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    • Posts: 248 Member
      go talk to him, if he is turned off by you approaching him, then his loss, would you want to go out with someone who was more interested in games than in getting to know someone?

      i would be psyched if a woman started talking to me after class or whenever and i think every buy i have ever known would say the same thing.

      we do tend to be a lot more dense about these things than women realize so he may not know you are interested just because you talk to him but it is a start.
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      :laugh:

      I'm going to try that at the bar tonight!:drinker:

      which bar was that again :)
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      Is that really what guys like? I've been told that guys hate games, but I've also been told that if I'm too easy to approach, that guys will get bored.

      Why are guys so confusing!? haha :)

      Oh good lord, he was kidding! lol

      Just strike up a conversation! It really isn't complicated.
    • Posts: 1,753 Member
      How do guys work? They're all different. You're better off deciding how you work.

      Are you the sort of person who would prefer to wait and see whether someone approaches you? Then do nothing and give him the pleasure of persuing you. That's great, unless that guy you fancy is the same sort of person - you'll both wait forever.

      Me, if I find someone attractive or interesting, I simply start a conversation to find out whether they're worth hunting down. :bigsmile:

      By conversation, I mean grown adults talking to each other about a subject they find mutually interesting, NOT a "Wow you're hot, wanna date?" type conversation!
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      which bar was that again :)

      Ha! Are you anywhere near Texas? :devil:
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      A smile usually does the trick.
    • Posts: 5,343 Member
      Drop your books in front of him...it'll give him a chance to talk to you (because if he's ANY sort of decent guy he's already picking them up for you), and you might even get walked to your next class if you play your cards right, giving you plenty of time to chat some.

      I know this works, because it's exactly the tactic my first real girlfriend in high school used...in a similar situation =D.
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      Drop your books in front of him...it'll give him a chance to talk to you (because if he's ANY sort of decent guy he's already picking them up for you), and you might even get walked to your next class if you play your cards right, giving you plenty of time to chat some.

      I know this works, because it's exactly the tactic my first real girlfriend in high school used...in a similar situation =D.

      " a similar situation" How was it similar...in the " this guy who is SO attractive. He is seriously model material" way?? Probably..LOL
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      " a similar situation" How was it similar...in the " this guy who is SO attractive. He is seriously model material" way?? Probably..LOL

      LOL not quite Von...more like, we spent a lot of time staring, looking away etc. Funny side note...2 weeks into class, our French teacher moved us, publically, in the middle of class...right next to each other...saying maybe if we didn't have to look so far, we would have more time to pay attention. That's the day she dropped her books in front of me lol.
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      LOL not quite Von...more like, we spent a lot of time staring, looking away etc. Funny side note...2 weeks into class, our French teacher moved us, publically, in the middle of class...right next to each other...saying maybe if we didn't have to look so far, we would have more time to pay attention. That's the day she dropped her books in front of me lol.

      OMG Cris..hilarious..I woulda loved being that girl that day..cool teacher..and I would definitely drop my books..haha!:wink::tongue:
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      OMG Cris..hilarious..I woulda loved being that girl that day..cool teacher..and I would definitely drop my books..haha!:wink::tongue:

      Yeah, it was funny, she eventually separated us because we spent all of class passing notes.

      Go figure?

      Anyhow, back to topic lol.
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      He always looks away when I catch him, but then two seconds later I'll catch him again. And I always look away when guys catch me staring...

      Smile before you look away at least. Then after class say hello, loiter until he sees you then smile and act interested. Dont act aloof.

      Youre gorgeous and very distinctive looking. Im sure hes got to have a crush on you.

      Love to hear what happens!

      Good luck!
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      Ha! Are you anywhere near Texas? :devil:

      no :sad: California
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      He always looks away when I catch him, but then two seconds later I'll catch him again. And I always look away when guys catch me staring...

      Don't look away on the second time. Big warm inviting smile and body language that says, "Please come talk to me." He'll get it.
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