Question about how guys work...
cmonskinnylovee
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So in my English Lit class there is this guy who is SO attractive. He is seriously model material, at least in my eyes. I've noticed that A LOT during the class I catch him looking at me, which also means he caught me looking at him.
Does this mean he think I'm attractive, or thinks I'm crazy for staring? Haha
I know that when I look at a guy a lot its because I find him attractive... and if he does think I'm attractive, how do I talk to him? Should I just spark up a conversation?
Does this mean he think I'm attractive, or thinks I'm crazy for staring? Haha
I know that when I look at a guy a lot its because I find him attractive... and if he does think I'm attractive, how do I talk to him? Should I just spark up a conversation?
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If he holds eye contact with you, there is definitely an attraction. Other wise, not so easy to know for sure.0
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Look at him, then when you see him looking, look away, then look at him the 2nd time then when he looks....SMILE
give him the opportunity to smile back at you...then take it from there x0 -
Give him a wink or a sign that you're interested. If he's interested, he'll approach you. Women flirt, guys approach.0
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You won't know unless you find out.
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Just go up and say hi...0
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Guys like a girl that make the first move. I'd just spark a conversation with him. There have been many times in my life that I was near a hot guy and never made a move then regret it! I'm sure you'll find something to talk about even if it's about class
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If he holds eye contact with you, there is definitely an attraction. Other wise, not so easy to know for sure.
He always looks away when I catch him, but then two seconds later I'll catch him again. And I always look away when guys catch me staring...0 -
Just go up and say hi...
seriously??? i was going to suggest that she plays games, acts aloof and disintrested, for weeks at a time, and send him mixed signals, but if you think that just going up to him and saying hi is the way to go...0 -
He's checking you out. Talk to him to find out more.0
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hmmm o.k. - I'll take a stab at this one. Most guy's would find you very attractive, and maybe he does, or doesn't. In any case, you should talk to him anyway. Is it his looks that make you apprehensive? Just go for it. Life's too short.0
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Just go up and say hi...
seriously??? i was going to suggest that she plays games, acts aloof and disintrested, for weeks at a time, and send him mixed signals, but if you think that just going up to him and saying hi is the way to go...
Is that really what guys like? I've been told that guys hate games, but I've also been told that if I'm too easy to approach, that guys will get bored.
Why are guys so confusing!? haha
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I always preferred the direct approach... to be quite honest my first wife picked me up. No pretenses, no misunderstandings, no hurt feelings. I saw her across the dance floor, she walked over and said "Don't be surprised if by the end of the night you are mine". It was one of those pick your jaw up off the floor moments... but we were married 8 months later and stayed married for 5 years.
Like the song says though... "When I sobered up, and I started thinking... Girl, you ain't much fun since I quit drinking...."
Personally I find confidence sexy. I love it when a woman knows what she wants and isn't afraid to try and get it.0 -
Just go up and say hi...
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Just go up and say hi...
seriously??? i was going to suggest that she plays games, acts aloof and disintrested, for weeks at a time, and send him mixed signals, but if you think that just going up to him and saying hi is the way to go...
Is that really what guys like? I've been told that guys hate games, but I've also been told that if I'm too easy to approach, that guys will get bored.
Why are guys so confusing!? haha
If you want the answer then just talking to him is the best/quickest way.0 -
Just go up and say hi...
seriously??? i was going to suggest that she plays games, acts aloof and disintrested, for weeks at a time, and send him mixed signals, but if you think that just going up to him and saying hi is the way to go...
LMAO at this. So true!
If he's looking at you he likes you, so get in before someone else does
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A conversation usually helps0
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Men love a challenge. It's in our nature to "conquer" or pardon the expression "hunt for prey". So if you go up to a guy and throw yourself out there, guess what, you've taken the challenge out of the hunt. What he is doing right now, "the looking and turning away" is a form of "stalking the prey". Once he gets more courage, he will "go in for the kill"0
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just make sure you let us know how it all turns out
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I say just go for it. Confidence is very sexy in a woman.0
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I always preferred the direct approach... to be quite honest my first wife picked me up. No pretenses, no misunderstandings, no hurt feelings. I saw her across the dance floor, she walked over and said "Don't be surprised if by the end of the night you are mine". It was one of those pick your jaw up off the floor moments... but we were married 8 months later and stayed married for 5 years.
Like the song says though... "When I sobered up, and I started thinking... Girl, you ain't much fun since I quit drinking...."
Personally I find confidence sexy. I love it when a woman knows what she wants and isn't afraid to try and get it.
I'm with this guy. I'm obviously female but if you like a guy just go up to him. Say hi, ask about the work you're doing in class. Something. My friends and I go to clubs and I'm known for just letting a guy know if it's attractive. lol I wouldn't play games though. He may be the type that hates that. If you go up to him, worst case, he's not interested. Then you'll have your answer! Good luck! Keep us posted!0 -
Give him a wink or a sign that you're interested. If he's interested, he'll approach you. Women flirt, guys approach.
like this???
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If he holds eye contact with you, there is definitely an attraction. Other wise, not so easy to know for sure.
He always looks away when I catch him, but then two seconds later I'll catch him again. And I always look away when guys catch me staring...
next time don't look away...and throw in the smile...0 -
Maybe he is keeping track at how many times you stare at him. Maybe he thinks you're stalking hi
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Make sure you don't have a large booger hanging from your nose.0
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Pass him a folded up note that says: Do you like me? Check one:So in my English Lit class there is this guy who is SO attractive. He is seriously model material, at least in my eyes. I've noticed that A LOT during the class I catch him looking at me, which also means he caught me looking at him.
Does this mean he think I'm attractive, or thinks I'm crazy for staring? Haha
I know that when I look at a guy a lot its because I find him attractive... and if he does think I'm attractive, how do I talk to him? Should I just spark up a conversation?
And below that line, put a giant box labeled YES and then a really small one way down at the bottom labeled NO.
Works every time.0 -
Pass him a folded up note that says: Do you like me? Check one:So in my English Lit class there is this guy who is SO attractive. He is seriously model material, at least in my eyes. I've noticed that A LOT during the class I catch him looking at me, which also means he caught me looking at him.
Does this mean he think I'm attractive, or thinks I'm crazy for staring? Haha
I know that when I look at a guy a lot its because I find him attractive... and if he does think I'm attractive, how do I talk to him? Should I just spark up a conversation?
And below that line, put a giant box labeled YES and then a really small one way down at the bottom labeled NO.
Works every time.
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Give him a wink or a sign that you're interested. If he's interested, he'll approach you. Women flirt, guys approach.
Not always!
If he's making eye contact but hasn't approached you yet, just walk up to him after class and say hi. If he likes you, then the two of you will share some niceties and maybe exchange numbers or FB or whatever it is you kids do these days.0 -
Guys are simple creatures...take the simplest approach...simply walk up and say Hi...most guys, if they got any game and are interested, will simply take it from there...
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you could always lick your lips and rub your chest while staring at him.. lol that should work0
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you could always lick your lips and rub your chest while staring at him.. lol that should work
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I'm going to try that at the bar tonight!:drinker:0
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