MOMS! Would it offend you................

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  • Bpayton
    Bpayton Posts: 5
    I wouldn't be offended! I wish someone would call me that! Lol
  • skinz2k2
    skinz2k2 Posts: 99 Member
    I agree with one of the dad's. I respect all women and don't just see you all as sexual objects (you have minds and personality). I know all women want to feel and be attractive. I just think it's admirable to be beautiful to your spouse and that is all the aspiration that's needed.
  • ajbeans
    ajbeans Posts: 2,857 Member
    It wouldn't offend me. But it's not my goal. I want to look good, but I don't really need to be turning heads all over town. But that's just me. I've been called one before, back when I was in better shape, and I wasn't offended.
  • withchaco
    withchaco Posts: 1,026 Member
    I'm not a mom, but if I were/ when I become one, I wouldn't be offended. I do think the phrasing is tacky though, and would prefer to be called simply hot/ gorgeous/ etc. :smile:

    EDIT: The thing with terms like MILF is, I don't think people actually mean what it literally means; they throw it around when they simply mean "hot" for moms.

    If they actually MEAN they want to have sex with me, then that's a different story and I'd rather they keep it to themselves!!
  • robinbeaver
    robinbeaver Posts: 1
    I would love to be a MIL :)
  • sassylilmama
    sassylilmama Posts: 1,493 Member
    Would not bother me one bit!
  • sillygoose1977
    sillygoose1977 Posts: 2,151 Member
    I would act offended but secretly I would think "yesss, I still got it!"
  • Becky1971
    Becky1971 Posts: 979 Member
    It actually makes me feel more comfortable thinking about it like this. I mentioned having it said to me once, and it made me lose a bit of respect for the guy. But now thinking about it like this, and the fact that he's a college kid, I think at least in his case, you are right. It was just his way of saying I'm hot. But would rather hear that than MILF though, lol.
    I'm not a mom, but if I were/ when I become one, I wouldn't be offended. I do think the phrasing is tacky though, and would prefer to be called simply hot/ gorgeous/ etc. :smile:

    EDIT: The thing with terms like MILF is, I don't think people actually mean what it literally means; they throw it around when they simply mean "hot" for moms.

    If they actually MEAN they want to have sex with me, then that's a different story and I'd rather they keep it to themselves!!
  • _beachgirl_
    _beachgirl_ Posts: 3,865 Member
    I actually don't find MILF an offensive thing. What I do find offensive is women who refer to themselves as MILF's. Now maybe people will understand that the comment on my profile is sarcasm!
  • OnMyWay2STay
    OnMyWay2STay Posts: 144 Member
    I find the phrase offensive for two reasons. First, because it contains the f word. Secondly, because it implies promiscuity and extra-marital sex.
    Not all moms are married.

    Granted. But then you could say MILK (mom I'd like to kiss) or MILM (mom I'd like to marry).
  • beedo30
    beedo30 Posts: 186
    I would be offended if I was called a DILF...:smokin:
  • JenBrown0210
    JenBrown0210 Posts: 985 Member
    I guess depends on the context. The way most women take it is as a compliment. But there are some "vdeos" that have been done that a MILF videos. No thank you for those, but I definately will take the compliment!
  • asunshinec
    asunshinec Posts: 74
    As a dad, I'd be offended being called a DILF. It's offensive, rude, and vulgar.

    liar.

    LOL :laugh:
  • LizC26
    LizC26 Posts: 319 Member
    Ummmm NEVER :)
  • brewingaz
    brewingaz Posts: 1,136 Member
    As a dad, I'd be offended being called a DILF. It's offensive, rude, and vulgar.

    liar.

    :laugh:
  • Keegansmum6
    Keegansmum6 Posts: 193 Member
    That's my goal lol
  • zoombie_bear
    zoombie_bear Posts: 963 Member
    would love to be a MILF:drinker:
  • Shannonigans84
    Shannonigans84 Posts: 693 Member
    I'm 26 so being called a MILF is funny to me, but welcomed! My mom was called a MILF until she became a GILF :laugh:
  • bellinachuchina
    bellinachuchina Posts: 498 Member
    Fine by me :happy:
  • beedo30
    beedo30 Posts: 186
    As a dad, I'd be offended being called a DILF. It's offensive, rude, and vulgar.

    liar.

