Will you flirt with a complete stranger with no intentions ?

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  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    I disagree... I don't ever think flirting is harmless. There is some intention there on one side or the other. It may not be both, but I would bet one side has some thoughts in the flirting scenario. That said... If I flirt there it is because I'm attracted to that person, so there's intentions to some degree.

    I agree with this. Knowingly flirting without intentions isn't very nice ^^

    I disagree. I love to be flirted with, and love to flirt. Anyone i'm flirting with knows i'm married, and it won't go beyond flirting, because i tell them. But it's still nice to have someone show interest in you, or vice versa.

    How you Doooooooooin'?

    (I'm married, FYI) but, I'm doing well... except that i could use some good lovin...

    smiley-love036.gif
  • _Timmeh_
    _Timmeh_ Posts: 2,096 Member
    I don't really know how to flirt and if I did with a stranger it would probably end with me being lead away by the police.

    Haha, same. Or get a topic started about me being the creepy guy at the gym.
  • Banks01
    Banks01 Posts: 945 Member
    I never.




    On a somewhat related note,

    LADIES, when you smile at a man when he's working out, it's quite the motivator. It happened to me twice on a trail last week where I was running (running out of gas!) I get a smile and and was energized, I got another and felt a surge of energy and motivation. I ran harder.


    It was probably for my puppy but I don't care, it works. Please do it more!
  • Most definitely!!!!!:smooched:
  • ThePhoenixRose
    ThePhoenixRose Posts: 1,978 Member
    I disagree... I don't ever think flirting is harmless. There is some intention there on one side or the other. It may not be both, but I would bet one side has some thoughts in the flirting scenario. That said... If I flirt there it is because I'm attracted to that person, so there's intentions to some degree.

    I agree with this. Knowingly flirting without intentions isn't very nice ^^

    I disagree. I love to be flirted with, and love to flirt. Anyone i'm flirting with knows i'm married, and it won't go beyond flirting, because i tell them. But it's still nice to have someone show interest in you, or vice versa.

    How you Doooooooooin'?

    (I'm married, FYI) but, I'm doing well... except that i could use some good lovin...

    smiley-love036.gif

    LOVE THAT!!! Nothing wrong with a little booty rub though, is there?!?!
  • maab_connor
    maab_connor Posts: 3,927 Member
    um, only all the time. i'll shake my girls at someone, i have no shame.
  • ThePhoenixRose
    ThePhoenixRose Posts: 1,978 Member
    um, only all the time. i'll shake my girls at someone, i have no shame.

    And this is why i love you.
  • trixylewis
    trixylewis Posts: 197 Member
    i prefer to flirt with no intentions, less pressure that way :tongue:
  • d2footballJRC
    d2footballJRC Posts: 2,684 Member
    I don't believe in flirting. Flirting leads to doing the dirty which leads to stds and pregnancies. After evaluating my life thanks to MFP forums, I have determined by avoiding bananas for breakfast, paying attention to sugar more than my calorie deficit, throwing away my HRM and using MFP number - 25%, and not flirting thus not getting STD's and kids I can increase my life expectancy by several thousand years. Only if I eat my exercise calories back though!

    That and I'm ugly so if I flirt it just comes off creepy!
  • CoachMaritova
    CoachMaritova Posts: 409 Member
    I never.




    On a somewhat related note,

    LADIES, when you smile at a man when he's working out, it's quite the motivator. It happened to me twice on a trail last week where I was running (running out of gas!) I get a smile and and was energized, I got another and felt a surge of energy and motivation. I ran harder.


    It was probably for my puppy but I don't care, it works. Please do it more!

    I smiled just reading that!!! Just so you know. ;)
  • My3Rayz
    My3Rayz Posts: 373
    I don't really know how to flirt and if I did with a stranger it would probably end with me being lead away by the police.

    Haha, same. Or get a topic started about me being the creepy guy at the gym.

    Oh, you're the one that topic was about...
  • My3Rayz
    My3Rayz Posts: 373
    I don't believe in flirting. Flirting leads to doing the dirty which leads to stds and pregnancies. After evaluating my life thanks to MFP forums, I have determined by avoiding bananas for breakfast, paying attention to sugar more than my calorie deficit, throwing away my HRM and using MFP number - 25%, and not flirting thus not getting STD's and kids I can increase my life expectancy by several thousand years. Only if I eat my exercise calories back though!

    That and I'm ugly so if I flirt it just comes off creepy!

    I think your sexy :flowerforyou:
  • bigdaddycowgill
    bigdaddycowgill Posts: 120 Member
    Nope! I am very outgoing, though, and because I smile at everyone I see and joke with people all the time, people sometimes think I'm flirting when I'm just being friendly or silly. Whoops!


