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so heartbreaking and discouraging :(:(
j99li
Posts: 421 Member
I went to the food court today to grab some asian food before my doctors appointment. The woman behind the counter was my friend's mom and she was the one who served me. After I paid, she asked me if I wanted any water. I said "yes" and before she was about to pour the water, she asked if I wanted any pop instead. I said "no I dont drink it"
She then said, "you look like you are a girl who likes to drink pop and not care about their weight" and then I said "no I do care, I recently lost 27lbs". Then she said "oh I cant really tell the difference, guess I havent seen you at your fattest weight"
That was so heartbreaking to hear It felt so discouraging and it also seemed like the rudest thing to say!
She then said, "you look like you are a girl who likes to drink pop and not care about their weight" and then I said "no I do care, I recently lost 27lbs". Then she said "oh I cant really tell the difference, guess I havent seen you at your fattest weight"
That was so heartbreaking to hear It felt so discouraging and it also seemed like the rudest thing to say!
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What a cow! Don't listen to people like this. I makes me wonder what her motivation for saying something like this is. Is her daughter (your friend) a large girl or something and she's jealous of the progress you've made? I don't get people like this. Just ignore them.0
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B*tch0
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WTF??? Who says that to someone!! She's just RUDE!! :noway:0
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she sounds insecure and jealous. The best thing to do is not let it get to you and keep coming back there skinnier! People suck sometimes!0
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OMG! That lady needs to get a grip!! What a BEEOOTTCHHH!! I'm sure you look great and most people can tell the difference . Great job to you, 27 pounds is no easy task!0
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That is unbelievable!0
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holy crap, total rudeness!!!!
She a total moron. Girl , DO NOT let someone who is of low mental capacity to bother you. Know that you are working hard every day become a better person.
People like that need to tape their mouth shut0 -
What a cow! Don't listen to people like this. I makes me wonder what her motivation for saying something like this is. Is her daughter (your friend) a large girl or something and she's jealous of the progress you've made? I don't get people like this. Just ignore them.
Good point!! Her daughter has probably made comments & expressed jealousy over your weight loss!0 -
She works at the food court.0
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Sounds like this woman has no manners or regard for anyone's feelings. I probably would have told her exactly what I thought about her since we are bluntly telling everyone exactly what we think.0
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dup0
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She works at the food court.
LMAO!! :laugh:0 -
Ah don't listen to her! Knowing me, l'd say something horrible back because l don't let people talk down to me like that but don't be discouraged and carry on! You are doing so well.0
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How obnoxious! I know it's hard, but please try not to take it to heart.0
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I would have flipped the hell out on her and told her to shut her trap. Thats AWFUL!!! People are so freeking RUDE!!!0
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You're right THAT was the rudest thing to say! Don't get discouraged!0
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wow. I have no idea where people get the guts or the urge to say crap like that.
I'm so sorry someone did it to you.0 -
Sounds to me like you were the brunt of whatever had gone wrong for her that day. Look past her ignorance and pat yourself on the back for all you have achieved. I'd say you are well on your way to your goals!!:flowerforyou:0
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She works at the food court.
lol!0 -
SO RUDE!
ignore, cancel, delete, F7!
That is all about HER, not about you.
Hold your head high, you have made great progress! Don't let that idiot affect you.
blessings.0
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