I'm in need of a rant, and some venting. Girls calling other

mtkautz

Why do girls feel the need to call each other 'fat' when they don't like each other? I'm sorry, I never stoop to that level... I know how it affects me and my psyche- I would never wish that on anyone. Today was the the first time I actually laughed at that statement, when called 'fat' by my baby daddy's ex-(2nd) baby momma. (:laugh: THAT'S A MOUTHFUL) I mean really, Just because I'm better than you on literally every level doesn't mean you have to call me fat!!! Sorry hunny, I'm not fat, I work my *kitten* off to be healthy, I have custody of my child (when you fail to have custody of both of yours) , I don't do drugs, I drink a little bit- but I don't get wasted every night and live like I have no responsibilities, oh... and I'm in my 4th year of college to have a ****ing career to support my child... when you barely graduated highschool. I'm so fat and worthless and ugly? **** you, I'm not fat, You're the definition of evil. That's all. I do mean EVIL, anyone that knows a girl has a history of struggling with eating disorders- and proceeding to call them FAT. Pure, relentless, EVIL.

There. I feel better.

WHY DO GIRLS DO THAT????!????!?!?!?! What is so satisfying about knowing you can cut someone to the core with your words? I'm sorry, I usually try to find the good in everyone... but this chick- she has nothing 'good' that I can see. Hating me from the get go because her boyfriend happened to have a kid before he got with her. RIDICULOUS.

Sorry for the rant! But I needed somewhere to spill it.

HaleyAlli

Some people are just full of hate. Don't let them get you down!! You're worth it!!

NikkisNewStart

So much drama! I couldn't even finish reading the whole thing. Girls call each other 'fat' because they are biznatches with a limited vocabulary. It obviously stirred something in you so she got the reaction she was after by using that word.

mrau719

Some people just can't feel good about themselves unless they bring others down....it's ridic.

annacataldo

well i think your gorgeous, so who cares what this jealous dumb ***** has to say.

Jhillian

Anything to make them feel superior because in the back of their minds they know you are better.. Good to hear you took a negative situation and came out on the upper hand.. Karma is a B***H

hm_day

They stoop to that level because they have nothing more creative to say
You get to a point where you just have to laugh at it. You're obviously not fat, and basically she just wants to boost her own self-esteem and can't think of anything more interesting or creative than "Hey, fat *****!" because that's all other girls say to each other when they're upset .. Why, I don't know. Just think of it that way. She's clearly not intelligent enough to come up with an insult meant for an adult rather than a middle schooler, so just keep that in mind and keep doing what you're doing

liftingbro

Girls are mean and have no respect for each other. For guys there's a certain level of "hespect" the they generally have. You call a big fat guy fat, he might just decide to kick your *kitten*. So, on some level there's more respect between men than between women.

Not only that but everyone knows if you really want to hurt a woman, make her feel unattractive. So, it's an easy out.

writtenINthestars

Some people just can't feel good about themselves unless they bring others down....it's ridic.

This....it's part of a defence mechanism that helps hide their own faults. No worries!

emmaNEEDSskinny

nicely said!

Chantelle160

People throw out insults when they have nothing intelligent to say or they are jealous. lol. You are definitally not fat you look amazing!

BroncoMan

it basically means that she is jealous of you. So, you should smile knowing that you get under her skin just because you are you.

swaymyway

Is this post meant to be ironic?


Why are girls mean and call each other fat?
....now any way.... there's this girl, she's a total skank ho *****, junkie, uneducated cow....
But I'd never call any one FAT, how mean!!

Hilarious lol

foodfight247

You sound like a great mum......she's obviously jealous of you.... Dont let her words get to you...

Some people are hurtful sometimes....nasties!

mtkautz

Haha, thanks everyone, that one insult just gets to me, when ANYONE uses it....... useless!

jessilee119

She's obviously jealous...you're pretty and now that you're losing the baby weight she's prob even more jealous. You have great goals set for yourself...don't let her bring you down.

La_Amazona

Is this post meant to be ironic?


Why are girls mean and call each other fat?
....now any way.... there's this girl, she's a total skank ho *****, junkie, uneducated cow....
But I'd never call any one FAT, how mean!!

