Okay, so some people are a**holes

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  • DWilbanks
    DWilbanks Posts: 420 Member
    Sorry but I'm a give as good as get type girl. I would have said " Oh look, there's two pr*cks, and just like their saturday nites their hanging limp doing nothing."

    ummm but I get kinda mean when people talk smack to me.. you did just fine by ignoring them.
  • cherdan
    cherdan Posts: 162 Member
    I am so sorry :(

    You don't put them in their place?? It feels good to do no matter what your size. You have to reclaim your power. You cannot be a silent victim.

    This reminds me when I was 16 and on a field trip with this horrible, horrible summer school Science class I was forced to take, in which every day I was made fun of for my weight.

    I was about a month into my severe anorexia (which lasted about 2 years). I was starving and had already lost a significant amount of weight. We went out to a pizza place and while everyone else ordered, I wandered around outside, trying to take my mind off the fact that I was STARVING.

    I walked by a group of male classmates and they started cracking jokes about how I was going to eat all the pizza.

    I wanted so bad to scream at them, 'No, you pig out on the pizza. I didn't eat anything because I am starving myself so you'll leave me alone.'

    Instead I just went back to the bus sat alone and cried.
    The pain from that time in my life never goes away.
  • SuperScrabbleGirl
    SuperScrabbleGirl Posts: 310 Member
    That is a much, much bigger set of emotions to deal with there. My situation was more annoying than anything else. I didn't feel bullied or victimised, but if it was happening every day like yours, I'm sure I would. I'm sorry that happened to you. It's crazy how we let other people have that power over us, especially when we're young. x
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