How Judgemental are You??

Moofey

Back story, Had a full time job at 15 working at the docs office ( My aunt works there so I was able to work) I have always loved animals especially reptiles and have wanted to be a vet ever since I was little but got a stronger calling to work and find a way to be a missionary which is what I would really like to be. I work 10-12 hour days 5 days a week with weekends off, I work at a mortgage fraud company which is all I can really say about it. My family and friends mean the world to me and I would do anything for them to be honest, I share everything I have with anyone. Sometimes people have taken advantage of how nice I am which I am sure has happened to us all. Maybe this post has to do with the eating disorder I struggled with for 9 years (called fat and was beat up in elementary school all the way up to high school when I weighed about 70-90 pounds) Also, I do pay for that car myself, insurance and all

Moofey

Must add! I know we all have had hard experinces and they all impact us in a bad way, I am not looking for pity.

SarahxCheesecake

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statia152

I have an observation: This is not the first time you've asked people to judge or rate you. That is all.

myofibril

It seems to me the point the OP is endeavouring to me make is fairly sophisticated. It is that human beings judge or statistically discriminate against others based on imperfect information given the logistical difficulties in being able to accurately *kitten* or gather full details of the all people they encounter as opposed to outright prejudice. Then when new facts about the person are revealed which contradicts the initial and sometimes faulty initial impression gained it can lead to a paradigm shift in perception.

Or: never judge a book by its cover.

I thank you.

I'm here all week. Try the veal.

voluptas63

I love it when people ask if they're materialistic and whatnot (WHICH MAKES YOU MATERIALISTIC) then you post reasons why you're not materialistic.

Don't ask a question if you're not prepared for the answer. Especially a question that has a GLARING answer.

Moofey

It seems to me the point the OP is endeavouring to me make is fairly sophisticated. It is that human beings judge or statistically discriminate against others based on imperfect information given the logistical difficulties in being able to accurately *kitten* or gather full details of the all people they encounter as opposed to outright prejudice. Then when new facts about the person are revealed which contradicts the initial and sometimes faulty initial impression gained it can lead to a paradigm shift in perception.

Or: never judge a book by its cover.

I thank you.

I'm here all week. Try the veal.

Thank you, thats what I was trying to say I just couldnt say it...

fteale

I am massively judgemental, and have no problem with that. We all do it, all the time. I couldn't care less how pretty or young or well dressed someone is, but I am likely to notice after a while if that's all there is to them, and probably think they are a bit vapid.

So yes, I judge, but I don't judge on first impressions/looks. Unless someone is overweight, wearing clothes 4 sizes too small revealing offensive tattoos, with a toddler in a pushchair with a bottle of coke (/lucozade/fanta), while the parent blows cigarette smoke all over them. Then I judge on first impressions.

fteale

Or to put it another way. If you have funny pets because you really love them (and I really love reptiles, but I don't agree with keeping animals in cages), wear short skirts because you like them on you, smile because you are a happy person, then great. You sound lovely.

If you do those things because you think they will make other people think you are cool - you are probably a bit of an idiot.

SarahxCheesecake

It seems to me the point the OP is endeavouring to me make is fairly sophisticated. It is that human beings judge or statistically discriminate against others based on imperfect information given the logistical difficulties in being able to accurately *kitten* or gather full details of the all people they encounter as opposed to outright prejudice. Then when new facts about the person are revealed which contradicts the initial and sometimes faulty initial impression gained it can lead to a paradigm shift in perception.

I was gonna say that !

lizzybethclaire

I am not a judgmental person, but I am not typical. I was bullied throughout elementary school and high school and it really affected how I viewed most people and the world around me. It made me pay more attentions to a person's actions that the things they were saying.
I dont' know you or too much about you. What I am guessing is that you are somewhat insecure and need to know that people find you attractive. I used to be insecure too. People who are bullied tend to be insecure and have low self-esteem. You dont' need a survey on MFP to find out how judgmental people are and I doubt that is why you asked the question. You just want to know that people are paying attention to you and that people think you are attractive and special.
I know saying "it doesn't matter what others think" isn't what you want to hear, but it is the truth. YOu have to feel like you are special. Until you start to believe in yourself you are always going to feel this way. Hope I did not hurt your feelings, I was not trying too.

Moofey

I feel special and beautiful and dont give a rip what people think 90% of the people on here think I am posting this to get attention. Why do I need to get it from people online, anyway this post really needs to go away.

kapeluza

I feel special and beautiful and dont give a rip what people think 90% of the people on here think I am posting this to get attention. Why do I need to get it from people online, anyway this post really needs to go away.

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