How Judgemental are You??

Moofey

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Avalonis

Judging you strictly off the description...

I would. With the lights on. Probably.



**Edit: Crap, I forgot everyone reading the forums doesn't have to read and accept my perv disclaimer. Oh well. F them too.

ket_the_jet

Are you asking how judgmental I am in general? Very.

Are you asking people on the internet to judge you? Sure. Insecure.
-wtk

papastu

Are you asking how judgmental I am in general? Very.

Are you asking people on the internet to judge you? Sure. Insecure.
-wtk

horndave

You can say you are certain things on here. I would have to know you as a person to determine if I liked you or not. Other than that, you can be anything or anyone. Don't know you personally.

I try not to judge people. I have enough problems of my own to worry about.

BethanieK

Alright, so... A few months ago I posted on CalorieCount pretty much this same thing, I am basically going to ask you to judge me for my appearance or people like me.. I got slammed for using the word "cute" and slammed for the whole thing. I want to see how nice people are on here compared to them

Alright just from my appearance, I have blonde hair a bit past my shoulders and I enjoy having make up on most of the time. Yes I do wear short shorts to work out in but I make sure they COVER my cheeks! No one wants to see that! LOL, I like to look presentable and yes this means feeling cute, beautiful and sexy (But in a tasteful manner) (ALL GIRLS SHOULD FEEL THAT WAY) I drive a white 2007 Mustang which I do love because it goes pretty fast!(I am not an obnoxious driver, I am pretty nice except when someone tail gates me, then I am an *kitten*...) :P AND NOW to throw the curve ball! My favourite animals are my cuddly Henry and Louie! But.... What are they? You will never guess :P Oh and I used to have a pet tarantula which I loved. (I love spiders... Well the good ones)

So what do I sound like?

A spoiled daddy's girl? Or just a normal run of the mill girl. Throw some opinions out there and I will let you know how I really am

Am I judgmental, not really.

It's feels like you are looking for validation from people you don't know, and that seems well....kind of sad, and a wee bit pathetic. But, I won't judge ya for it.

MrsBrosco

You have WAY too much time on your hands and I could feel my IQ dropping just for reading this post.

Thank you for that :grumble:

dmpizza

I am judging that you overthink things when some jerk cyberbullies you.
Relax.

Just1forMe

So what do I sound like?

Young. Oh so very young

sovannac

Very young

Moofey

Actually the reason I was doing this was to compare how nice the people were on this site to another one. The point of it was not for me to be judged but to see how nice YOU ALL were.

kapeluza

ShapeUpSidney

Young. Oh so very young

+1

SkateboardFi

everyone's judgmental. it's human nature. people will view your actions, appearance and what you say, and make a judgement call about you. it might not be about you as a person. it might be about whether they want to spend time with you, date you, befriend you, or even entertain a small forum topic on mfp. but EVERYONE judges.

Moofey

I love being young.

myofibril

You sound cute, spontaneous and fun to me. I would date someone like you if I were single and about a decade younger.

Having said that I am going to judge you quite harshly for buggering up the "Y U NO" guy meme. Your profile pic should say "LUKE, Y U NO JOIN ME" not "LUKE Y YOU NO JOIN ME."

(I am going to conveniently miss the part where I made a very similar mistake myself in the past using the same exploitable meme...)

ETA: just so you know, I wrote the ^^^^ without seeing your follow up posts.

Tantrisis

I will take a guess and say your Henri and loui are pet snakes, if you like spiders then it would be no surprise that you also like snakes and other reptiles. That's great because I do like them if they are behind a glass wall with no means of escape
I can't believe some one slamed you because you used the word " cute" there is nothing wrong with cute, I've been called that all my life and I figured that by the age of 40 people would stop but when your cute your cute.
Who cares what any one elce thinks, it's how you feel about your self that counts and it's obvious that some one that has self esteem issues on that web site needed to take you down a few notches and it looks like it worked because you now are in need of validation.
True beauty is inside and it does not matter what kind of car you have or the clothes you wear, if you've got nice things then enjoy them appreciate them and take good care of them. What is important is that you are who you are and don't let others rain on your parade.

ShapeUpSidney

Actually the reason I was doing this was to compare how nice the people were on this site to another one. The point of it was not for me to be judged but to see how nice YOU ALL were.

