does this make me a jerk? Probably...

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  • TheBraveryLover
    TheBraveryLover Posts: 1,217 Member
    You guys crack me up! Yes, I love my SIL most of the time, BUT she is highly competitive. When we bought our house, a month later, they bid on something bigger. We got pregnant, a month later she was pregnant. We got a chocolate lab, two weeks later they had a black AND white one. People who know all of us actually laugh and make fun of us..We went to CA for my daughters birthday and everyone asked them if they were going for their daughter. They laughed and said no, but 3 months later...where did they celebrate? Hmmmm....

    The pic was to rub it in...I would gaurantee it. And when I went to her house, I asked to see the magnificent 6s and she admitted she didnt buy them...but just HAD to send the pic.

    LOL! Like I said, I do love her and consider her one of my closest friends, but Ive worked HARD to get into that 8 and she hasnt been counting calories or working out, so it wasnt like she was saying, look what Ive done with all my hard work...she just wanted to show she was still smaller than me! Guess I should take it as a compliment and RUN!
    Aah, so I finally read the full story. Disregard my previous post then. She deserves every criticism possible. LOL I can't deal with people who compete to that extent. It just shows a high level of insecurity and insecurity is something I cannot deal with regarding friendships. I understand she's family, but if it were me, personally, I'd spend a minimal amount of time with or around her.
  • hikeout470
    hikeout470 Posts: 628 Member
    Do we have the same sister in law,lol. I kid. No good advice for you, my response to my situation was to ignore her (after I determined scoring the sister I always wanted was not going to happen), and that backfired too. For she used the opportunity to blow up a small tiff between my brother and I into a full blown family breakup. I think she was jealous of a number of things namingly my great connection with my niece...
  • No you are not a jerk because I feel the same way and I don't consider myself a jerk :laugh: :wink:
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