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Sh1tsRainbows
Sh1tsRainbows Posts: 1,227 Member
edited October 2024 in Chit-Chat
i just watched that movie "Hall Pass" with owen wilson... basically these couples have been married for a while..and the wife gives then one week to do what ever they want...

Would you do it??

women reading this would you do it also?? or let you husband??
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  • ansonrinesmith
    ansonrinesmith Posts: 741 Member
    I've been married 17 years and I wouldn't!
    I love my wife, and I love my life.
    True, that day in and day out over 17 years we have had good and bad times. Sometimes we have gotten "comfortable".
    My wife isn't controlling, so I never feel like I'm under her thumb.
    I go out with the guys. I watch football (she does too! I told you I love her!) So I have never felt like I needed a "break".
  • rider797
    rider797 Posts: 52
    im not married....but i would never do it...
  • MonolithTMA
    MonolithTMA Posts: 62 Member
    Engaged and living with my fiance. No way would I do it, even if for some reason she would let me, just the broken hearted look on her face that is conjured up in my head, is enough to deter me from ever hurting her like that. That's one of the reasons I have no desire to see that movie, despite liking some of the actors in it.
  • glenr79
    glenr79 Posts: 283 Member
    definitely not I am a very faithful man ;)
  • CaptainAmerica1970
    CaptainAmerica1970 Posts: 435
    NEVER saw the movie! so...Bump!
  • CaptainAmerica1970
    CaptainAmerica1970 Posts: 435
    If I had a weekend to do what I want it would be or sound like...quiet, no noise, just me sitting around the fire with some friends relaxing without any stupid annoying questions, phone calls, just relaxing. And if your talking about another female well... "NO!" it took too long to train the first one, not worth the headache, pain, drama, etc...why do you think we were only supposed to have one!
  • IMYarnCraz33
    IMYarnCraz33 Posts: 1,016 Member
    never saw the movie but know what you're talking about and
    my answer is a resounding HELL NO!!!!
    I love my husband with all my being and he loves me.
    I may have learned to share when I was younger (toys), but I do/will NOT share my HUSBAND.
    And I'm certain he wouldn't share me either.
  • Gdzgal771
    Gdzgal771 Posts: 152 Member
    AMEN YARN!! <3
  • myofibril
    myofibril Posts: 4,500 Member
    Yes.

    And by yes I mean no.
  • AtticusFinch
    AtticusFinch Posts: 1,262 Member
    IMYarnCraz33:

    I may have learned to share when I was younger (toys), but I do/will NOT share my HUSBAND.

    That's a well made point IMYam, as adults it really isn't hygienic to share toys
  • JulieBoBoo
    JulieBoBoo Posts: 642
    Doesn't work for everyone, certainly would never work for me and my husband, but I'm not going to judge people for whom it does work because that's really up to them. For me personally, the only people who are ever seeing me naked again are my husband and medical professionals. As for him, it's not worth it because he knows I'd never be o.k. with it and it would completely undermine the foundation of our marriage.
  • StevLL
    StevLL Posts: 921 Member
    Why would one get married if that were even a remote possibilty in your value/belief system? Like my life the way it is, if I wanted to be in a state of chaos I would not have gotten married. We've been together 11years now and I'm just figuring out how to do it right, why blow that? I'm almost trained I don't want to flunk out of obedience school at this stage of the game. :-)
    Seriously though I have to say it is stupid movies like that, that cause folks without integrity, committment and honor to even think that way.
  • Krull_the_WarriorKing
    Krull_the_WarriorKing Posts: 650 Member
    Never- you marry for life
  • Oishii
    Oishii Posts: 2,675 Member
    I reckon my husband would do it... And because he would, I would.

    It would ruin everything though.
  • keb80
    keb80 Posts: 394
    I JUST saw this movie last weekend!!!

    In order for me to grant a "hall pass" to my spouse, I'd have to get one of my own too.

    But, I'm sure it would only lead to more problems down the road. I really don't see how it would help any "restlessness" one or both spouses might be feeling. I just think it would make matters even worse...
  • DRJJ2004
    DRJJ2004 Posts: 186 Member
    Just watched that movie...Neither one of us would want one. We just don't see how that could make anything better.
  • dmpizza
    dmpizza Posts: 3,321 Member
    No, its silly.
    Lap dances are another story though.
  • 1_up
    1_up Posts: 1,414 Member
    i just watched that movie "Hall Pass" with owen wilson... basically these couples have been married for a while..and the wife gives then one week to do what ever they want...

