For the Men: Curly or Straight

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hazelmae123
hazelmae123 Posts: 109 Member
A few weeks ago a man told me my curls were "hot!" That was the first time I heard that. Most of my life I tried to be the fashionably straight hair with total failure. I embraced my curls many years ago and I have been happier ever since. But I have seen on tv shows people talking about men want straight hair. I've even had a man tell me he fell in love with my hair (not me my hair), and I know men always love to play in my hair and twist their hands into it.

So is it true? Do men prefer straight hair?
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  • vaderandbill
    vaderandbill Posts: 1,063 Member
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    Curly and wet (like just out of the shower)...not curly like it was straight but 95% humidity made it curly.
  • BigDaddyBRC
    BigDaddyBRC Posts: 2,395 Member
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    Any way you want it. Hair doesnt make the woman. Hell, shave it like me!
  • JennsLosing
    JennsLosing Posts: 1,026
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    im sure all guys have different tastes, just like us chicks
  • 0PhAtDaDdY
    0PhAtDaDdY Posts: 569 Member
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    I prefer straight but wife sometimes curls it and that looks very good as well.....
  • chrisc16
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    It's the total package for me, and personality is at the top (sense of humor to be exact). You could be the most physically attractive woman alive and be ugly inside - where it counts most. Physical beauty fades over time, it's whats inside that counts most.
  • Valechka
    Valechka Posts: 192
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    My husband said he likes curly hair when they are not fuzzy, sort of like Mimi Driver hair... so sometimes I spend hours to achieve the same for different look, since my hair are really straight. So usually I don't even anything but brush them after shower. I find curls are more beautiful on long hair ;)
  • YogiGirlLucy
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    I have wavy hair and I wear it natural on workout days, and straightened for work and going out. My hubby LOVES it natural, and I never have (although I appreciate it on others), but I am trying to learn to like it more because as much as I love to work out it's gonna be natural more than it's gonna be straight!

    Lucy :)
  • jgbigman
    jgbigman Posts: 63 Member
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    Curly and wet (like just out of the shower)...not curly like it was straight but 95% humidity made it curly.

    Agreed!! But also like long wavy hair as well!!
  • MisterDubs303
    MisterDubs303 Posts: 1,216 Member
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    I love hair that makes a classy statement. Curly, straight, whatever fits you and your face. I do think too many people get comfortable with what they think looks good on them and should experiment more. I can still remember a woman at a gas station 15 years ago whose hair just captured me :love: I had no idea I even liked hair until it made an impression on me that day.
  • JsGirl93
    JsGirl93 Posts: 1,156
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    Interesting, as I too am a curly top naturally. Bumpity bump...
  • Broken_
    Broken_ Posts: 172 Member
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    Curly and wet (like just out of the shower)...not curly like it was straight but 95% humidity made it curly.

    I'm with Him... Outta the shower curly is the hottest.

    After that, it doesn't matter as long as there is enough to pull. (head only)
  • Fiyero
    Fiyero Posts: 31
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    (insert personality most important etc etc.)
    I personally prefer straight but it is not a showstopper.
  • Unwrapping_Candy
    Unwrapping_Candy Posts: 487 Member
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    I'm not a guy, but as a lesbian I definitely prefer straight or slightly curly hair and I cannot stand any hair that's difficult to run my hands through.
  • peanut613
    peanut613 Posts: 438 Member
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    I have curly hair and it's pretty. (It's usually just tossed up in a ponytail, sometimes flat ironed but it takes soo long!)

    I don't really care what anyone thinks. I'm hot just as I am, like it or not. :smile:
  • LisaKyle11
    LisaKyle11 Posts: 662 Member
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    i know this is supposed to be a guy's answer.... but i will throw in my two cents anyway.

    i have wavy-to-curly hair...and most of the time i am happy with it. it takes WAY too long to straighten as it's very thick (only for a special occasion). anyway, my husband says that he thinks the most beautiful women in the world have curly/wavy hair. he used Brazilian and Irish women as examples.

    i am all for natural... if that means waves and curly, go with it and own it!
  • Brandicaloriecountess
    Brandicaloriecountess Posts: 2,126 Member
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    I have curly hair that I usually straighten. I dont like how my hair lays when it's curly.
  • thinby40
    thinby40 Posts: 113
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    My hair is naturally curly and I hate it.....I just cut off 4-5 inches and now it's super curly!! I try and straighten it but I usually don't have the time or patience. Everyone seems to have straight hair now!
  • BeeElMarvin
    BeeElMarvin Posts: 2,086 Member
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    Either curly or straight hair can be extremely hot on a beautiful lady.
  • CaptainGordo
    CaptainGordo Posts: 4,437 Member
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    Curls, curls, curls.
  • EmpressOfJudgment
    EmpressOfJudgment Posts: 1,162 Member
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    I have wavy hair and I wear it natural on workout days, and straightened for work and going out. My hubby LOVES it natural, and I never have (although I appreciate it on others), but I am trying to learn to like it more because as much as I love to work out it's gonna be natural more than it's gonna be straight!
    This is me and my hair situation. However, I know my bf prefers it straight because he usually comments on how good I look when I straighten it, but i don't think he even realizes what is different about it. Ha. The reality is not only do I have wavy hair, but it's also super thick and long. It takes me over an hour and a half to get ready to go if I have to dry and straighten, so natural wins most of the time.

    I know this said "For the Men and I am not a man," but that's why I included my bf's perspective.