Curious... (for men & women)

IAmTheAwesomest

Men: Do you perfer your women thin, chubby or big?
Women: Do you perfer your men thin, chubby or big?Also, do you make your man shave, wax or go au naturel?

Me personally I love my man chubby and au naturel. He's about 180 and it's so funny how he's skinny everywhere except his tummy. He's the perfect everything for me, we're close to the same height, near the same weight (I range from 160-170), and I love him just the way he is .
Sorry if I am gushing! I'm just so happy with him and we're getting married in 1 week. :smooched:

DannyMussels

Thin or athletic. I don't even care if they have boobs.

But some girls can pull off the thicker/curvy. It happens.

I just find more in common with the first few.

Semi-related, I remove pretty much all the hair on my body. Keep it to 1cm on the arms and maybe a bit longer on the legs.
I hate hair.

Iamfit4life

ok... from all I can tell looking at my past I guess I like them a little bit chubby. But with nice big arms. Strong arms.
And my exact same height too my current significant other is my height and HATES it when I wear heels. I look like an amazon. lol

The funny thing is the type of men who turn my eye are not the men I date.
BUT I'm also a sucker for good lips. That takes precedence.


I expect him to be trimmed otherwise I don't really want to get involved with any of that business.



Many many many congrats on your upcoming wedding. You look like you'll be very happy.

reese1206

Athletic...That's how my Husband is built and I love it. He doesn't have a ton of hair either....I like that!

chevy88grl

Honestly? I've dated thinner guys and I've dated heavier guys. My ex-husband is heavier and my current boyfriend is thinner. So, I don't really think I have a preference.

As for hair - I prefer they are bald and not overly hairy everywhere else. I don't think I'd be interested in a guy who has hair sticking out of the back of his shirt or something. lol

XFitMojoMom

I prefer my men a little thicker - linebacker like. I did the geeky androgynous spindly type and well, that just got me confused.:huh: So yeah, a big guy with a little hair in the right places, who sometimes passes gas and likes to eat meat.

echeindl

"Husky", neither skinny nor chubby! And they definitely need to be maintained down there

Carl01

Feminine and curvy,that can be quite a range and I will consider her beautiful and sexy.

mznisaelaine

Hmm.. It doesn't really matter for me as long as he is physically healthy and healthy minded.

writtenINthestars

gah

elfy66

For me? As long as we have a connection mentally, I like sparkly eyes, a sense on fun and adventure and a nice bum never goes amiss!

crisanderson27

I generally prefer women who are what i consider middle of the road. Not too athletic (this has sort of been changing a bit lately), and NOT too thin. A bit chubby is better than too skinny. I've dated slightly larger...but generally we don't have a lot in common at that point and it never works.

GOTTA be shorter than me lol...and I'm only 5'7" tall =p.

chevy88grl

Every man and woman prefers different things...there is no right or wrong answer.

The end.

Um. That's what this post was asking - it wasn't saying you're right for this or wrong for that. She was asking what your preference was.....

writtenINthestars

Every man and woman prefers different things...there is no right or wrong answer.

The end.

Um. That's what this post was asking - it wasn't saying you're right for this or wrong for that. She was asking what your preference was.....

lol Yes I know, I had two different windows going and read it wrong. My bad!

I like men. I like little to no hair. I've dated exceptionally fit, and some men who were overweight...my husband is a few pounds overweight for his 6'3 frame but he looks fine to me ;p


That is all ;p

OP, congrats on your upcoming nuptials!

BAMA66

Athletic, not too skinny not to chubby

cklbrown

I like my man bigger. I want to feel he can protect me, from what I don't really know!

Ireshgurl

Athletic. 6' or taller. Preferably no hair or little bit in the right places. Manscaping a must. Thankfully this is my hubby and what he does, lol.

elfy66

Honestly? I've dated thinner guys and I've dated heavier guys. My ex-husband is heavier and my current boyfriend is thinner. So, I don't really think I have a preference.

