GIRLS, do we really have a chance??

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  • Trixtabella
    Trixtabella Posts: 471 Member
    I have a boyfriend, so I don't really notice. Nice people, sure.
  • angelicdisgrace
    angelicdisgrace Posts: 2,071 Member
    yeah right like we have a chance, well maybe the beautiful girls do not peeps like me! :grumble:
  • yeah right like we have a chance, well maybe the beautiful girls do not peeps like me! :grumble:


    yeah you do :)
  • sunkisses
    sunkisses Posts: 2,365 Member
    HAHAHAHA!!! "And most of them are either taken or gay" is one of the complaints I hear often.

    Nope and NOPE!
    I'm perfectly happy with just using you.
  • Tiggerrick
    Tiggerrick Posts: 1,078 Member
    HAHAHAHA!!! "And most of them are either taken or gay" is one of the complaints I hear often.

    Nope and NOPE!
    I'm perfectly happy with just using you.
    I don't recall you 'taking' me, but I'd be more than willing to entertain the idea.
  • sunkisses
    sunkisses Posts: 2,365 Member
    HAHAHAHA!!! "And most of them are either taken or gay" is one of the complaints I hear often.

    Nope and NOPE!
    I'm perfectly happy with just using you.
    I don't recall you 'taking' me, but I'd be more than willing to entertain the idea.
    I said nothing about "taking" you...
  • I'm too obsessed with Korean actors from K-dramas to notice any other men right now. :)
  • Heatherbelle_87
    Heatherbelle_87 Posts: 1,078 Member
    The men are far out-numbered by us fine ladies. THEY dont stand a chance. :devil:

    This is actually very true. Women outnumber men 10:1 in this world. Google it.

    No wonder finding a half decent one is right up there next to impossible! That does give me hope I can be that picky mother in law to be when my son is an adult though!
  • CakeFit21
    CakeFit21 Posts: 2,521 Member
    I have a boyfriend, so I don't really notice.

    That is the biggest load of crap. Unless you are mentally ill, thinking Fatal Attraction, Obsessed etc., anyone who says they "dont notice people any more because my bf/gf is just the best ever and I never ever want to blah blah blah with anyone else again" is lying. Most likely to themselves...

    I completely agree with this. I am married and notice everyone, boy and girl.

    Now, why don't you come over here and let me help you with that camera?
  • ItsTerriC
    ItsTerriC Posts: 436 Member
    never really noticed...

    That's not why I am here. If it turns in to that kind of site, then I think a lot of us would have to find a new community to belong to.

    *Turns* into???


    That is what I was thinking. :laugh:

    It is what you make of it. But I would find a new community if this place was so serious ALL of the time. :noway:

    Amen!

    I am always that serious about my vows. I'm pretty sure I remember something about "forsaking all others". Luckily the gentlemen that I am friends with on here also respect those vows. We are able to be friendly, humorous and supportive without being sexual. I avoid posts that are flagrantly flirtatious. I assumed by the topic this one would be something most women could relate to. Normally, I would have just closed the window and left you all to your "fun". I only responded to show support to the few who posted and share my feelings. Luckily, there are many of us who use this site for the support and friendship only.
  • ItsTerriC
    ItsTerriC Posts: 436 Member
    I have a boyfriend, so I don't really notice.

    That is the biggest load of crap. Unless you are mentally ill, thinking Fatal Attraction, Obsessed etc., anyone who says they "dont notice people any more because my bf/gf is just the best ever and I never ever want to blah blah blah with anyone else again" is lying. Most likely to themselves...

    I completely agree with this. I am married and notice everyone, boy and girl.

    Now, why don't you come over here and let me help you with that camera?

    Just because you do, doesn't mean everyone does. Maybe it makes your actions seem more justified if you make yourself believe that "everyone does it". Believe it or not, everyone doesn't. Some of us truly do stop looking once we have the right one.
  • never really noticed...

    That's not why I am here. If it turns in to that kind of site, then I think a lot of us would have to find a new community to belong to.

    *Turns* into???


    That is what I was thinking. :laugh:

    It is what you make of it. But I would find a new community if this place was so serious ALL of the time. :noway:

    Amen!

