead of sex. :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
    now he'll have 2 reasons to rip that jersey off.
    My hubby just bought ME my very own Redskins jersey. It's for HIM really!! :wink: :laugh:
    Do you play touch or tackle football? :bigsmile:
    What do YOU think??? :laugh:
    Both
    *Nods*....pretty much! :laugh:
  • Fitness_Chick
    Fitness_Chick Posts: 6,648 Member
    Maybe after I lose a few more pounds. I still feel like my stomach needs a lot of work before I do that.
    You know, I am not completely happy with all my parts....but I am so proud of myself and feel so much better and smaller....and have so much more fun looking for clothes..that I enjoying the positive things and not focusing on the negative.

    just embrace what is beautiful and wonderful about you and your body....and know that he is enjoying it too!!! :wink:

    :flowerforyou: a simply beautiful post....I'm so glad you wrote it on this thread...who doesn't need to hear something like this??!:wink:
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