Just don't bother

KMSForLife
KMSForLife Posts: 577 Member
edited October 3 in Chit-Chat
I enjoy MFP. I enjoy the accountability. I enjoy learning new aspects of nutrition/fitness. I enjoy the "just for fun" message boards. Sometimes when I look at a post and it's something that I can't offer any value to, then I just kindly go back to the main screen. There is no real reason to be hateful, right? So, when you're feeling negative and you can't appreciate a topic someone has posted - just don't bother responding. Kindly move on your way.
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  • Agreed...just walk away and no one gets hurt.
  • godblessourhome
    godblessourhome Posts: 3,892 Member
    I enjoy MFP. I enjoy the accountability. I enjoy learning new aspects of nutrition/fitness. I enjoy the "just for fun" message boards. Sometimes when I look at a post and it's something that I can't offer any value to, then I just kindly go back to the main screen. There is no real reason to be hateful, right? So, when you're feeling negative and you can't appreciate a topic someone has posted - just don't bother responding. Kindly move on your way.

    +1
  • philOHIO
    philOHIO Posts: 520 Member
    I agree... have dropped a couple of friends for similar reasons. This should be a site for support!
  • rmartin72
    rmartin72 Posts: 1,085 Member
    Very well said and I honestly agree with you kstrawn78 :flowerforyou:
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    If only everyone saw it that way but too many are of the mindset that if they don`t like something it must be made to go away.
  • FairyMiss
    FairyMiss Posts: 1,812 Member
    I completely disagree, it is a requirement of this website to post on every topic. Even if you know nothing about it , otherwise how are you gonna look all smart and all?
  • puggleperson
    puggleperson Posts: 740 Member
    Totally!!!!!!!
  • NuttyBrewnette
    NuttyBrewnette Posts: 417 Member
    I completely disagree, it is a requirement of this website to post on every topic. Even if you know nothing about it , otherwise how are you gonna look all smart and all?

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • KMSForLife
    KMSForLife Posts: 577 Member
    I completely disagree, it is a requirement of this website to post on every topic. Even if you know nothing about it , otherwise how are you gonna look all smart and all?


    Lol

    I'm not even sure if you were serious or not but I took it as sarcasm and in that manner it was funny . . .
  • Grimmerick
    Grimmerick Posts: 3,342 Member
    well said in a perfect world, however this will never happen..........you are the 12,876 to post a thread just like this.............well maybe this one will stick.........prob not though, but good to keep trying
  • McKayMachina
    McKayMachina Posts: 2,670 Member
    OMG SHUT UPPPPPPPPPPPPP ABOUT THIS

    LOL

    Seriously. Ten times a day this topic.

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    Stop trying to manage other adult strangers' behavior. /ironic statement
  • Johnnyswife
    Johnnyswife Posts: 1,447 Member
    I completely disagree, it is a requirement of this website to post on every topic. Even if you know nothing about it , otherwise how are you gonna look all smart and all?
    :laugh: :laugh:
    Yeah...I've been guilty of saying stuff that seemed negative, even if i didn't intend for it to be negative..I've been trying harder to just walk away instead...
  • Qarol
    Qarol Posts: 6,171 Member
    Does disagreeing with someone = I'm being negative?
  • binary_jester
    binary_jester Posts: 3,311 Member
    Two negatives make a positive.

    Besides this is the interweb...it thrives off of bickering and pron.
  • KMSForLife
    KMSForLife Posts: 577 Member
    OMG SHUT UPPPPPPPPPPPPP ABOUT THIS

    LOL

    Seriously. Ten times a day this topic.

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    Stop trying to manage other adult strangers' behavior. /ironic statement


    Perhaps you should've walked away :laugh:
  • FearAnLoathing
    FearAnLoathing Posts: 4,852 Member
    Does disagreeing with someone = I'm being negative?

    Around here it does
  • skittybang
    skittybang Posts: 1,525 Member
    Yes - I don't post if I know nothing of the subject matter, if I do I will post whether I am in agreement/disagreement, but what i am guilty of is the intermittent inappropriate joke. Think of "The Office" and Micheal's "That's what she said.." If someone says something that can be misconstrued in a hilarious way, I usually take the bait. It's never to hurt, just to lighten the mood.
  • dls06
    dls06 Posts: 6,774 Member
    If you don't have something nice to say don't say anything.
    Is said for a reason. :flowerforyou:
  • voluptuous_veggie
    voluptuous_veggie Posts: 476 Member
    Two negatives make a positive.

    Besides this is the interweb...it thrives off of bickering and pron.

    I enjoy pron.
  • KMSForLife
    KMSForLife Posts: 577 Member
    Does disagreeing with someone = I'm being negative?


    Nope - you can disagree and be respectful. But let's face it - there are some on here that are anything but respectful and downright just rude.
  • McKayMachina
    McKayMachina Posts: 2,670 Member
    Does disagreeing with someone = I'm being negative?

    Around here it does

    Exactly. I am not going to be quiet because you can't handle dissent.

    Deal with it.
  • My3Rayz
    My3Rayz Posts: 373
    Does disagreeing with someone = I'm being negative?

    Only if it's me you're disagreeing with!! Otherwise, you are wise and powerful, oh Great Q!
  • infamousmk
    infamousmk Posts: 6,033 Member
    Does disagreeing with someone = I'm being negative?

    Around here it does


    Around here it's trolling.
  • dls06
    dls06 Posts: 6,774 Member
    Does disagreeing with someone = I'm being negative?

    Around here it does
    You can disagree without bashing. We all know it can get pretty bad sometimes.
  • suzycreamcheese
    suzycreamcheese Posts: 1,766 Member
    i post if i feel like it
  • ilookthetype
    ilookthetype Posts: 3,021 Member
    Does disagreeing with someone = I'm being negative?

    It also makes you a hater
  • I feel that the mankini is doing alot of supporting therefore I must be negative to keep the world in place.
  • FairyMiss
    FairyMiss Posts: 1,812 Member
    Yes - I don't post if I know nothing of the subject matter, if I do I will post whether I am in agreement/disagreement, but what i am guilty of is the intermittent inappropriate joke. Think of "The Office" and Micheal's "That's what she said.." If someone says something that can be misconstrued in a hilarious way, I usually take the bait. It's never to hurt, just to lighten the mood.


    okay skit i am not sure which is more disturbing your headbanging women or your profile pic
  • KMSForLife
    KMSForLife Posts: 577 Member
    Does disagreeing with someone = I'm being negative?

    Around here it does

    Exactly. I am not going to be quiet because you can't handle dissent.

    Deal with it.


    My original post said nothing about disagreeing. It's about being a jerk. There is a difference.
  • FearAnLoathing
    FearAnLoathing Posts: 4,852 Member
    Does disagreeing with someone = I'm being negative?


    Nope - you can disagree and be respectful. But let's face it - there are some on here that are anything but respectful and downright just rude.


    And there are just as many that whine about people being rude when all the are doing is stateing their opinions.The words Negitive an rude get flung around this site like monkey poop.
    I will continue to act the way I always have around here and im sure everyone else will too
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