What is attractive?

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hannahlbur
hannahlbur Posts: 221 Member
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Bit of a random question but what does everyone find attractive/sexy? Men and women.

But I am curious as to what most men find attractive...? With the influence of mags, movies, porn, music vids, it is quite confusing to know what men really like?
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  • FatDadSlim
    FatDadSlim Posts: 497 Member
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    Confidence and "come to bed eyes"
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,370 Member
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    A pleasant smile and friendly personality.
    Intelligence and strength,not being willing to be put down or held back.
    Funny and loves to laugh.
    A feminine figure with hips and curves. :smile:
  • shellyxxxxx
    shellyxxxxx Posts: 143
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    a sexy smile, and someone who makes me feel good x
  • shellyxxxxx
    shellyxxxxx Posts: 143
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    x x :wink:
  • shellyxxxxx
    shellyxxxxx Posts: 143
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    A pleasant smile and friendly personality.
    Intelligence and strength,not being willing to be put down or held back.
    Funny and loves to laugh.
    A feminine figure with hips and curves. :smile:



    like !
  • SoldierDad
    SoldierDad Posts: 1,602
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    Bit of a random question but what does everyone find attractive/sexy? Men and women.

    But I am curious as to what most men find attractive...? With the influence of mags, movies, porn, music vids, it is quite confusing to know what men really like?

    So many diff things. I truly and honestly think there is somethign gorgeous & attractive about everyone. Be it the way the smile, tghere eyes, there laugh, etc. Beauty is in all of us.
  • chloemeow
    chloemeow Posts: 71
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    A great sence of humour always gets me :) someone with good personal hygene is a must!!! (i mean the main things, like showering daily, brushing teeth daily, deodrants)
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
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    I don't think it's that simple. Everyone is attracted to what or who they're attracted to. My boyfriend thinks the women in the magazines are too skinny. And after all the years we've been together, I'm pretty confident he's not just saying that. He's also not the only man I've heard say that.

    On the other hand, there are men who really like super skinny.

    Some men like large breasts, some small. Some like a nice leg, some a big rear end, some a small rear end.

    There is no "most" in this question.

    I also find that people fall in love with someone and then the things about the person they love become what is attractive in their eyes, even if they wouldn't have found those things attractive before, if that makes sense.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
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    A great sence of humour always gets me :) someone with good personal hygene is a must!!! (i mean the main things, like showering daily, brushing teeth daily, deodrants)

    I'm SO with you on the personal hygiene!!!

    Years ago, when I gave the online dating thing a try (total bust), I was e-mailing and talking to this guy who was funny and nice and smart and I really, really, really liked him.

    Then we met.

    He didn't look like his picture AT ALL, but I could have gotten past that if he didn't smell. And not like the normal BO smell. It was something even worse and I to this day can't tell you what it was exactly, but it was disgusting. I cut that date as short as possible and never saw him again.
  • JennLifts
    JennLifts Posts: 1,913 Member
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    not being willing to be put down or held back.

    I've never heard that in this context! I like it!


    For me, a heart that you can see from a mile away, a great smile, and compassion.
  • laureneva15
    laureneva15 Posts: 280
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    my ex said what first attracted him to me was my smile, then later he'd say i had DSLs so... ha!

    as to what attracts me to guys - eyes, smile, hair, personality (a must!)
  • poedunk65
    poedunk65 Posts: 1,336 Member
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    Friendly sincere eyes and a great smile. Oh yeah and a nice rack helps too!!!>......LMAO..............Just kidin ladies!
  • JennLifts
    JennLifts Posts: 1,913 Member
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    I don't think it's that simple. Everyone is attracted to what or who they're attracted to. My boyfriend thinks the women in the magazines are too skinny. And after all the years we've been together, I'm pretty confident he's not just saying that. He's also not the only man I've heard say that.

    On the other hand, there are men who really like super skinny.

    Some men like large breasts, some small. Some like a nice leg, some a big rear end, some a small rear end.

    There is no "most" in this question.

    I also find that people fall in love with someone and then the things about the person they love become what is attractive in their eyes, even if they wouldn't have found those things attractive before, if that makes sense.

    I agree. its no "one size fits all"
  • DarthCeltic
    DarthCeltic Posts: 1,274 Member
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    simply saying "I will do anything you want.. and btw.. afterward i will make you a pizza..."


    That does it for me.. but then again.. i am fat... so dont believe me... anything with food and sex is a good day for me..
  • runninglol
    runninglol Posts: 44 Member
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    Really smart guys attract me.
  • ItsCasey
    ItsCasey Posts: 4,022 Member
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    Men who are not afraid of nor ashamed of their masculinity. There are too many girly men in the world today, so when a guy is just unapologetically male, that's very attractive to me.
  • Drunkadelic
    Drunkadelic Posts: 948 Member
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    ... anything with food and sex is a good day for me..

    lmao. I have to agree :)
  • Elle408
    Elle408 Posts: 500 Member
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    This attraction thing is very odd! lol

    I used to fancy 'pretty boys'... the whole 6ft tall, broad shouldered, dark haired package... but after having dated a few I have realised there's definitely a lot more to it than looks and i've changed my outlook! lol

    Intelligence and confidence are huge for me... The guy i'm currently crazy about is the smartest person i've ever met. And he's very confident in his work persona, but not so much in his private time, which I find endearing!

    I still have to be physically attracted to someone, but it's not the a-typical Ken doll any more. I like eyebrows... strong eyebrows! lol And a cute smile... oh and good teeth. Have to have good teeth!

    As for the other way round.... this is going to sound awful or whatever... but the thinner i've got, and the more socially acceptable my looks have become I rarely get approached, and generally find it's just the older, crazier 'nothing to lose' type chaps that do approach me... part of the reason I no longer go to pubs! So, conclusion: When I was fatter and unhappy, I wouldn't date because of my own confidence, now i'm thinner and happier, no one will approach me... sad but true story! lol
  • laureneva15
    laureneva15 Posts: 280
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    Men who are not afraid of nor ashamed of their masculinity. There are too many girly men in the world today, so when a guy is just unapologetically male, that's very attractive to me.

    This. If he uses more hair product than my interest kind of dies down a bit ... which is very limiting cos i don't use hair products lol!
  • bry_all01
    bry_all01 Posts: 3,100 Member
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    butt, eyes, hygiene and confidence, but not arrogance. :bigsmile:

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