As for hair - I prefer they are bald and not overly hairy everywhere else. I don't think I'd be interested in a guy who has hair sticking out of the back of his shirt or something. lol

OK werewolves do not apply

0PhAtDaDdY

Wife is 85.0 pounder!!! So I have to say thin, lol!

adross3

You have to feel comfortable in your own skin. If you have fat on you and your OK with that then your man can be that way also. I personally am not happy unless I hold my body in shape. I prefer my woman to be in shape also. I have been athletic my whole life. If your partner likes to be in shape then you must be in shape also. I'm sure that your partner would appreciate it in bed the same as you do. The fatter one always drags down the fitter one. Habits run thick.

ceebs9

I prefer my men a little thicker - linebacker like. I did the geeky androgynous spindly type and well, that just got me confused.:huh: So yeah, a big guy with a little hair in the right places, who sometimes passes gas and likes to eat meat.

Lol Pam!

elfy66

You have to feel comfortable in your own skin. If you have fat on you and your OK with that then your man can be that way also. I personally am not happy unless I hold my body in shape. I prefer my woman to be in shape also. I have been athletic my whole life. If your partner likes to be in shape then you must be in shape also. I'm sure that your partner would appreciate it in bed the same as you do. The fatter one always drags down the fitter one. Habits run thick.

Ermmmmm eh?

PegasusDeb

First off, CONGRATZ! I hope you have a lifetime of happiness! :flowerforyou:

Now... I guess I have a pretty wide range of "likes"! I have dated heavy guys, have dated skinny guys, and middle of the road builds. I can look past alot of physical things if they have a great personality. I like my man to be groomed nicely, they HAVE TO HAVE clean well maintained fingernails! That is the biggest turn off for me, gross hands & longish nails, Ewww.
I guess I try to keep an open mind about the people I meet. Hell, I'm not perfect, why should I expect my sig-other be perfect too! (Not that I would kick Hugh Jackman out of my room... but hey! I guess a convo & an arm touch is all I'm going to get from him! lol)

GoyaMommy13

chubby and au natural!

i dated a thin guy but i much prefer my chubby honey!! and i don't like when he shaves, maybe a trim, but not too "manicured" lol

he says he prefers chubby and shaved, but i don't put too much effort in the shaving part.

adross3

You have to feel comfortable in your own skin. If you have fat on you and your OK with that then your man can be that way also. I personally am not happy unless I hold my body in shape. I prefer my woman to be in shape also. I have been athletic my whole life. If your partner likes to be in shape then you must be in shape also. I'm sure that your partner would appreciate it in bed the same as you do. The fatter one always drags down the fitter one. Habits run thick.

Ermmmmm eh?

Exactly like it reads. You know you look and wish when you see somebody in shape and hot. You know you do. If your comfortable with the chub then that is your preference. Somebody who takes time to be in physical shape wants the same. If they don't, that will be a very very rare case. If you havn't been fit.....within the last 5 years then you are used to having chub. I'm not talking about "I was a track star in High School. I'm talking about a current state of mind.

NO ONE goes to the gym to be fit for their chubby mate. NOBODY. I know fit couples and fat couples. I know fit sig's with their chubby sig's. The chubby always brings down the other. Being in physical fit shape is not easy. It's easier to sit on your behind and watch TV. THE SIG JUST WANTS TO BE WITH THEIR PARTNER. That is why I say the chubby one always brings down the fit one. You are not together when the sig spends 2+ hrs away in the gym.

secostley

My preference leans toward women who are "thick" or to use my Southern venacular, "healthy." Yep, thick and a little shorter than me--around 5'6", in the Size 10 range. A man needs something to hold on to.

albinogorilla

chubby........... abs on a girl never work for me

KimmyEB

You have to feel comfortable in your own skin. If you have fat on you and your OK with that then your man can be that way also. I personally am not happy unless I hold my body in shape. I prefer my woman to be in shape also. I have been athletic my whole life. If your partner likes to be in shape then you must be in shape also. I'm sure that your partner would appreciate it in bed the same as you do. The fatter one always drags down the fitter one. Habits run thick.

Ermmmmm eh?

Exactly like it reads. You know you look and wish when you see somebody in shape and hot. You know you do. If your comfortable with the chub then that is your preference. Somebody who takes time to be in physical shape wants the same. If they don't, that will be a very very rare case. If you havn't been fit.....within the last 5 years then you are used to having chub. I'm not talking about "I was a track star in High School. I'm talking about a current state of mind.