Hilarious lol

:glasses:

marie_2454

People (it's not only girls) do and say things like that because for some insane reason it makes them feel better about themselves, at least for a little while. I've personally never understood it either and having been called fat before and remembering how I felt, I can't imagine ever stooping that low and calling someone else that. Good for you for knowing your not fat! The self doubt that came with being called fat for me hurt way more than the actual comment

icandothistrish85

Normally honey, when people are mean and hateful and spew venomous words, it's usually how they see themselves. It's how they feel when they look in the mirror, and they don't like how it makes them feel, so they use those harsh descriptive words like weapons on whomever is frustrating them ATM. And even for a brief powerful moment, she feels a bit better about herself by being mean to you, but in reality, she's being negative to herself. Let it roll off your shoulder. She didn't give birth to you, she's not your spouse, she's not your bestfriend--my point being, she doesn't know you on a personal intimate level to say anything about you as a person; physically nor mentally. Be the bigger woman and let it go. Every minute you spend dwelling on someone/something so negative, is 60 seconds of blissed out happiness you're missing out on.

Ajontheguitar

Let the haters hate!

NA_Willie

Because time and time again it always proves to be true: Women hate other women.

Not dislike, hate.

leomom72

i think the fat thing stems from that being the thing we are afraid of the most to hear..partly also because she is jealous who knows..thats the way girls are

Nailrep

Did you read about the latest feud going on between Kelly Osborne and Christina Agularia ( probably spelled both of their names wrong, but it shows how little I really care)?? They are now calling each other fat so the world can see how dumb they both are. Sure, Christina supposedly started it. But Kelly ended up calling Christina more names besides fat.....so childish. I mean, how old are these women???

I've always said that I could hate somebody's guts, but I'd never call them fat. So degrading to women.

ohwhataday

Is this post meant to be ironic?


Why are girls mean and call each other fat?
....now any way.... there's this girl, she's a total skank ho *****, junkie, uneducated cow....
But I'd never call any one FAT, how mean!!

Hilarious lol

my thoughts exactly. how are you any different really? you felt the need to describe how amazing you are and how much of a piece of trash she is. I wouldn't think you'd have to actually "stoop" to her level to feel better about yourself.

B_L_A_Z_I_A_N

Is this post meant to be ironic?


Why are girls mean and call each other fat?
....now any way.... there's this girl, she's a total skank ho *****, junkie, uneducated cow....
But I'd never call any one FAT, how mean!!

Hilarious lol

this
lol

jessilee119

Some people just can't feel good about themselves unless they bring others down....it's ridic.

This....it's part of a defence mechanism that helps hide their own faults. No worries!

Yes...btw I'm listening to Alter Bridge right now lol

mtkautz

Is this post meant to be ironic?


Why are girls mean and call each other fat?
....now any way.... there's this girl, she's a total skank ho *****, junkie, uneducated cow....
But I'd never call any one FAT, how mean!!

Hilarious lol

this
lol

yea yea. ok ok....... :laugh:

cillytilly

For some reason girls can just be plain evil to eachother. I don't know why it is and it is something I don't think I will ever understand. You definately don't look fat and you are doing an amazing thing working on your health and getting your degree on top of being a mom to your child. I agree fat is worse than being called some other names because it cuts to the quick. Jsut know you are doing amazing things and are showing your child that you can make healthy choices.

B_L_A_Z_I_A_N

Is this post meant to be ironic?


Why are girls mean and call each other fat?
....now any way.... there's this girl, she's a total skank ho *****, junkie, uneducated cow....
But I'd never call any one FAT, how mean!!

Hilarious lol

this
lol

yea yea. ok ok....... :laugh:

You do look pretty btw!
It's just not pretty to lower yourself to their level (or talking about someone behind their backs)

MissO﹠A

Because time and time again it always proves to be true: Women hate other women.

Not dislike, hate.

So true. So very true. B*tches, the lot of 'em.

(With special exception made for the lovely, down-to-earth women here on my friend's list... who are funny and witty and have an excellent attitude and whom I'd share a beer or three with on any night. Y'all are like dudes, and I mean that in the most loving way. XD)

liftingbro

To be honest, I have a three year old daughter and I'm more affraid of the possible mean girls (or her being on) than I'm about the boys these days. Seriously, I think the "mean girl" mentality has gotten worse since I was a kid. I remember some girls not like each other and having it out over a boy or whatever but the stuff is on a new level these days.