You have GOT to be kidding me...

odusgolp
odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
edited October 1 in Chit-Chat
Just wow. Rewind a year. I'm dating a 42 year old ER doctor for a little over 3 months. The day I'm supposed to go out of town to a wedding with him he breaks up with me... via text message. Via. Text.

OK, anyhow, he didn't want to continue dating, fine whatever. I didn't reply to his break-up text. Sent a simple email a few days letter saying I was sorry for whatever transpired and wished him the best and asked him to return my belongings. I could easily pick them up while he was at work if he'd leave them in a box. No reply... of course.

Well, one year later, a box just showed up here at work. My $120 beautiful pink monogrammed bamboo robe, my kitchen dishes (casseroles, etc) as I used to always cook for him. The robe he used as packing material, and all of the dishes are broken hence slicing said robe.

My word. He's 42. And a doctor. And completely clueless on seemingly the simplest of things.
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  • JsGirl93
    JsGirl93 Posts: 1,156
    Just... WOW... what an *kitten*.
  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
    awww dude you are having a craptastic day!! lol (I read your post earlier about the lunch date...I think I would of said "yeah the convo wasn't worth a $19 tip either" but then I have no filter and have trouble biting my tongue) I hope your day gets better...maybe take it out on the treadmill or punching bag....
  • mikeyml
    mikeyml Posts: 568 Member
    Now that is an *kitten*.
  • Sasssy69
    Sasssy69 Posts: 547 Member
    Oh Girl! Send that asshat a bill. For REALS. Ugh. Why are some men so F***in clueless???? GAAAHHHH!
  • writtenINthestars
    writtenINthestars Posts: 1,933 Member
    Now that is an *kitten*.

    What he said. WOW.
  • maria25428
    maria25428 Posts: 70
    Oh my.... you said it... wow! i am sorry. No words for that. what a sad man! He did you a favor in the long run. Be glad he's out of your life!!
  • Lsqueezy
    Lsqueezy Posts: 128
    Er, no offense, but you've really got *kitten* luck with men lately. :ohwell: :noway:
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    I just do not understand. Seriously.

    I have got to start liking women and go gay, cause this ain't workin.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    Er, no offense, but you've really got *kitten* luck with men lately. :ohwell: :noway:

    You're telling me *LOL*
  • Schwiggity
    Schwiggity Posts: 1,449 Member
    Take him to Judge Judy. :P Seriously, if he broke up with you, why would he do that?
  • Johnnyswife
    Johnnyswife Posts: 1,447 Member
    Oh Girl! Send that a**hat a bill. For REALS. Ugh. Why are some men so F***in clueless???? GAAAHHHH!
    I'd do that too, but who knows? That jerk probably wouldn't pay for it. At least you dodged that bullet.
  • lind3400
    lind3400 Posts: 557 Member
    Ur stories scare the rest of us outta dating....
  • suemar74
    suemar74 Posts: 447 Member
    What a ****.
  • feisma
    feisma Posts: 213 Member
    Can you repack it and "return to sender" ...what a freaking a'hole...
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    Ur stories scare the rest of us outta dating....

    I'm like walking birth control for the rest of you.
  • Schwiggity
    Schwiggity Posts: 1,449 Member
    My biggest question is....who the hell spends $120 on a robe? 0.o
  • JellyJaks
    JellyJaks Posts: 589 Member
    :noway: There are just no words!
  • Schwiggity
    Schwiggity Posts: 1,449 Member
    http://www.poopsenders.com/ Send him some poop.
  • Dtho5159
    Dtho5159 Posts: 1,054 Member
    Makes me wanna go cut him with a broken dish....
  • brewingaz
    brewingaz Posts: 1,136 Member
    At least he returned your items!
  • stephanie8625
    stephanie8625 Posts: 119 Member
    WOW - he got balls --- you are better off -- move on to big and better things !! He does not deserve you :bigsmile:
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  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    Take him to Judge Judy. :P Seriously, if he broke up with you, why would he do that?

    He didn't intentionally break the stuff. He is simply too stupid to know how to pack breakables.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    My biggest question is....who the hell spends $120 on a robe? 0.o

    It's a beautiful spa robe ;) Don't judge me :)
  • bigdaddycowgill
    bigdaddycowgill Posts: 120 Member
    My jaw hit the floor reading that! He's my age & acting like a 6-year-old! I thought the texting breakup was bad, but the more I read, the worse it got! What a ****head!
  • gritgirl
    gritgirl Posts: 95 Member
    that is a flipping a$$wipe.

    i dated a guy years ago who picked me up, drove me to his sisters house for an event, spent the night with me at her house, and then the next morning sister and husband leave the house and he tells me he's in love with another woman. and since i'm in the middle of nowhere and have no way home, i have to drive back with him as he tells me "if you ever need anything."

    some people simply should not breed. hopefully the 42 year old human sized **** will not.
  • savethecat
    savethecat Posts: 290 Member
    I just do not understand. Seriously.

    I have got to start liking women and go gay, cause this ain't workin.

    Yes, come to the dark side... ;-)
  • kaaatielove
    kaaatielove Posts: 248 Member
    Er, no offense, but you've really got *kitten* luck with men lately. :ohwell: :noway:

    What happened with the extremely tall guy you were going on a date with last week?? did it not go so well? :(
    ant btw... I work in a hospital.. worked in the ER for 4 years. The docs down there are complete & utter *kitten*. You're much better without him. sorry about your robe toots.. <3
  • kapeluza
    kapeluza Posts: 3,434 Member
    wow... what a jerk..........

    Ok you need to get a spiritual cleansing or something... you got some bad voodoo juju going on with men, especially losers!!!!
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
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    hehehe!

    I could:

    1. Ignore that I rec'd it
    2. Send him poop
    3. Email him a loving thank you card
    4. Return to sender

    But none of those really seem fun enough. I want fun....
  • Sasssy69
    Sasssy69 Posts: 547 Member
    My biggest question is....who the hell spends $120 on a robe? 0.o

    It's a beautiful spa robe ;) Don't judge me :)

    Um. Me. I totally would. Just like I'd spend $150 on a pair of really great shoes. And yeah, if you're lucky enough, I'd wear ONLY the shoes for you on occasion. Sans clothes. THIS is why my man meat has stopped complaining about the amount I spend on shoes. :devil:
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