    I'm the same way! I talk to EVERYONE & love to compliment people & I don't consider it flirting, but others do. I'm a happily married man, so there's never any intentions behind it. Well, I flirt with my wife all the time, & there are absolutely intentions behind it then...
  • tjnahm
    tjnahm Posts: 73 Member
    According to my wife.... I am the biggest flirt she ever met. haha. I often lean-in when I talk to women (waitress, clerks, strangers, etc), I smile a lot, and apparently I give the "sexy eyes" to every women I talk to... haha. Fortunately my wife knows I am blissfully in love with her and she knows that I only have eyes and a heart for her. Though sometimes after she nails me for flirting again I go out of my way to remind her how wonderful, sexy, and beautiful she is too. :)
  • MFPAddict
    MFPAddict Posts: 2,069 Member
    yes.... :flowerforyou:

    :love: :love: :love: :love: :love:

    What was the question again?
  • d2footballJRC
    d2footballJRC Posts: 2,684 Member
    I think your sexy :flowerforyou:

    I'm not falling for it. You just want my soul.
  • skittybang
    skittybang Posts: 1,525 Member
    Absolutely!
  • ZebraHead
    ZebraHead Posts: 15,207 Member
    I flirt alone, yeah
    With nobody else
    I flirt alone, yeah
    With nobody else
    You know when I flirt alone
    I prefer to be by myself!


    :drinker:
  • d2footballJRC
    d2footballJRC Posts: 2,684 Member
    According to my wife.... I am the biggest flirt she ever met. haha. I often lean-in when I talk to women (waitress, clerks, strangers, etc), I smile a lot, and apparently I give the "sexy eyes" to every women I talk to... haha. Fortunately my wife knows I am blissfully in love with her and she knows that I only have eyes and a heart for her. Though sometimes after she nails me for flirting again I go out of my way to remind her how wonderful, sexy, and beautiful she is too. :)

    So are you saying you are a white knight? I think most women thinks their men are huge flirts.
  • legmotor
    legmotor Posts: 197 Member
    Nothing wrong with smiling at someone. I like flirting. I think flirting a lot with no intentions can lead to trouble if the intent is misread.
  • fakeplastictree
    fakeplastictree Posts: 836 Member
    I'm not much of a talker to begin with. I am only like that on this site. I'm extremely shy in person. BUT! My husband is a big flirt, not intentionally, people just think he is flirting with them cause he's super nice.
  • tjnahm
    tjnahm Posts: 73 Member
    LADIES, when you smile at a man when he's working out, it's quite the motivator. It happened to me twice on a trail last week where I was running (running out of gas!) I get a smile and and was energized, I got another and felt a surge of energy and motivation. I ran harder.

    hahaha... on a related note... I played my best round of golf by a LONG shot one day when a very attractive female playing solo joined our small group and we were flirting the whole time. I shot 8 strokes under my previous best round that day... haha
  • bluefox9er
    bluefox9er Posts: 2,917 Member
    the real skill lies in flirting with someone you know or have known for YEARS...it's easy to flirt with a complete stranger :-)
  • My middle name is Flirt :)
  • tjnahm
    tjnahm Posts: 73 Member
    So are you saying you are a white knight? I think most women thinks their men are huge flirts.

    haha, exactly! I always tell her "I am just me", then flash my biggest flirty smile and "sexy eyes" at her... she loves it... then usually slaps me. haha
  • PZlady
    PZlady Posts: 137 Member
    Of course! Mild flirtation is fun.
  • Kany
    Kany Posts: 336
    yes. married people like me can only give a look, a smile but never a touch. :blushing:
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    I disagree... I don't ever think flirting is harmless. There is some intention there on one side or the other. It may not be both, but I would bet one side has some thoughts in the flirting scenario. That said... If I flirt there it is because I'm attracted to that person, so there's intentions to some degree.

    I agree with this. Knowingly flirting without intentions isn't very nice ^^

    I disagree. I love to be flirted with, and love to flirt. Anyone i'm flirting with knows i'm married, and it won't go beyond flirting, because i tell them. But it's still nice to have someone show interest in you, or vice versa.

    How you Doooooooooin'?

    (I'm married, FYI) but, I'm doing well... except that i could use some good lovin...

    smiley-love036.gif

    LOVE THAT!!! Nothing wrong with a little booty rub though, is there?!?!

    LOL.

    As long as there isn`t pepper spray involved. smiley-scared003.gif
  • LeeKetty1176
    LeeKetty1176 Posts: 881 Member
    nothing wrong with looking
  • My3Rayz
    My3Rayz Posts: 373
    I think your sexy :flowerforyou:

    I'm not falling for it. You just want my soul.

    but but :devil:
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