I'm sad....

TheHottestMama

please PM me
id like details
and ill share my story with you also it might give you some hope

im on my cell and i can only reply to messages
not send a message first.

ChubbyBunny

The drama is sent.

ChubbyBunny

Update...

He called, we weren't able to talk about everything...he hasn't gotten my emails yet, but is realizing that he needs to put forth much more effort.

I don't have it as bad as others and I am trying to be more supportive of others who are struggling. At least I haven't found out mine is cheating... Like one of my old college roomates

Marla64

Update...

He called, we weren't able to talk about everything...he hasn't gotten my emails yet, but is realizing that he needs to put forth much more effort.

I don't have it as bad as others and I am trying to be more supportive of others who are struggling. At least I haven't found out mine is cheating... Like one of my old college roomates

Was it enough to put your ring back on? You sweet thing-- tough times. I can't imagine what you go through with him over there-- bless your heart. Chin up. :flowerforyou:

ChubbyBunny

Update...

He called, we weren't able to talk about everything...he hasn't gotten my emails yet, but is realizing that he needs to put forth much more effort.

I don't have it as bad as others and I am trying to be more supportive of others who are struggling. At least I haven't found out mine is cheating... Like one of my old college roomates

Was it enough to put your ring back on? You sweet thing-- tough times. I can't imagine what you go through with him over there-- bless your heart. Chin up. :flowerforyou:

No... the ring is still off. Since I called off my engagement technically in July and he's wanting to re-propose when things are resolved. Oddly a weight is lifted... I still love him to death and want to be with him. But until HE'S ready for that commitment and to make it... I'll keep it off.

songbyrdsweet

I haven't been the wife/fiance/gf of someone who was deployed. But my stepmom was with my dad when he got sent off to who-knows-where during the Gulf War. Apparently they had to go 6 weeks without talking one time and my stepmom wasn't sure if he was alive or not. An officer also broke into their housing unit and tried to attack her during that time and she wasn't even able to tell him for weeks (fortunately the man left and she was unharmed). I can't imagine how difficult it must have been, how stressful and painful. But she and my dad remained faithful to one another for the year he was gone and despite the fact that they could barely communicate (this was back before the internet too lol). He wrote to her when he could and they still have all the letters. They have been together for 18 years now.

My whole point is that communication isn't just about speaking verbally or sending texts or e-mails all the time. Sometimes we need to communicate emotionally by just trusting each other and realizing that things are never going to be ideal, whether there are extenuating circumstances or not. It's the things we don't have to say that mean the most.