NO ONE goes to the gym to be fit for their chubby mate. NOBODY. I know fit couples and fat couples. I know fit sig's with their chubby sig's. The chubby always brings down the other. Being in physical fit shape is not easy. It's easier to sit on your behind and watch TV. THE SIG JUST WANTS TO BE WITH THEIR PARTNER. That is why I say the chubby one always brings down the fit one. You are not together when the sig spends 2+ hrs away in the gym.

I like how you tell THEM what THEY do. Also, your entire second paragraph is incorrect. "The chubby one always brings down the other?" Uhhhh, no. I'm chubby, and my boyfriend is athletic, yet I work out more than he does, and I eat healthier than he does. It's a new lifestyle for both of us, yet neither of us "brings the other down." And so what if you aren't together at the gym? Does your partner need to be shoved up your anoose 24/7? I personally enjoy my "me" time, and don't like working out with ANYONE, usually. It certainly doesn't drive a wedge between us. I'm not sure where your line of thinking came from.

As for me, I've dated guys who are thin, guys who are average weight, guys who are overweight. With the exception of my boyfriend, all of my ex's have been 6'+. My "type" growing up was tall with suuuuuper dark hair, and pale. And looking back on it, they were all way too cocky and arrogant. Things change, though! I've noticed that with my first boyfriends, they were average/chubby, with one being obese on the BMI scale. Then I dated a guy who was a little too obsessed with achieving body-builder status for my liking. My boyfriend now is my "type." He's about a half inch shorter than I am, light/medium brown hair, and tan. Completely opposite of what my "ideal" man used to be, but I wouldn't change a thing about him. My "ideal" image has evolved. He's also in amazing shape, IMO, and neither overweight nor underweight, but he wants to put on more muscle. He also isn't cocky or arrogant in the least. I feel extremely lucky! I definitely do not like TOO MUCH hair, but I don't want to be dating a girl, either.

juliecat1

Im a fan of some chub! Little bellies are cute.
As for hair, makes me no difference as long as its not crazy out of control. If it is, dont shave it - manscape it.

chevy88grl

You have to feel comfortable in your own skin. If you have fat on you and your OK with that then your man can be that way also. I personally am not happy unless I hold my body in shape. I prefer my woman to be in shape also. I have been athletic my whole life. If your partner likes to be in shape then you must be in shape also. I'm sure that your partner would appreciate it in bed the same as you do. The fatter one always drags down the fitter one. Habits run thick.

Ermmmmm eh?

Exactly like it reads. You know you look and wish when you see somebody in shape and hot. You know you do. If your comfortable with the chub then that is your preference. Somebody who takes time to be in physical shape wants the same. If they don't, that will be a very very rare case. If you havn't been fit.....within the last 5 years then you are used to having chub. I'm not talking about "I was a track star in High School. I'm talking about a current state of mind.

NO ONE goes to the gym to be fit for their chubby mate. NOBODY. I know fit couples and fat couples. I know fit sig's with their chubby sig's. The chubby always brings down the other. Being in physical fit shape is not easy. It's easier to sit on your behind and watch TV. THE SIG JUST WANTS TO BE WITH THEIR PARTNER. That is why I say the chubby one always brings down the fit one. You are not together when the sig spends 2+ hrs away in the gym.

Wow. Alright then. I love when people generalize others. It's great.

If my boyfriend gained a whole bunch of weight, I wouldn't feel like he was bringing me down. I love him for him - not for the number on the scale. And to suggest otherwise, is pretty shallow. Just like he fell in love with me when I was heavier - did I bring him down? Obviously not. He met me at 180lbs. He fell in love with me at 180lbs. He never said one rude, mean or questionable thing about my weight - ever.

I changed my life for me - not for him or anyone else. Clearly he wasn't being "brought down" by me or he wouldn't have been with me to begin with.

bmqbonnie

I have a bit of a range. I tend to like skinny rockstar types, though I also don't want them to be so thin that I feel huge in comparison. Lean for sure, body builders kinda scare me off. Would go for someone that looks like he swims or runs cross country over someone that looks like he wrestles if you get my drift.

No strong preference for hair, but oh there seems to be an epidemic of mustaches in my area. Fact: NO ONE LOOKS GOOD IN A MUSCTACHE. Sometimes a neat one is ok with a goatee or something, but please no big bushy caterpillar lips.