    I am always that serious about my vows. I'm pretty sure I remember something about "forsaking all others". Luckily the gentlemen that I am friends with on here also respect those vows. We are able to be friendly, humorous and supportive without being sexual. I avoid posts that are flagrantly flirtatious. I assumed by the topic this one would be something most women could relate to. Normally, I would have just closed the window and left you all to your "fun". I only responded to show support to the few who posted and share my feelings. Luckily, there are many of us who use this site for the support and friendship only.
    [/quote"]assume by this one" meaning me????????? it is the pure seeing with your eyes that this post was made.....im not dead ya know!! There is nothing wron with admiring a nice body..we have all worked very hard to get our bodies in shape and should be proud of them!! i have great friend male and female here and support all of them the same!!!!!
  • Thomasm198
    Thomasm198 Posts: 3,189 Member
    I am always that serious about my vows. I'm pretty sure I remember something about "forsaking all others". Luckily the gentlemen that I am friends with on here also respect those vows. We are able to be friendly, humorous and supportive without being sexual. I avoid posts that are flagrantly flirtatious. I assumed by the topic this one would be something most women could relate to. Normally, I would have just closed the window and left you all to your "fun". I only responded to show support to the few who posted and share my feelings. Luckily, there are many of us who use this site for the support and friendship only.
    "assume by this one" meaning me????????? it is the pure seeing with your eyes that this post was made.....im not dead ya know!! There is nothing wron with admiring a nice body..we have all worked very hard to get our bodies in shape and should be proud of them!! i have great friend male and female here and support all of them the same!!!!!
    ^^^agree.

    It's called "window shopping". Just because you look doesn't mean you have to buy.
  • ItsTerriC
    ItsTerriC Posts: 436 Member
    never really noticed...

    That's not why I am here. If it turns in to that kind of site, then I think a lot of us would have to find a new community to belong to.

    *Turns* into???


    That is what I was thinking. :laugh:

    It is what you make of it. But I would find a new community if this place was so serious ALL of the time. :noway:

    Amen!

    I am always that serious about my vows. I'm pretty sure I remember something about "forsaking all others". Luckily the gentlemen that I am friends with on here also respect those vows. We are able to be friendly, humorous and supportive without being sexual. I avoid posts that are flagrantly flirtatious. I assumed by the topic this one would be something most women could relate to. Normally, I would have just closed the window and left you all to your "fun". I only responded to show support to the few who posted and share my feelings. Luckily, there are many of us who use this site for the support and friendship only.
    [/quote"]assume by this one" meaning me????????? it is the pure seeing with your eyes that this post was made.....im not dead ya know!! There is nothing wron with admiring a nice body..we have all worked very hard to get our bodies in shape and should be proud of them!! i have great friend male and female here and support all of them the same!!!!!



    Pardon my mistake. I am sure you can understand my confusion considering the post was made asserting that the reason you have gotten "addicted" to this site is because of the sweet, hot men. If you didn't intend to be flirtatious, then I do apologize for misunderstanding. Reading through the responses and noticing the track they took, I can only assume that others were confused about your original intent as well. Like I said before, I choose not to indulge in that behavior. As to the many that have no problem with it, I leave them to it. I only wanted to show support for other like-minded posters.
  • never really noticed...

    That's not why I am here. If it turns in to that kind of site, then I think a lot of us would have to find a new community to belong to.

    *Turns* into???


    That is what I was thinking. :laugh:

    It is what you make of it. But I would find a new community if this place was so serious ALL of the time. :noway:

    Amen!

    I am always that serious about my vows. I'm pretty sure I remember something about "forsaking all others". Luckily the gentlemen that I am friends with on here also respect those vows. We are able to be friendly, humorous and supportive without being sexual. I avoid posts that are flagrantly flirtatious. I assumed by the topic this one would be something most women could relate to. Normally, I would have just closed the window and left you all to your "fun". I only responded to show support to the few who posted and share my feelings. Luckily, there are many of us who use this site for the support and friendship only.
    [/quote"]assume by this one" meaning me????????? it is the pure seeing with your eyes that this post was made.....im not dead ya know!! There is nothing wron with admiring a nice body..we have all worked very hard to get our bodies in shape and should be proud of them!! i have great friend male and female here and support all of them the same!!!!!

    Pardon my mistake. I am sure you can understand my confusion considering the post was made asserting that the reason you have gotten "addicted" to this site is because of the sweet, hot men. I'm sure you meant to post something about the wonderful friendship and support you receive from all your friends on here. Reading through the responses and noticing the track they took, I can only assume that others were confused about your original intent as well.
    any one of my friends can tell you im very supportive of evry gain they make , whether its weight lost, gained, food diaries done well, or encouraging then to stick to their goals...... but at the same time there is nothing wrong with them or us girls being told that we look good as we work so hard to improve ourselves!!
  • Thomasm198
    Thomasm198 Posts: 3,189 Member

    Pardon my mistake. I am sure you can understand my confusion considering the post was made asserting that the reason you have gotten "addicted" to this site is because of the sweet, hot men. If you didn't intend to be flirtatious, then I do apologize for misunderstanding. Reading through the responses and noticing the track they took, I can only assume that others were confused about your original intent as well. Like I said before, I choose not to indulge in that behavior. As to the many that have no problem with it, I leave them to it. I only wanted to show support for other like-minded posters.
    Well if you choose not to indulge in that behaviour, why bother commenting on the topic when you saw what it was about?

