What is attractive?

hannahlbur

So the physical is wide ranging.

Personality wise the most common seems to be confident. Hmm. Any idea where I can get some of that? :sad:

Confidence will slowly creep in the closer you get to your goals and the happier you start to feel about yourself

Tthanks I hope so!!

hannahlbur

[/quote]Attractive is what makes YOU feel good. Who cares what anyone else thinks? I know many "attractive" women who have the personality of a lost deer. If you try to abide by the criteria that society holds as attractive, every average person here would be considered ugly. And it's us "ugly" people that put these people on pedestals and infect our youth for trying to achieve that look. The old term "beauty is only skin deep" applies more than ever now because there are so many "pretty" people out there with bad attitudes.
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Thanks I like that - lost deer hehe!

jodazary

for me i find lots of things attractive super short hair or shaved head, great legs, furry chest, beautiful smile, tasteful tats, employment lol, great sense of humor

BigBadVooDooBob

Someone who is confident in herself (but not arrogant), has a good sense of humor, intelligence, likes to read, but not necessarily the same books I like. Someone who is comfortable in her own skin.

crisanderson27

What is attractive to me?

Men who are not afraid of nor ashamed of their masculinity. There are too many girly men in the world today, so when a guy is just unapologetically male, that's very attractive to me.

This.

BigBadVooDooBob

So the physical is wide ranging.

Personality wise the most common seems to be confident. Hmm. Any idea where I can get some of that? :sad:

A long time ago (I'm 52 now, was in my 20's at the time) I decided that I had to learn how to do things by myself, not because I expected to be alone but I felt that it would help me be comfortable in my own skin. So I would go to local attractions, movies, clubs etc. by myself and just have fun. My head was held high and at the end of the day when I went home, I knew that I had conquered something, broken through some obstacle. It's easy to see the many things you can't do, but it is more important to see the many things you can do! Your writing shows you to be intelligent, your picture shows you to be attractive, so theres two things in your favor already, now look at yourself and see what else you have accomplished. Or even look at things you've tried and possibly not succeeded at! The important part is that you tried. That in itself is an accomplishment. That, for me, is where confidence comes from.

meggers123

Being nice is number one for me.

Otherwise? Think Blondie from The Dollar movies + Bear Grylls from Man vs. Wild... which I guess = kinda dirty, unshaven, and takes less than 5 minutes to get ready (and 2 minutes of that is brushing his teeth).

He should also like to be outside, be environmentally conscious, and make me laugh.

Not specific at all :bigsmile:

StevenJS86

Someone who loves God first of all, someone who respects me, helps me, supports my dreams and decsions, guides me, is sweet as honey, deffends me when I'm not there (lol), lifts me up, can sing, isnt affraid of crowds, lets me SPEAK! lol, corrects me lovingly, BRINGS THE KING OUT OF ME not the fool, is patient, PROGRESSING IN ALL ASPECTS OF LIFE, confidence, loves (1 Corinthians 13), educated, works out with me or by herself if im not there, loves to talk, is confident, edifies my heart spirit and minf, and so much more!!!

Of course is beautiful, in shape, and just loves to have fun and is positive even in moments where all the rest cant (including me) she is the one that lifts me up !

Someone that I can fight for no matter what just like in the movie I was forced to see "The Notebook" by my sister lol it was actually very good...

StevenJS86

Someone who loves God first of all, someone who respects me, helps me, supports my dreams and decsions, guides me, is sweet as honey, deffends me when I'm not there (lol), lifts me up, can sing, isnt affraid of crowds, lets me SPEAK! lol, corrects me lovingly, BRINGS THE KING OUT OF ME not the fool, is patient, PROGRESSING IN ALL ASPECTS OF LIFE, confidence, loves (1 Corinthians 13), educated, works out with me or by herself if im not there, loves to talk, is confident, edifies my heart spirit and minf, and so much more!!!

Of course is beautiful, in shape, and just loves to have fun and is positive even in moments where all the rest cant (including me) she is the one that lifts me up !

Someone that I can fight for no matter what just like in the movie I was forced to see "The Notebook" by my sister lol it was actually very good...

oh is funny and can take a JOKE lol....as well as is good with kids, and wants a family!!!!!!!!!

Qarol

I like dark hair, full lips, broad shoulders, and big hands

Scoobies87

A good sense of humour, muscles and a cheeky grin

Oh and I LOVE LOVE LOVE men with long (ish) hair.

Finding one of these men whose head will fit through the door is damn impossible though

MelMoly

Intelligence, nice hands (clean) and lips (bonus if they have a nice butt)... and doing the dishes, that gets me if you do the dishes (without being asked) I will jump your bones right now! :smooched:

also random hand holding

crisanderson27

What is attractive to me?

Men who are not afraid of nor ashamed of their masculinity. There are too many girly men in the world today, so when a guy is just unapologetically male, that's very attractive to me.

This.

Let me check...

Yep, still this. A woman that wants a man to be a man...good and bad...not an effeminate lapdog...is incredibly hot.

What's even hotter, is when she realizes he doesn't sleep right unless he gets to brush her hair out of her eyes, in her sleep...just so he can see her face one more time before he closes his eyes.

ItsCasey

What is attractive to me?

Men who are not afraid of nor ashamed of their masculinity. There are too many girly men in the world today, so when a guy is just unapologetically male, that's very attractive to me.

This.

Let me check...

Yep, still this. A woman that wants a man to be a man...good and bad...not an effeminate lapdog...is incredibly hot.

What's even hotter, is when she realizes he doesn't sleep right unless he gets to brush her hair out of her eyes, in her sleep...just so he can see her face one more time before he closes his eyes.

You are too much.

crisanderson27

What is attractive to me?

Men who are not afraid of nor ashamed of their masculinity. There are too many girly men in the world today, so when a guy is just unapologetically male, that's very attractive to me.

This.

Let me check...

Yep, still this. A woman that wants a man to be a man...good and bad...not an effeminate lapdog...is incredibly hot.

What's even hotter, is when she realizes he doesn't sleep right unless he gets to brush her hair out of her eyes, in her sleep...just so he can see her face one more time before he closes his eyes.

You are too much.

Maybe...

kennethmgreen

Smoking hot elbows.

BobertC

I'm going to say personality is the key, and ya there has to be some physical attraction, but I really think that is secondary to personality. but my friends all say I'm full of **** because my wife is a hottie but I didn't marry her for her looks