why

Scilluh
Scilluh Posts: 152
edited September 28 in Introduce Yourself
why dose no one like me or talk to me or want to hang with me am i realy that bad of a person
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  • suzicooper
    suzicooper Posts: 15
    whats up love?
  • CeleryStalker
    CeleryStalker Posts: 665 Member
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  • newbeautifulme
    newbeautifulme Posts: 112
    Would you say that your general disposition is positive or negative? Are you looking for the good or bad in people, things and situations around you? Do you exude confidence or feel sorry for yourself? Are you happy or sad?

    People tend to be drawn to others that are happy, confident and have a generally positive outlook.
  • Scilluh
    Scilluh Posts: 152
    whats up love?

    not much just siting here waiting for people to want to talk to me
  • 5weeks
    5weeks Posts: 38
    Hi Priscilla ~
    what would you like to talk about?:flowerforyou:
  • CeleryStalker
    CeleryStalker Posts: 665 Member
    well this is a chat forum, not instant messenger, so start a thread asking questions or initiating a topic of conversation and people will post. there is a LOT of traffic here daily, so your post will get bumped down off the 'recent posts' tab quickly, however you can always revive the post with another comment. :smile:
  • ChantalGG
    ChantalGG Posts: 2,404 Member
    whats up love?

    not much just siting here waiting for people to want to talk to me
    In real life or on here?
  • Scilluh
    Scilluh Posts: 152
    Would you say that your general disposition is positive or negative? Are you looking for the good or bad in people, things and situations around you? Do you exude confidence or feel sorry for yourself? Are you happy or sad?

    People tend to be drawn to others that are happy, confident and have a generally positive outlook.

    i think i am realy and good person but maybe there is some thing wrong with me
    idk and i dont feel sorry for my self i am just asking a quation
  • Scilluh
    Scilluh Posts: 152
    whats up love?

    not much just siting here waiting for people to want to talk to me
    In real life or on here?


    both
  • Scilluh
    Scilluh Posts: 152
    well this is a chat forum, not instant messenger, so start a thread asking questions or initiating a topic of conversation and people will post. there is a LOT of traffic here daily, so your post will get bumped down off the 'recent posts' tab quickly, however you can always revive the post with another comment. :smile:



    i know how it works but thanks any way
  • ChantalGG
    ChantalGG Posts: 2,404 Member
    What exercises are you doing?That is a fun topic. :)
  • Scilluh
    Scilluh Posts: 152
    Hi Priscilla ~
    what would you like to talk about?:flowerforyou:


    idk any thing i gess
  • Scilluh
    Scilluh Posts: 152
    What exercises are you doing?That is a fun topic. :)


    walking that is my fav and it is not a very fun topic
  • ChantalGG
    ChantalGG Posts: 2,404 Member
    What exercises are you doing?That is a fun topic. :)


    walking that is my fav and it is not a very fun topic
    Well I tried.. *leaves*
  • Roszepoo
    Roszepoo Posts: 46
    Please look at where you put yourself-where are you in a position to meet people? Join a gym, go to a book club, etc. You talk first-don't expect otheres to act first. Everyone waits for someone else to act first. Act like the person you want to be and soon you will be that person. Be strong. I believe you can do it.
  • CeleryStalker
    CeleryStalker Posts: 665 Member
    i know how it works but thanks any way

    I'm not understanding the problem here then. Are you posting topics and nobody is replying to them? We're trying to help. You're not reciprocating.
  • 5weeks
    5weeks Posts: 38
    What are your hobbies? What do you do for a living?
  • Scilluh
    Scilluh Posts: 152
    Please look at where you put yourself-where are you in a position to meet people? Join a gym, go to a book club, etc. You talk first-don't expect otheres to act first. Everyone waits for someone else to act first. Act like the person you want to be and soon you will be that person. Be strong. I believe you can do it.


    i do act frist and i still get that no one wants to talk to me
  • CeleryStalker
    CeleryStalker Posts: 665 Member
    People tend to be drawn to others that are happy, confident and have a generally positive outlook.

    This deserves to be repeated. You don't seem to be very positive, and to be honest, lots of people have come on here trying to brighten your spirits with conversation and you're not being entirely warm to any of us.