    Nobody forced you to read the entire thread nor did they force you to post a comment. If you're watching the TV and something comes on that you don't like you would change the channel.

  • Pardon my mistake. I am sure you can understand my confusion considering the post was made asserting that the reason you have gotten "addicted" to this site is because of the sweet, hot men. If you didn't intend to be flirtatious, then I do apologize for misunderstanding. Reading through the responses and noticing the track they took, I can only assume that others were confused about your original intent as well. Like I said before, I choose not to indulge in that behavior. As to the many that have no problem with it, I leave them to it. I only wanted to show support for other like-minded posters.
    Well if you choose not to indulge in that behaviour, why bother commenting on the topic when you saw what it was about?

    Nobody forced you to read the entire thread nor did they force you to post a comment. If you're watching the TV and something comes on that you don't like you would change the channel.
    thank you Thomas!!!
  • ItsTerriC
    ItsTerriC Posts: 436 Member
    never really noticed...

    That's not why I am here. If it turns in to that kind of site, then I think a lot of us would have to find a new community to belong to.

    *Turns* into???


    That is what I was thinking. :laugh:

    It is what you make of it. But I would find a new community if this place was so serious ALL of the time. :noway:

    Amen!

    I am always that serious about my vows. I'm pretty sure I remember something about "forsaking all others". Luckily the gentlemen that I am friends with on here also respect those vows. We are able to be friendly, humorous and supportive without being sexual. I avoid posts that are flagrantly flirtatious. I assumed by the topic this one would be something most women could relate to. Normally, I would have just closed the window and left you all to your "fun". I only responded to show support to the few who posted and share my feelings. Luckily, there are many of us who use this site for the support and friendship only.
    [/quote"]assume by this one" meaning me????????? it is the pure seeing with your eyes that this post was made.....im not dead ya know!! There is nothing wron with admiring a nice body..we have all worked very hard to get our bodies in shape and should be proud of them!! i have great friend male and female here and support all of them the same!!!!!

    Pardon my mistake. I am sure you can understand my confusion considering the post was made asserting that the reason you have gotten "addicted" to this site is because of the sweet, hot men. I'm sure you meant to post something about the wonderful friendship and support you receive from all your friends on here. Reading through the responses and noticing the track they took, I can only assume that others were confused about your original intent as well.
    any one of my friends can tell you im very supportive of evry gain they make , whether its weight lost, gained, food diaries done well, or encouraging then to stick to their goals...... but at the same time there is nothing wrong with them or us girls being told that we look good as we work so hard to improve ourselves!!

    That is very true. We all like to be applauded for our successes. I am also proud to support all of my friends, male and female. I am able to do it without sounding as if I am salivating over them, but that is my choice. I am supremely blessed that I am able to flirt outrageously with my husband, and he with me. Maybe that's why I don't feel the need to do it elsewhere. I realize that not everyone is as lucky as I am. That is why I don't usually comment in any way on those types of posts and comments. I prefer to appreciate what I already have and be grateful for it daily. To each their own....
  • Thomasm198
    Thomasm198 Posts: 3,189 Member

    That is very true. We all like to be applauded for our successes. I am also proud to support all of my friends, male and female. I am able to do it without sounding as if I am salivating over them, but that is my choice. I am supremely blessed that I am able to flirt outrageously with my husband, and he with me. Maybe that's why I don't feel the need to do it elsewhere. I realize that not everyone is as lucky as I am. That is why I don't usually comment in any way on those types of posts and comments. I prefer to appreciate what I already have and be grateful for it daily. To each their own....

    I reiterate my earlier point. If you don't like the topic, leave it and allow the rest of us to live our lives as we choose.

    Just because you live your life one way does not mean that everybody has to live their lives according to your ideas.

    Thank you.
  • never really noticed...

    That's not why I am here. If it turns in to that kind of site, then I think a lot of us would have to find a new community to belong to.

    *Turns* into???


    That is what I was thinking. :laugh:

    It is what you make of it. But I would find a new community if this place was so serious ALL of the time. :noway:

    Amen!

