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Chaosdrone
Chaosdrone Posts: 171
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I have a situation. lol I like this black girl in my trade school and i never dated a black girl before. from what people tell me me doing my thing on mfpi seem to inspire her to get into shape and i was told she is intrested in talking to me. what do i do?
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  • wickedcricket
    wickedcricket Posts: 1,246 Member
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    really?! um... talk to her like any other girl? it's NOT a thing unless people MAKE it a thing. Age, race has NOTHING to do with it- people are people. Just talk, find out if there's any interest and let nature take it's course. It's not rocket science
  • Katbaran
    Katbaran Posts: 605 Member
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    Just take it one step at a time. Start by chatting and see where it goes. Good luck!
  • ket_the_jet
    ket_the_jet Posts: 1,257 Member
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    lol I like this girl in my trade school and i never dated a girl before.
    I fixed that for you. Gotta go with wickedcricket's advice. If you treat her differently than you would another race or ethnicity or religion, etc., you're off to a bad start.

    Since it sounds like you've never dated before, I would remind you that the average woman costs $12,500/year to date. In comparison, the average dog costs just over $10,000 over its lifetime and porn is free on the internet.

    Good luck.
    -wtk
  • Chaosdrone
    Chaosdrone Posts: 171
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    never dated a black girl.
  • juliecat1
    juliecat1 Posts: 3,455 Member
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    lol I like this girl in my trade school and i never dated a girl before.
    I fixed that for you. Gotta go with wickedcricket's advice. If you treat her differently than you would another race or ethnicity or religion, etc., you're off to a bad start.

    Since it sounds like you've never dated before, I would remind you that the average woman costs $12,500/year to date. In comparison, the average dog costs just over $10,000 over its lifetime and porn is free on the internet.

    Good luck.
    -wtk

    I seriously love Ket. :flowerforyou:
  • ricepattikay
    ricepattikay Posts: 46 Member
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    Black, white, red, yellow, we're all the same on the inside. It's only a big deal if you make it a big deal. Talk to her just like you would anyone. We are only aware of the color difference because we were raised to be. Can you imagine if your parents had taught you that you could only be attracted to blue eyed people and it wasn't ok to date someone with brown eyes, that would just be silly wouldn't it??? Think about it. Go with your heart :) Just a little Mom advise.
  • Begood03
    Begood03 Posts: 1,261 Member
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    I agree, just talk to her and see how it goes.
  • Chaosdrone
    Chaosdrone Posts: 171
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    i will during break
  • Andythefitfamilyman
    Andythefitfamilyman Posts: 420
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    never dated a black girl.
    what does it matter if the chick black????
  • dls06
    dls06 Posts: 6,774 Member
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    We are all human.:noway:
  • Chaosdrone
    Chaosdrone Posts: 171
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    i grew up in a all white lifestyle and went to my trade school and never talked to black people in real life. now i have been working on my multicultrueal awareness here and i am bridgeing hte gap that i had with black poeple.
  • Andythefitfamilyman
    Andythefitfamilyman Posts: 420
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    i grew up in a all white lifestyle and went to my trade school and never talked to black people in real life. now i have been working on my multicultrueal awareness here and i am bridgeing hte gap that i had with black poeple.
    dont worry just because a woman have a different color skin doesnt mean they are going to sprout talons, wings, and a tail
  • Moofey
    Moofey Posts: 444
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    lol I like this girl in my trade school and i never dated a girl before.
    I fixed that for you. Gotta go with wickedcricket's advice. If you treat her differently than you would another race or ethnicity or religion, etc., you're off to a bad start.

    Since it sounds like you've never dated before, I would remind you that the average woman costs $12,500/year to date. In comparison, the average dog costs just over $10,000 over its lifetime and porn is free on the internet.

    Good luck.
    -wtk

    This made me laugh... Alot haha.
  • i_love_vinegar
    i_love_vinegar Posts: 2,092 Member
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    Just be yourself :D It sounds like she likes you~I would recommend treating her well...buy her a cute present that you know she would like and tell her she is pretty etc.~

    I know how it feels having different cultures, so I dont think there is any reason for ppl to get offended by this~The question makes sense, but luckily the answer is very simple as I said (be yourself)^^

    Good luck :D
  • VeganInTraining
    VeganInTraining Posts: 1,321 Member
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    You go up to her and say "yo' beezy, you're looking mighty fine. I hear once you go black you never go back, how about you take me to the moon!"

    Save her the trouble and don't talk to her. You're not worth her time! Color should have nothing to do with how you go about trying to date her.

    Also I really hope this is a joke, a very stupid joke, but a joke...really multicultural awareness? you gotta be kidding me
  • VeganInTraining
    VeganInTraining Posts: 1,321 Member
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    i grew up in a all white lifestyle and went to my trade school and never talked to black people in real life. now i have been working on my multicultrueal awareness here and i am bridgeing hte gap that i had with black poeple.

    what is she a social experiment?
  • Chaosdrone
    Chaosdrone Posts: 171
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    no its job corp a melting pot for all cultures
  • HMonsterX
    HMonsterX Posts: 3,000 Member
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    Pay for sex. It's cheaper in the long run. :)
  • VeganInTraining
    VeganInTraining Posts: 1,321 Member
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    [/quote]

    AGREED.

    Ok, so the poor guy was never exposed to other cultures. Give him a break, he's trying! He likes her, he's obviously not racist. Everyone needs to stop pretending they are color blind. How many of you who responded has actually ever dated someone of a different race??

    [/quote]

    My husband is puerto rican, my boyfriend before that was black (which seriously didn't process in my head until he asked if I had dated a black guy before), one before that Egyptian, my brother in law in Arab....should I go on?

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