Well how do you define "nice" ? Because if nice = polite + not helpful, then you probably won't find it on the forums. But if nice = gently teaching you how to avoid embarrassing yourself, then you *might* find it here...

SarabellPlus3

I'm going to go with young, mainly because I try to be nice.
To be real honest though, I'm sure you're adorable, but you sound like you really, really need to hear that, you know? As you grow up, I think you will get more confident in yourself and not have to look for validations.




eta: Of course I'm judgemental. I have a brain in my head, I use it to make judgements. Whether someone will consider me "mean" or "nice" depends on their OWN judgements, I guess. Deciding if I am mean or nice is, of course, you being judgemental-- even if you decide I'm nice enough, that is your JUDGEMENT of my personality.

JennaM222

I missed something. How is this going to help me lose weight again?

Moofey

Well, I didn't mind sharing how I am its what ever you think.

MissMaryMac33

Just judging by this post, I would say insecure, needing attention and probably quite young.

morganhccstudent724

Everyone judges everyone.


You sound young and....well...needy. In need of approval or validation or something...I'm not sure.

Who cares if your "spoiled daddy's girl" or "run of the mill"

Focus on being you.

Moofey

I am so very young, 21 to be exact. Yes I posted this to see how many people were judgemental but it would have been rude of me to post about someone else and how do you find something like that out. You have to give people something to judge, so I decided why not make it me. I guess I should have explained why I posted this before posting it so I apologize for not explaining my reasons in advance. My intentions were not to get validation just to see if people really were nicer on this site. So far it seems like you all are! I have a lot of things to learn because I am so young, and being young is something I cherish.

PeachyKeene

Yesterday one of my good friends chewed me out. Saying I dress to sexy period, for work, for play, to workout. I never show anything .You know my shorts go down about an inch below my butt cheeks. No boob to show. Anyway, but I do wear makeup, dress nice for work, sometimes a dress, or pencil skirt about an inch above the knee. Three of my other friends agreed with her, but they all work together. They get in her office, by the way, she is their boss, and have a great big hen pecking contest, about me and my sexy clothing. Whatever, their problem is more the fact that I use to be the fat girl that didn't wear makeup or try to look any better, to being someone that values how they look. It hurt me deeply.

But, I have decided that if these things make me feel good and it is what I want. I don't care who is judging me. Don't f.u.c.k.ing look if you don't like it. And if your man is looking, well take it up with him, NOT MY PROBLEM.

I do think you may be hurt by something someone else has said to you. Don't worry about it. Seriously! People tend to judge others negatively to make them feel better about their miresable lives. You sound a lot like me, someone that is insecure, wanting everyone to like them and accept them, trying really hard to please everyone, and your little friends you dearly love, love you unconditionally. My little animals are two chiuaua's Sweetpea and Bear and I have a cat named Buttercup. They are always very excited to see me, never judge me, give me lots and lots of loving.

nikki778

Not to be a ***** but :
Ok so you work out in short shorts but claim your mudflaps dont hang out, you wear make up & drive an old school 'sports' car, 2 pets to cuddle with (most likely snakes)~
What is there to judge honestly? Are you trying to sound sexy?

Judging you based on the facts that you listed Id say its all materalistic & vanity which proves you to be a typical young girl.

How about what you do for a living, what gets you out of bed in the morning, your goals in life & what you do to accomplish them~take off the makeup, get out of the car & show who you are. What you stand for. Then ask people to judge you but on things that actually matter. With A website forum its quite hard to judge your character & personal values with what you posted.

Good Luck on your weight loss & getting the attention you seek=)

Moofey

Crap lol. Messed that up! Sorry.

I listed the first things people notice normally about a persons appearance, that's why I sound so materialistic.

I will list what you listed now and some history about myself .

Helenatrandom

You are who you are. I'd guess your pets are reptiles, because cuddling a spider could be dangerous to them.
I can think of only one time someone seemed judgmental to me here about something I posted. I probably deserved it. It was late at night, and I had two windows open with two different questions, and I answered the wrong question. My answer had NOTHING to do with the post, so I can't blame a reader for thinking I was a jerk.
People on this forum are actually very supportive.

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