    I am always that serious about my vows. I'm pretty sure I remember something about "forsaking all others". Luckily the gentlemen that I am friends with on here also respect those vows. We are able to be friendly, humorous and supportive without being sexual. I avoid posts that are flagrantly flirtatious. I assumed by the topic this one would be something most women could relate to. Normally, I would have just closed the window and left you all to your "fun". I only responded to show support to the few who posted and share my feelings. Luckily, there are many of us who use this site for the support and friendship only.
    [/quote"]assume by this one" meaning me????????? it is the pure seeing with your eyes that this post was made.....im not dead ya know!! There is nothing wron with admiring a nice body..we have all worked very hard to get our bodies in shape and should be proud of them!! i have great friend male and female here and support all of them the same!!!!!

    Pardon my mistake. I am sure you can understand my confusion considering the post was made asserting that the reason you have gotten "addicted" to this site is because of the sweet, hot men. I'm sure you meant to post something about the wonderful friendship and support you receive from all your friends on here. Reading through the responses and noticing the track they took, I can only assume that others were confused about your original intent as well.
    any one of my friends can tell you im very supportive of evry gain they make , whether its weight lost, gained, food diaries done well, or encouraging then to stick to their goals...... but at the same time there is nothing wrong with them or us girls being told that we look good as we work so hard to improve ourselves!!

    That is very true. We all like to be applauded for our successes. I am also proud to support all of my friends, male and female. I am able to do it without sounding as if I am salivating over them, but that is my choice. I am supremely blessed that I am able to flirt outrageously with my husband, and he with me. Maybe that's why I don't feel the need to do it elsewhere. I realize that not everyone is as lucky as I am. That is why I don't usually comment in any way on those types of posts and comments. I prefer to appreciate what I already have and be grateful for it daily. To each their own....
    fair enough......your right not all of us are as lucky to have a husband or a great one at that!!
  • ESVABelle
    ESVABelle Posts: 1,264 Member
    The dudes are out-numbered. They know it. They also take advantage of it. Pretty sure they just copy/paste the same lines and sweet things in PM to no less than 5 MFP ladies on the regular, LoL
  • bobbybdoe
    bobbybdoe Posts: 472 Member
    Lol at all the beautiful ladies in this thread saying they don't have a chance. :)
  • The MEN don't stand a chance! I of course don't post a pic.... too embarassed!
    And good for you sticking to your vows. I had a husband who didn't.
    You all stay strong and healthy!
    xo
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    Oh FFS the thread was clearly and obviously started as a light hearted,fun,friendly and supportive way to compliment folks that have worked hard to better themselves.
    To try to turn it into some moralistic,judgmental drama is just plain stupid.

    Get a life,live and let live and don`t worry about things that on the Internet have no affect on you.
    Walk your own path and seek your own happiness,it makes living a hell of a lot simpler.

    Sheesh. rolleyes.gif
  • xtinalovexo
    xtinalovexo Posts: 1,376 Member
    I'm not a "sweet hot guy" but a sweet guy. www.flickr.com/photos/madriver

    u remind me of a cuter version of benicio del toro!
  • Saruman_w
    Saruman_w Posts: 1,531 Member
    Dunno about hot, but I am neither taken nor gay.
  • IMYarnCraz33
    IMYarnCraz33 Posts: 1,016 Member
    oh please. i hope this doesn't turn into a site for prowlers and weirdos. i'm not here looking for a man - i'm here for my fitness and health goals.


    right on!!
  • kennethmgreen
    kennethmgreen Posts: 1,759 Member
    Just because you live your life one way does not mean that everybody has to live their lives according to your ideas.
    live and let live and don`t worry about things that on the Internet have no affect on you.
    Walk your own path and seek your own happiness,it makes living a hell of a lot simpler.

    I'm going to print both of these out, and tape them up next to my computer, right beside the kitten posters and my AOL password.

    Thank you (seriously).
  • Lantern823
    Lantern823 Posts: 115
    there are just a few too many sweet hot guys on this site, are there not???? no wonder we get addicted...

    I totally agree with you on that, We all know that this site isnt about that , but hell lets be honest whats wrong with a little eye candy? Its the healthiest kind for you
  • ItsTerriC
    ItsTerriC Posts: 436 Member
    Just because you live your life one way does not mean that everybody has to live their lives according to your ideas.

    Thank you.
    [/quote]

    I'm so glad you were able to see that is what I was saying all along. I'm not sure why I was attacked for trying to support a different viewpoint, but c'est la vie. Being happy with our lives and our choices is all that really matters as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else.
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