Is anyone else unhappy with their boobs??!

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  • JenFer5
    JenFer5 Posts: 25
    Well, mine have nourished 5 children, so I love them for that :) They are pretty large and painful(shoulders/back), though. I have always wanted a reduction. Now that I have had kids and I will be losing a large amount of weight I am scared of what they will look like. At this point I just focus on the positive and figure I will deal with issues as they arise.
  • BCKS
    BCKS Posts: 287 Member
    I used to hate my boobs because they're small, 36 A, but I have come to accept them and now I am grateful for what I have. My ex-husband used to tell me almost every day that my boobs were too small and he'd always point out other women; on tv, in magazines, in real life, etc., that had bigger boobs than me. Needless to say, I cried a lot. I have since gotten rid of him and I'm so much happier!

    I'm 42 yrs. old, I have a decent handful and they're nice and round and perky!! Being small, I don't have to worry about sagging, etc. Would I like them a little bigger? Sure, that would be nice sometimes, but I would never get implants. I do not like that fake look at all. If a guy can't accept me for who I am, they're not worth my time.
  • TexasNurseMom78
    TexasNurseMom78 Posts: 897 Member
    t of a bra. They roll all over and go under my arms when i am on my back. When standing, the look deflated and sad pointing at the ground. I was a 44DD at my highest weight. Am now a 38D, which is not small I know, but it is the quality I am unhappy with. And my sweet hubby tries to make me feel better by saying that he likes smaller boobs. But I know that ia a lie. Its like a woman saying she likes a small "man". really? I think not. So when I am done with my weight loss I want a complete mommy make over with a tummy tuck and boob lift!
  • Katie3784
    Katie3784 Posts: 543
    i don't hate my boobs, but i hate that they are saggy (even saggier than they were pre-kids)... they look ok in clothes, but i'd love to get a boob job so that they would stand up by themselves without a bra....

    and if i got a boob job, it would be for me, not to impress the masses of men out there, it's not all about you guys, it's about how we feel about ourselves.
    If you ever do get a boob job, you should definitely wear a bra because fake boobies sag, too.
  • Katie3784
    Katie3784 Posts: 543
    I will agree with some of the other posts... .MEN love BOOBS no matter what size, shape, or form, color.. whatever the case may be... MEN <3 BOOBS
    It's not about how men feel, it's about how we feel. I got a boob job for me and nobody else.
  • Kalrez
    Kalrez Posts: 655 Member
    So when I am done with my weight loss I want a complete mommy make over with a tummy tuck and boob lift!

    I've contemplated the same thing. But I haven't yet had a child. So I'll wait till I get pregnant and do the whole breastfeeding thing. Maybe a makeover will be a future birthday present to myself to celebrate losing weight & keeping it off!
  • gnat45
    gnat45 Posts: 833 Member
    I will agree with some of the other posts... .MEN love BOOBS no matter what size, shape, or form, color.. whatever the case may be... MEN <3 BOOBS
    It's not about how men feel, it's about how we feel. I got a boob job for me and nobody else.

    Totally right!
    If you don't mind me asking, how big did you go?
  • Chubby_bunnyy
    Chubby_bunnyy Posts: 50 Member
    My boobs were always pretty big on my frame, a big c. Sometimes I liked the androgynous look and they weren't my favourite but they always made me feel sexy when I wanted to. Now I'm a small b, very small..! I go back and forth on it... I mean I don't really feel too sexy... And I know my bf dislikes it
  • cheryl3660
    cheryl3660 Posts: 182 Member
    They are OK if I have them hefted up in a nice new bra, but without a bra I hate them. They are too big and too saggy. They are getting smaller as I lose weight - I've gone from an F cup to a DD now - but having kids and age has made them too saggy to fix without a boob job. Not sure I am willing to spend my money on that. I did tell my husband that I had to buy a smaller bra size and he said I'd better go get a boob job to make them bigger again. LOL!
  • Kalrez
    Kalrez Posts: 655 Member
    I did tell my husband that I had to buy a smaller bra size and he said I'd better go get a boob job to make them bigger again. LOL!