    What's going on? What's wrong?
  • 5weeks
    5weeks Posts: 38
    Please look at where you put yourself-where are you in a position to meet people? Join a gym, go to a book club, etc. You talk first-don't expect otheres to act first. Everyone waits for someone else to act first. Act like the person you want to be and soon you will be that person. Be strong. I believe you can do it.


    i do act frist and i still get that no one wants to talk to me

    You sound very down on yourself, that can make it hard on people around here. Be positive!
  • Scilluh
    Scilluh Posts: 152
    i know how it works but thanks any way

    I'm not understanding the problem here then. Are you posting topics and nobody is replying to them? We're trying to help. You're not reciprocating.


    yes no on is writeing on my topics and i write in the in box of a lot of people and no one writes back
  • BigBoneSista
    BigBoneSista Posts: 2,389 Member
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    MUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUAAAAHH!! I wasn't ready for this!!
  • Scilluh
    Scilluh Posts: 152
    Please look at where you put yourself-where are you in a position to meet people? Join a gym, go to a book club, etc. You talk first-don't expect otheres to act first. Everyone waits for someone else to act first. Act like the person you want to be and soon you will be that person. Be strong. I believe you can do it.


    i do act frist and i still get that no one wants to talk to me

    You sound very down on yourself, that can make it hard on people around here. Be positive!


    i am positive i just want some one to talk to
  • Pandorian
    Pandorian Posts: 2,055 Member
    What exercises are you doing?That is a fun topic. :)
    walking that is my fav and it is not a very fun topic


    *****
    i know how it works but thanks any way
    People ARE trying to talk to you but just with those 2 responses alone you've had me post this and walk out the door to work, you want to talk TALK sometimes it means talking about things that aren't very interesting but it gets the ball rolling.
    I'm a home-steading computer support tech with 3000 sq ft of garden, 3 dozen chickens and cows..... my interests are varied, looking for a quad for an electric conversion, because I can ;) Oh and I do can, looking forward to canning a lot of this years harvest, can't wait for tomorrow hope the weather is decent so I can find more mason jars at yard sales.
  • Scilluh
    Scilluh Posts: 152
    original.jpg

    MUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUAAAAHH!! I wasn't ready for this!!



    ready for what
  • Scilluh
    Scilluh Posts: 152
    What exercises are you doing?That is a fun topic. :)
    walking that is my fav and it is not a very fun topic


    *****
    i know how it works but thanks any way
    People ARE trying to talk to you but just with those 2 responses alone you've had me post this and walk out the door to work, you want to talk TALK sometimes it means talking about things that aren't very interesting but it gets the ball rolling.
    I'm a home-steading computer support tech with 3000 sq ft of garden, 3 dozen chickens and cows..... my interests are varied, looking for a quad for an electric conversion, because I can ;) Oh and I do can, looking forward to canning a lot of this years harvest, can't wait for tomorrow hope the weather is decent so I can find more mason jars at yard sales.


    i did not say i would not talk about it i just said i dont think it is interesting
  • Scilluh
    Scilluh Posts: 152
    What exercises are you doing?That is a fun topic. :)


    walking that is my fav and it is not a very fun topic
    Well I tried.. *leaves*


    o ok well have a nice day
  • helenoftroy1
    helenoftroy1 Posts: 638 Member
    I suggest you talk to the samaritans
  • bunchesonothing
    bunchesonothing Posts: 1,015 Member
    I know you're saying you're positive and just want someone to talk to, but you're sending out mixed signals.

    Everything you have been saying has been negative, contrary... and perhaps... borderline rude.

    I don't know if you realize or if this is the way you're talking to others, but if it is, it could be why people don't reciprocate. And I say this, because you ask why.
  • Pandorian
    Pandorian Posts: 2,055 Member
    Meh, I'll bite again. If walking isn't exciting you're maybe doing it wrong! IN the winter I was on the treadmill all the time, looking at the same patch of wall for my time on it. I haven't done much walking this year outside but in past years I go for various walks at local parks, 7km trail... 3km trail with a splendid lookout that makes the lesser distance worthwhile for the view. Having someone to talk with on the walks definitely makes a difference though ;) I miss canoeing and kayaking though, had thought I'd be doing some again this year but maybe next year at this point.
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