and this is what I get for giving my dumb butt boyfriend ano

Amandamccl
Amandamccl Posts: 380
edited September 30 in Fitness and Exercise
I was talking to my
boyfriend on text message. He
asked what I was doing and I told
him that I just ate an entire plate of
spaghetti. He then called me a "fat
pig" twice and wasn't joking. He
never apologized...and saying I need a fork left to pick you up and saying I'm fat ugly and all that stuff then he said he was just joking..... so now I'm single once again now on the look out for a good men
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  • Sarahnats
    Sarahnats Posts: 69 Member
    LOL..you go girl :)
  • pricetm83
    pricetm83 Posts: 49
    UGH! HE'S the pig! Good for you for dumping him! And YES there are MUCH better men. :)
  • Scoochie1
    Scoochie1 Posts: 121 Member
    What an a-hole!
    You did the right thing.
    Some people eh? I don't even know you and I know you can do better than that!
  • demery12371
    demery12371 Posts: 253 Member
    Way to stick up for yourself.... His loss!!!
  • loriannmartin
    loriannmartin Posts: 209 Member
    oh my what an as* .. good riddens to him... you need to find a man who loves you for you... fat,thin,healthy,or in sicknesses ...
  • nananie2
    nananie2 Posts: 272 Member
    Wow... good job getting rid of him, and please do me a favor, don't ever take him back!!
  • marquesajen
    marquesajen Posts: 641
    Good for you! What a jerk he is.
  • calimari
    calimari Posts: 202 Member
    that would be your "dumb butt EX boyfriend"...
  • janiecorona
    janiecorona Posts: 248
    That's right, you deserve better than that! Don't ever let a boy make you feel ugly. You're only going to be trading up! (:
  • mistyb47711
    mistyb47711 Posts: 861 Member
    good for you....dont let someone treat you like that....
  • LillysGranny
    LillysGranny Posts: 431
    Good for you!
  • bcattoes
    bcattoes Posts: 17,299 Member
    Jokes are funny. Whether he says he was joking or not, that wasn't funny. I don't know you, but I know you deserve better than that!!
  • fj78
    fj78 Posts: 17
    Sounds like you're WAY better off without him, well done for not putting up with that!
  • Kohadre
    Kohadre Posts: 316
    I was talking to my
    boyfriend on text message. He
    asked what I was doing and I told
    him that I just ate an entire plate of
    spaghetti. He then called me a "fat
    pig" twice and wasn't joking. He
    never apologized...and saying I need a fork left to pick you up and saying I'm fat ugly and all that stuff then he said he was just joking..... so now I'm single once again now on the look out for a good men

    Good on ya, nobody needs that crap in their life, especially from people who are supposed to care about you.
  • dcgonz
    dcgonz Posts: 174 Member
    Good for you! You don't deserve that kind of person in your life. People think they can say what they really mean and say "I was just joking" and get away with it. Don't EVER look back.

    Diana
  • changeisgood55
    changeisgood55 Posts: 274
    I kicked my boyfriend to the curb for the same thing in June. He would make comments on how I always finished everything on my plate and it was so clean I didn't need to wash it. In the meantime, there was hardly anything on my plate and he had eaten 3 hamburgers, a hotdog and baked beans. He also made comments about other women being smoking hot and it hurt. We talked about it but it didn't stop so goodbye! You and I will do better and find men who love us for us. We are worth so much more! You did the right thing!
  • SarahofTwins
    SarahofTwins Posts: 1,169 Member
    What an A-hole! He wasn't sorry, he wouldn't have said it. Ugh reminds me of my ex who use to call me fat...thats why he became an ex. Loser.

    Glad you are making a change :flowerforyou:
  • jwaitman
    jwaitman Posts: 367 Member
    Yep, kick his butt to the curb.
  • anthony438
    anthony438 Posts: 578 Member
    Ok, I know I give this advice quite a lot, but I'd suggest that you whup his *kitten*!!!
  • 1smemae94
    1smemae94 Posts: 365 Member
    What a donkeys bottom, so sorry hes a jerk. You can do so much better hun, dont take him back either.
  • SueInAz
    SueInAz Posts: 6,592 Member
    No one should be allowed to get away with that kind of behavior. Good for you for calling him on it. You're much better off without someone who thinks it's a "joke" to bash at your self-esteem by calling you names. Good riddance to rubbish!
  • cabul3
    cabul3 Posts: 210 Member
    i'd rather be single than have an a*wipe of a bf like him.
    good for you for sticking up for yourself and giving him the boot!
  • Rikki444
    Rikki444 Posts: 326 Member
    Good on you for not putting up with his nonsense! Keep on!
  • MrBrown72
    MrBrown72 Posts: 407 Member
    Yes mam ditching the dodo is the best thing you could have done. It's hard to find a good guy when you're saddled with a bad one.
  • vdavis_89
    vdavis_89 Posts: 334
    GOOD JOB!!! WHAT A TURD! I live with my man but if he pulled that Id be sleepin on my moms couch for a while lol
  • Amandamccl
    Amandamccl Posts: 380
    Ok, I know I give this advice quite a lot, but I'd suggest that you whup his *kitten*!!!

    haha already did.. :-)
  • fzia
    fzia Posts: 68 Member
    You go girl! you don't need negative people in your life. we here if you need support:) take care:flowerforyou:
  • 69mustang
    69mustang Posts: 185
    Good for you for sticking up for yourself and getting rid of him! You deserve better than him !
  • Bridget28152723
    Bridget28152723 Posts: 372 Member
    Good thing you left him, but I dont think you need to find another man immediatly, You should focus on yourself and getting healthy, so many woman keep picking the same kind of man as the one they left., Good Luck, keep your head up
  • gwenmf
    gwenmf Posts: 888 Member
    Anyone who could treat you like that does not love you or care much for you. You did the right thing. Hold out for someone who is going to be good to you. No one deserves to be treated that way. You did the right thing. Keep your head up girl, you're doing wonderful things for yourself - don't sell yourself short.
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