    My boyfriend is quite distraught at the prospect of me losing some boob mass. I, however, would love to trade the DD for a C. You stop getting cute bras at C lol. I'm 42D/40DD now. I'm shooting for a 30something C. I just wanna be able to buy bras at a "regular person" store.
  • Hearts_2015
    Hearts_2015 Posts: 12,031 Member
    Hey my name is Hannah and for years I have hated my boobs! They are weirdly shaped (tubular) and small so I am having a boob job once I have lost some weight!
    To help raise awearness for people who are deeply unhappy with their boobs I have made a youtube channel that will follow my progress of weightloss and finding the perfect cosmetic surgeon (showing my ups and downs)

    I just uploaded a video on how to make my boobs look bigger because it makes me soo much more confident, check it out if you want some good tips for your bust and let me know if it works for you! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A3J-3nn--m8

    HOWEVER, the main reason why I started this topic is to ask women out there if they are unhappy with their boobs, and if so why? Is it because of a breast deformity like myself or is it because of weight gain/loss?? Please comment and let me know! I'm so interested in other peoples stories because my boobs have seriously effected my confidence and self esteem over the last 6 years (since I was about 14)

    Thank you for reading this!! (Feel free to add me as a friend and don't forget to check out my youtube http://www.youtube.com/shybreasts)

    :smile:
    You're very beautiful and I simply love your English accent! I wish you well in finding the right surgeon for you and I did take a look at your video and will check back later.

    PS: I love my boobs!:laugh: :tongue:
  • annastacia10
    annastacia10 Posts: 106
    bump!
  • coolsmartygirl
    coolsmartygirl Posts: 299 Member
    For me, they are uneven. Small of course, but a different cup sizes! So crazy and my clothes sometimes don't fit correctly. If I can later in life, I would get them evened and perhaps raised to a b or so. Plus I am a pear shape, so perhaps that will give me that classic hour glass shape.
  • Lyadeia
    Lyadeia Posts: 4,603 Member
    and if i got a boob job, it would be for me, not to impress the masses of men out there, it's not all about you guys, it's about how we feel about ourselves.

    This.

    I don't want to get my boobs to impress any male creature out there in the world. Justin is happy with me as I am and that's fine with me. But, I am extremely self conscious and hate the way they look. I am losing weight for me...I am cutting body fat for me...and I will augment my breasts for me.
  • helloiloveukitty
    helloiloveukitty Posts: 448 Member
    I don't like mine, small...ugly...not right for my frame and they got so deflated after losing weight. I'm getting new ones in august and I'm so freaking excited. I'm also having a lift. Hoping everything goes wonderful, to me the risk or surgery and complications don't hold a candle to having the big gorgeous tatas I find beautiful and that suit me much better then the icky boobs I have now. Also....I have asymmetry so even if I were not getting implants it would still be what I would call corrective. Not that it matters, I think women should STOP listening to other people about their breasts and do what makes them feel good, whatever that is. Screw what men want or say they like, we have to wear these for life.

    Okay, I looked at your pics because I was like...'ugly?'....your tatas are voluptuous! I mean, small compared to what?? :-O

    My profile pics are mostly fat pics (pre mega deflation) and / or my boobs look okay there because of good bras (I've taken to wearing 2 bras at once since they went all pancake on me), its all an illusion, topless they are hideous, very uneven and small. They make me sad. I can't wait to forget them and have my new ones and I will in 1 month and 8 days :)
  • stc74
    stc74 Posts: 297 Member
    My DDs just need to be put back where they were 15 yrs & 2 kids ago. I'd even take smaller if they were perky :smile:

    Oh and to add, my guess is that guys just plain like boobs. I'm not sure size really matters as long as they are available :laugh:
  • TeenaMarina
    TeenaMarina Posts: 420 Member
    Hey my name is Hannah and for years I have hated my boobs! They are weirdly shaped (tubular) and small so I am having a boob job once I have lost some weight!
    To help raise awearness for people who are deeply unhappy with their boobs I have made a youtube channel that will follow my progress of weightloss and finding the perfect cosmetic surgeon (showing my ups and downs)

    I just uploaded a video on how to make my boobs look bigger because it makes me soo much more confident, check it out if you want some good tips for your bust and let me know if it works for you! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A3J-3nn--m8

    HOWEVER, the main reason why I started this topic is to ask women out there if they are unhappy with their boobs, and if so why? Is it because of a breast deformity like myself or is it because of weight gain/loss?? Please comment and let me know! I'm so interested in other peoples stories because my boobs have seriously effected my confidence and self esteem over the last 6 years (since I was about 14)

    Thank you for reading this!! (Feel free to add me as a friend and don't forget to check out my youtube http://www.youtube.com/shybreasts)

    :smile:

    Just watched your video :) Absolutely adorable... hope you make more. I may try a couple of your tactics :) Best of luck. x
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    There have been times I've thought about getting a boob job. I've definately spent some hours checking out surgeons, pics, etc. But it just always comes back to no.