    Would you do it??

    women reading this would you do it also?? or let you husband??

    Nah I wouldn't do it. If I felt that way I would have never had gotten married or continued to stay married for the last 10 years ;D
  • KevDaniel
    KevDaniel Posts: 449 Member
    Oh heck no those guys were buffoons. Fun movie and all but that is never how I have felt, I am here cause I want to be :) Plus as the movie teaches its not all that its cracked up to be.
  • glitterpiss
    glitterpiss Posts: 113
    I haven't seen the movie, so I'm not 100% sure exactly the rules or what ever, but I WOULD let my partner sleep with another person, as long as he uses protection (and they are disease free) and we talk about it first. I trust him completely and I'm not a jealous person, so I don't have a problem with it. I want to spend the rest of my life with him, but I can understand not wanting to have sex only with one person for the rest of my life.
  • liftingbro
    liftingbro Posts: 2,029 Member
    Married. Wouldn't do it.

    #1- It would be really weird having sex with another woman, I'm probably be too nervous to even have the pluming work right. Unlike most guys, when I talk my big game about what I would do with some hot chick for one night, the reality is that I'd probably chicken out and go home to my wife anyway.

    #2- Even if I wanted to and had the guts and the wife gave me permission I would know better. Knowing how women work when she says " you have a hall pass", she really means, "This is a test and if you take the bait you're dead".
  • Kelnurse
    Kelnurse Posts: 145
    If he gets a pass, I get a pass.
  • CSelf1
    CSelf1 Posts: 431 Member
    Great movie, but NO, I could never do that! When you committ to working somewhere, they don't let you have "time off" to go work somewhere else because you are tired of doing the same thing every single day, so why would that be ok in a marriage? It's up to you to change things up and keep the spark alive. I would definitely never judge someone who did allow it, not my place, but I know for me I wouldn't be able to do something like that and then go back home and act like nothing happened.
  • AliDarling
    AliDarling Posts: 373
    I thought the movie was pretty funny. the only part i didnt like was how owne was dressed, hair and all looked just like my husband. i got jealous of a movie lol. my husband knows i wouldnt be able to deal with it. I got married for one reason. I love him and i want to spend the rest of my life with him, and he feels the same. If you wanted a hall pass, you never should have got married

    so, no, no neither of us would
  • TheGoktor
    TheGoktor Posts: 1,138 Member
    I haven't seen the film (not my sort of thing) but are we saying, would we allow our partners to go and have sex with someone else? Would we *allow* them to? What happened to free will? A person either will or they won't - permission has nothing to do with it!

    There are few things in this life that I am certain of but one of them is that amato mio would never even look at another woman in that way, much less consider being unfaithful to me (even with permission!). Why would he? He has me - why on earth would he want anyone else?! :laugh: It works both ways - I have zero interest in other men, other than as platonic friends of course.

    IMO if you make a commitment to someone, unless things really aren't working, you should honour that commitment....it's meaningless otherwise. And if it's not working, get out *before* moving onto pastures new. Just my opinion though, I know that some people don't agree.
  • angelicdisgrace
    angelicdisgrace Posts: 2,071 Member
    Been married for 14 years and even if I got a hall pass I would not use it. He trust me to go out with my friends and I trust him as well. The party is always more fun with him around.
  • helenium
    helenium Posts: 546 Member
    Depends on the guy or girl I'd be with. I have a friend in a four-way relationship (she has a girlfriend & boyfriend and her girlfriend has another girlfriend) and they're really happy. I'd love to be so comfortable with my love for a partner - and their love for me - that I would not be jealous if they wanted to have sex with someone else too. I've had a partner in the past, and I'd have been okay with it but they never mentioned the possibility or desire. We didn't last though (we weren't that attracted to one another) and I don't know what I'd say if I were together with a guy/girl I was in love with.
  • Shannon023
    Shannon023 Posts: 14,529 Member
    Yes.

    And by yes I mean no.

    Did someone peek over your shoulder?? :laugh:
  • diplomad
    diplomad Posts: 51
    Yep. Sure would.

    I dare say most guys would, but wont admit it.

    Edit: It would also depend on the relationship I would be in at the time as well. There would be alot of variable I would imagine.
  • sunkisses
    sunkisses Posts: 2,365 Member
    Ew! I would NEVER.... get married. Yuck!
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