    :laugh:
    I know!
  • dbanks80
    dbanks80 Posts: 3,685 Member
    What does MILF stand for? I've always wanted to know!
  • beedo30
    beedo30 Posts: 186
    What does MILF stand for? I've always wanted to know!
    mom I like to Fu....
  • halobender
    halobender Posts: 780 Member
    MILM (mom I'd like to marry).
    The first thing I think when I see an attractive woman is "Boy, I sure would like to marry her."

    Kiss could be acceptable, I guess, but, um, yeah, calling a woman a "MILK" is probably going to get you punched in the face. Or it should.

    Also, I should point out, It's not "Mom I Like to F—," it's "I'd" ... I there's a pretty big difference saying you'd like to and saying that you do ;)
  • beedo30
    beedo30 Posts: 186
    MILM (mom I'd like to marry).
    The first thing I think when I see an attractive woman is "Boy, I sure would like to marry her."

    Kiss could be acceptable, I guess, but, um, yeah, calling a woman a "MILK" is probably going to get you punched in the face. Or it should.

    Also, I should point out, It's not "Mom I Like to F—," it's "I'd" ... I there's a pretty big difference saying you'd like to and saying that you do ;)
    well you should have come in sooner and spelled it out then, geez. (Where's the middle finger Smiley I love so much)
  • cindy220
    cindy220 Posts: 9 Member
    I'd say thanks to ANYONE who refered to me as a MILF:love: lol, "to each their own"
  • godblessourhome
    godblessourhome Posts: 3,892 Member
    Wow, I guess I'm really in the minority but I would be offended. Maybe it's because I'm a very conservative Christian but no matter how attractive I was, I wouldn't want someone to say or think that about me. I just think it's disrespectful.

    i'm with you on the disrespectful part. i wouldn't be offended, but i don't find it particularly flattering. i hope my boys' friends never make comments about wanting to have sex with me, especially around my sons. yuck.
  • dkb228
    dkb228 Posts: 73 Member
    I guess it would depend on who was saying it? But as a young, single mom, I'm pretty sure I'd take it as a compliment. I'm gonna have to get back in the dating game someday, so being a MILF may come in handy. :wink:
  • gnoccola
    gnoccola Posts: 186 Member
    Wow, I guess I'm really in the minority but I would be offended. Maybe it's because I'm a very conservative Christian but no matter how attractive I was, I wouldn't want someone to say or think that about me. I just think it's disrespectful.

    i'm with you on the disrespectful part. i wouldn't be offended, but i don't find it particularly flattering. i hope my boys' friends never make comments about wanting to have sex with me, especially around my sons. yuck.

    You are right about the comment out loud. I'd like for people to look at me that way, but saying it out loud would be kind of inappropriate. Especially with the kids around. But, I'm working on it. Can't wait to be back in my body.
  • sleepytexan
    sleepytexan Posts: 3,138 Member
    I guess I'm the prude in this bunch that needs to have the stick removed. :ohwell:

    Nah - On the one hand, it's nice to know the opposite sex finds you attractive, but even when I was single without kids, I would not have picked the guy who came up and said -- "Hey, I'd like to **** you". Even though you know that's what they're thinking, they could at least have some manners about it.
  • Melinda77w
    Melinda77w Posts: 96
    I think its nice, in a perverted way. :happy: Did I mention my mind might live in the gutter? :tongue:

    Hahahaha @ the above comment :laugh: ......I'm on the fence with it...I think it depends on who it comes from....Being 33, i would cringe if i heard it come out of the mouth of an 18 yr old, or a 50 yr old, lol...... I mean no offence to people those age, but it would feel creepy to me, lol :smile:

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