    I'm a tall girl. I'm pretty curvy w/o the boobs (I wear a small C) and although I'd love to be a D cup, I can't help but to desire to be content with myself, just the way I am.

    If I got the boobs, maybe more people would look at me, maybe my husband would love them, maybe I'd LOVE the way I look in certain clothes but that wouldn't be the real me. That's where I get stuck when thinking about breast implants. I want to be liked/loved for ME. I want to be proud of myself the way I am.

    I do envy girls who get them done and say they're so happy but I just can't seem to feel 100% okay about it right now.

    And I'm speaking as a woman who'd get breast implants to go up a cup size, not because of a medical condition... I think that'd be a different story for me.
  • ShyBreasts
    ShyBreasts Posts: 91
    Thank you for all of your posts guys (and girlies hehe)

    xxxxx
  • Solat37_Neil
    Solat37_Neil Posts: 379 Member
    I've gone through 5 pages and not found a single solitary boob picture. I'm disappointed. :brokenheart:
  • JennLifts
    JennLifts Posts: 1,913 Member
    Hate mine too hah! Especially for my age they're terrible. Cute video too :-) To answer- They look like my mom's who's 56. Really? Gross.
  • ShyBreasts
    ShyBreasts Posts: 91
    I've gone through 5 pages and not found a single solitary boob picture. I'm disappointed. :brokenheart:

    Lol sorry! Not that sort of forum! Check my youtube videos - after my op I will be showing pictures :-) ...(not in a porn way I would just like to add)
  • Begood03
    Begood03 Posts: 1,259 Member
    Breasts of all shapes and sizes are sexy! Some are better than others, but all are good!
  • GTI_Girl
    GTI_Girl Posts: 207
    meh. i think once i get rid of the lbs in my gut..i will like my boobs more. Right now the boob size to waist size ratio is not looking good. Unlike a lot of overweight girls, I got small boobs. small boobs, big gut, big thighs. Not a good combo. But I am liking my boobs more and more as the lbs fall off hahaha.
  • Begood03
    Begood03 Posts: 1,259 Member
    I really liked the video! You have a great personality!
  • Missouwechanged
    Missouwechanged Posts: 963 Member
    I should wear a C cup because of my left boob but I found a B cup bra that covers them both nicely. I sometimes think about having my left boob reduced a little since the right one looks really good. The difference is really not a big one but I feel it in my bra.

    Ohhh... Are we ever going to stop criticising ourselves :wink: :laugh: :laugh:
  • maggieschuck
    maggieschuck Posts: 174
    I am unhappy with my man boobs... does that count?

    Yes! They count.

    Im getting my girls done once I meet my weight loss goal. I've had 2 kids and breast fed both. I'm now stretched out and they are lower then they should be. I recently got a consult for a lift and augmentation (enlargement). Once the Dr took my measurement and explained what needs to be done , Im now super conscious of them. I didn't realize that the left one is 1.5 inches larger and 1 inch lower than the left. That's what I get for favoring the left side for breast feeding. I'm a 36 B (small B). I was up to a 36 D with my pregnancy. I feel they are deflated and old lady looking. I know Im not the only one but my boobs are the only ones that I have to look at every day.
  • ziggiezed
    ziggiezed Posts: 36
    I completely loathe my breast. I will first say i am greatful that i was blessed to have some. I do have a dream team rack perfectly rounded but they murder my back. finding good supportive bras are like trying to get out of being deployed to some foreign country.
    I want to be reduced back to a c cup. i am currently a 38DDD. I have never ending growing tissues. which is sommething i call them because they are big for no reason. Looking forward to the day my insurance company approve me for 500cc from both sides.

    Ladies becareful what you ask for when blowing these things up.
  • sunkisses
    sunkisses Posts: 2,365 Member
    I'm happy with my boobs. Everyone else is happy with my boobs too.
  • TheTeeWhy
    TheTeeWhy Posts: 186
    Im not very happy with my boobs =/ theyre so small I dont think any of the other boys will like me.


    uh...wait >_>
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